After round one, my trainer looked me right in the eyes and said to me in Thai, "Be confident."
I didn't have time to think about it. I just trusted him, went back out, and fought like I meant it. I won that fight.
That 10-second interaction sat with me for a long time after.
What people clap for is the win with your hand raised, the walkout, the highlight reels.
Those all matter. They're certainly not nothing. But those aren't the parts that mattered the most to me in my fight career.
The parts that stuck with me were things before, during, and after the fight that revealed something about myself. The parts nobody's narrating for you, the parts that only show up if you're paying attention to yourself, not just the outcome.
Training will teach you the technique. It'll build your skill, your conditioning, your trust in your team.
But what it can't give you? The insight of where your confidence truly lies. Whether you'll find a way to dig deep when you're exhausted or hurt. How you will learn from every fight, no matter the outcome. The ways you will come back from decisions and situations that are not in your favor.
You have to arrive at all of those things, somehow, yourself. Quietly and under the radar. Small, private revelations, stacked up over time, that actually shape you more than any single result ever could.
My first trip to Thailand (December 2015 - Jan 2016) was amazing, but many parts of it came as a culture shock. I'm someone who likes plans, schedules, and knowing what to expect. I appreciate straightforwardness and people who respect each other's time and energy. I can be spontaneous, just not all the time.
I had spent weeks asking about my fight. Every answer was "Wait. Tomorrow. Promoter no answer."
One evening, a trainer casually sat down at dinner and dropped the news like he was talking about the weather.
I immediately had questions: "Who is it? What's her record? Is she Thai? How much does she weigh?"
There was no "fight camp build-up." No obsessing over the opponent. No time for everyone to ask the same repeating questions about weight cuts and fight prep. You just train, and then you fight.
It wasn't that I didn't like it. It was just so foreign to me.
Now that I've been living and fighting in Thailand for years, I prefer the "Thai way" for most situations. But it's context-dependent. For big fights, there needs to be better planning and strategy. For smaller fights? The "oh by the way" approach actually keeps you enjoying training and fighting, focusing on what's important
But that first trip threw me completely off balance 🤣 And that wasn't the only thing that caught me off guard...
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👀 If you're planning your first trip (or your return) and want to navigate these invisible rules better than I did... I wrote The Ultimate Guide to Training in Thailand specifically for this.
📖 covers the training, etiquette, etiquette, the gym culture, what you should bring, what fights in Thailand are actually like, and how to set realistic expectations so you can focus on what you came for.
I wrote it from lessons learned through my own experiences and things I've repeated to people over and over again. A lot of people spend significant money, time, and resources to make a training trip to Thailand happen. This guide is for people who want to make it the best experience they can, not for people who want to wing everything and don't care if they have a good time or not.
There’s a lot of "medieval" advice out there about smashing your shins with bottles or baseball bats to "kill the nerves." It looks "hardcore" on social media, but it’s actually one of the most toxic myths in Muay Thai.
What are the craziest things you (or a teammate) have done in the name of shin conditioning? Let me know below!
Angela Chang - Pro Muay Thai Fighter
After round one, my trainer looked me right in the eyes and said to me in Thai, "Be confident."
I didn't have time to think about it. I just trusted him, went back out, and fought like I meant it. I won that fight.
That 10-second interaction sat with me for a long time after.
What people clap for is the win with your hand raised, the walkout, the highlight reels.
Those all matter. They're certainly not nothing.
But those aren't the parts that mattered the most to me in my fight career.
The parts that stuck with me were things before, during, and after the fight that revealed something about myself. The parts nobody's narrating for you, the parts that only show up if you're paying attention to yourself, not just the outcome.
Training will teach you the technique. It'll build your skill, your conditioning, your trust in your team.
But what it can't give you? The insight of where your confidence truly lies. Whether you'll find a way to dig deep when you're exhausted or hurt. How you will learn from every fight, no matter the outcome. The ways you will come back from decisions and situations that are not in your favor.
You have to arrive at all of those things, somehow, yourself. Quietly and under the radar. Small, private revelations, stacked up over time, that actually shape you more than any single result ever could.
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"Oh yeah, by the way... you fight in two days."
My first trip to Thailand (December 2015 - Jan 2016) was amazing, but many parts of it came as a culture shock. I'm someone who likes plans, schedules, and knowing what to expect. I appreciate straightforwardness and people who respect each other's time and energy. I can be spontaneous, just not all the time.
I had spent weeks asking about my fight. Every answer was "Wait. Tomorrow. Promoter no answer."
One evening, a trainer casually sat down at dinner and dropped the news like he was talking about the weather.
I immediately had questions: "Who is it? What's her record? Is she Thai? How much does she weigh?"
There was no "fight camp build-up." No obsessing over the opponent. No time for everyone to ask the same repeating questions about weight cuts and fight prep. You just train, and then you fight.
It wasn't that I didn't like it. It was just so foreign to me.
Now that I've been living and fighting in Thailand for years, I prefer the "Thai way" for most situations. But it's context-dependent. For big fights, there needs to be better planning and strategy. For smaller fights? The "oh by the way" approach actually keeps you enjoying training and fighting, focusing on what's important
But that first trip threw me completely off balance 🤣 And that wasn't the only thing that caught me off guard...
---
👀 If you're planning your first trip (or your return) and want to navigate these invisible rules better than I did... I wrote The Ultimate Guide to Training in Thailand specifically for this.
📖 covers the training, etiquette, etiquette, the gym culture, what you should bring, what fights in Thailand are actually like, and how to set realistic expectations so you can focus on what you came for.
I wrote it from lessons learned through my own experiences and things I've repeated to people over and over again. A lot of people spend significant money, time, and resources to make a training trip to Thailand happen. This guide is for people who want to make it the best experience they can, not for people who want to wing everything and don't care if they have a good time or not.
Grab the book via Amazon!
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There’s a lot of "medieval" advice out there about smashing your shins with bottles or baseball bats to "kill the nerves." It looks "hardcore" on social media, but it’s actually one of the most toxic myths in Muay Thai.
What are the craziest things you (or a teammate) have done in the name of shin conditioning? Let me know below!
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#shinconditioning #muaythai #MuayThaiTips
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I am not just one thing. And neither are you.
You don't have to fit into anyone's idea of what a fighter should be.
Be all of it. Be none of it. Just be whoever YOU want to be.
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#muayying #muaythai #muaythaifighter
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Chiang Mai vlog - Manasak & Hongthong Muay Thai
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