Jillian Turecki is a renowned relationship expert, NY Times bestselling author, and host of the Podcast, Jillian On Love. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped millions over the last 20 years through her teachings, courses, social media, and writing to revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they transform their romantic relationships. Jillian is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and very authentic style of coaching, teaching and writing.


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You’re ready for a relationship when you’re ready to be a we, and not just a me.

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If we want healthier relationships, the first and most important step is increasing our empathy and compassion for each other.

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Feeling safe is not the only thing we need in a relationship. But without it, it won’t work long-term. To love someone is to want them to feel free, relaxed, and calm around you. Not anxious.

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Most people are too hard on themselves. They’ve internalized a narrative of unworthiness that impacts every other area of their life. When you start treating yourself like someone worth showing up for, everything in your life—from your relationships to your well-being, transforms.

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Praise your partner. Tell them they’re beautiful. Tell them they’re hot. Tell them they’re intelligent, strong, funny. Tell them the things that make them uniquely them. We need to be reminded, often, of how special we are to each other. It costs nothing and it takes 10 seconds. But it can shift the entire energy of your relationship.

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No relationship is perfect. But the good ones have these in common.

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We don’t talk enough about how our choice in partner shapes our health and life.

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No one has a perfect life or relationship history. Not one person.
We do the best we can. And we’re usually just trying to be enough for the person we love. I hope you can forgive yourself and start to let it go.

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For a lot of people, finding love after 40 (and well beyond) is the first time they can love without losing or abandoning themselves. You’re not too old. You’re finally clear on who you are.

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Reject the idea that your worth is measured by how much you can endure.
You were not put here to prove your strength through exhaustion or to earn love by carrying more than your share.
The best thing you can give your family, your relationship, your work, and yourself is your fully nourished, fully present self.
Take care of you.

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