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I WANT HIS DESIRE, NOT HIS SURVIVAL INSTINCT

Since there's been a bit of discussion under one of my "Make Him Yearn" subliminals, I think some still misunderstand what these are actually about.

When I create a Devotion, Obsessed, Yearn, Provider, whatever kind of subliminal, it is still about YOU. It has always been about you. We are not sitting here trying to remotely control a grown man from the comfort of our rain sounds. 🎺🪿

What we're actually doing is teaching your subconscious that being wanted, valued, pursued, invested in, appreciated and treated well is completely normal. Once those assumptions become normal, your behavior changes naturally. Low effort stops looking attractive. Confusion stops feeling exciting. Inconsistency stops feeling mysterious. You're not impressed by things that should have been standard in the first place. 🍵🗿

And once YOU change in that direction, he will either have to step up or step out!

And in BOTH cases, that is the best thing that could happen to you!!

When I talk about yearning, some people immediately imagine a man unable to function because he hasn't heard from you in six hours. Respectfully, absolutely not. That sounds less like romance and more like a hostage situation.

Maybe I've simply seen too much at this point, but I genuinely get the ick when somebody's entire emotional state revolves around one thing. A man. A job. A city. An income. An outfit. Doesn't matter. Stalking follower lists. Becoming insecure because he disappeared for one weekend. Comparing yourself to his ex. Turning one person into the chairman of your nervous system.

I can't relate! 🎪📯

If a man tells me he doesn't want something, amazing. Thank you for the information. If he doesn't want to invest, thank you for the information. If he can't provide something I want, thank you for the information. That's not me being cold. That's me not arguing with reality. And that's why I don't have wrinkles and live a stress-free life. 🛶🍵

The kind of yearning I'm talking about is actually beautiful. It's admiration. Curiosity. Anticipation. Desire. The pleasure of wanting more of someone. Healthy, secure men experience that too. Many of them genuinely enjoy investing in someone they value. They enjoy planning. They enjoy helping. They enjoy showing effort. They enjoy creating experiences. They enjoy being good at being men.

Revolutionary concept, apparently. 🏹🎟️

And it takes a very wicked mind to look at that and conclude that you aren't worthy of it unless you fight, argue, negotiate, convince, prove, monitor and suffer for it.

Because on the other side of that dynamic is a woman who can receive all of it WITHOUT becoming dependent on it:
She already has herself.
She can validate herself.
She can soothe herself.
It's always a bonus. Not oxygen.

That's the energy behind these subliminals: just a subconscious standard so high that nonsense starts looking ridiculous.

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The average person is being influenced by advertising, headlines, algorithms, social conditioning, childhood programming, prayers, laws, hate comments, and repetition all day long...

but affirmations are apparently where things get unrealistic.

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WHY IS YOUR DREAM LIFE 3 WORDS LONG?

A gentle intervention for anyone currently staring at their phone waiting for a text message... 💀

I think some of you have accidentally reduced your entire manifestation to... a notification. A text. A little bubble on a screen. A few words that may or may not arrive while he's sitting on the toilet, half paying attention, sending the exact same energy to three other women. 🚽📱

Please be serious for a second.

If what you truly want is love, commitment, devotion, consistency, security, marriage, a beautiful life, financial abundance, emotional fulfillment, amazing experiences, and a relationship that genuinely adds value to your life... why are you measuring success by whether your phone lights up?

That's like wanting a castle and becoming emotionally attached to the drawbridge. Don't fall into that trap. The fantasy of the text is often much bigger than the text itself.

Because let's be honest: after the text arrives, then what? You still have the same standards to figure out. The same self concept. The same desires. The same life you're trying to create.

A message doesn't solve any of that. 🍸✨

Sometimes I wonder how old some of you are because the way you're talking, you'd think this mysterious text message contains the meaning of life, the location of Atlantis, and your tax refund. Meanwhile, I would much rather see you sit down and write a list of 100 things you want to experience, receive, become, create, attract, learn, own, or achieve!

100.
Not 5.
Not "him."
One hundred.
Open your horizon again.

There is so much more available to you than waiting for somebody to type.

Think bigger.

Desire bigger.

Imagine bigger.

Your dream life should not fit inside a text message! 👑🩷✨

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I actually got the idea for this umbrella sub after meeting someone yesterday. We were catching up, talking about business, projects, and everything that's been happening lately. At one point he started telling me how much his company had grown, how he'd expanded it, how things were moving in the right direction, and honestly it was super impressive. Yet almost before he'd even finished talking about it, he felt the need to add that his love life was suffering because all of his focus was going into work.

And that got me thinking.

Even when something genuinely good is happening, people often seem to rush to provide evidence that they're STILL struggling somewhere else. Almost as if success needs a disclaimer attached to it. Almost as if fully owning a win would somehow be too much.

What fascinates me is that this pattern shows up everywhere. Start taking care of your appearance and people act as though your intelligence must be suffering. Become ambitious and you're warned that stress will eventually destroy your health. Focus on your family and you're told your dreams will have to shrink. But then chase your dreams and apparently your personal life has to pay the price. Somehow there's always a story explaining why one area of life can thrive, but only at the expense of another. 💀🎟️🌵

After hearing these ideas enough times, they stop sounding like opinions and start sounding like facts. A person can end up carrying these assumptions for years without ever consciously choosing them. The mind begins treating them like rules of reality. Then one day you're no longer questioning those ideas. You're organizing your entire life around them.

Personally, I think that's complete nonsense.
No part of me believes abundance needs to arrive with a punishment attached.
I'm not interested in negotiating with life. I'm not interested in choosing which area gets to thrive and which one has to struggle.

The assumption we're installing here is much simpler:

Things get to go right simultaneously. I have it all! 💅🍒

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