You can’t “new year, new me” your way out of a boundary problem

You can’t “new year, new me” your way out of a boundary problem

Your body’s been telling you for weeks

Your brain learnt this a long time ago

You’re not staying for the whole event

You’re not overreacting

The guilt trip is coming

"But we're family." Words designed to override everything you feel

Honest question: How many hours have you spent reading about boundaries vs actually practising them

That’s not a fair fight

Save this for when you need it

You need embodied practice

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Save this for when you’re about to set boundaries . Your nervous system needs proof you can say it

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Here’s what to watch for: • They announce plans in front of everyone (audience pressure) • They use

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It’s proof your nervous system was trained to believe safety requires approval

After years of people-pleasing, your body mistakes guilt for danger

Caption option (aligned with your tone and psych-informed authority): ⸻ Caption: When peace feels

Ever walked away from a conversation wondering how you became the villain? DARVO is a defense

You’re not the problem! 🚫 Ever felt like you’re apologising for calling out harm? That’s DARVO:

Gaslighting isn’t miscommunication

Who exploded the loudest when you stopped being available all the time?

You weren’t raised

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What does sisterhood mean to you? For me, it’s the women who see you breaking and say, “Not on my

They said I’d never achieve anything

They don’t mean selfish

Gaslighters thrive on pulling you into endless fights

Truth: boundaries don’t create conflict

You’re not selfish for saying no, you’re saving yourself

You’re not dramatic

If they trained you with guilt, silence, and shame, that wasn’t love — it was coercive conditioning

These were my anchors during the Vyse crash

These low-energy rituals came from my AuDHD shutdown days

These low-energy rituals came from my AuDHD shutdown days

I didn’t post

They said tattoos made me disrespectful

They said tattoos made me disrespectful

i didn’t pivot for a trend

Healing is messy

You’re not rebuilding who they told you to be

You’re not behind

#mumpreneurs #depression #motherhooddepression

I missed you all! 💜 Last week, I had to step back to process a lot—turns out, 30+ years of health

Ever felt like something was off, but you couldn’t quite explain why? That’s not overthinking—it’s