🌿 I heard something that stopped me in my tracks… Most of what we carry—stress, burnout, even body aches—is actually emotional. And healing doesn’t start with doing more… it starts with listening to ourselves.
I learned this simple tool for breaking bad habits: ✨ Feeling — What am I feeling right now? ✨ Function — What am I trying to fix or soothe? ✨ Feedback — How do I feel afterward?
Sometimes the answer isn’t more discipline. It’s deeper compassion.
And maybe… just maybe… it’s time to forgive. Not for them, but for you.
Let’s heal, one honest moment at a time. 🧡 #DestineesCorner
Some days healing feels so powerful. Then other days it feels exhausting. I wanted to tell you that you are not unmotivated.. you are just tired. I know you are trying and sometimes that is more than enough.
There are days when just getting out of bed is a win. When brushing your teeth or answering a text feels like climbing a mountain. You see no one talks about that part of healing. The part that is still and quiet. The part where progress is more so survival.
Please understand you do not have to be full of energy or have clarity to be growing at your own pace. You are still in your healing phase when you make mistakes. You are still in your healing phase when you don’t know which way to turn. You are still healing on the days you want to quit.
Even when you look online and your healing looks nothing like what healing looks like for others.
The real truth is all you have to do is show up. Show up however you can and that is enough.
Not everyday is meant to be a breakthrough. Some days are meant to be survived.
So if today, all you did was keep going, I am proud of you. And if you’re not okay, you don’t have to pretend to be. You are not alone here. Not in this space, not in your pain, not in your process.
This blog is for the ones healing quietly. You are doing better than you think.
Feel free to share how you are really doing today in the comments. This is a safe space.
I don’t want to go viral. I want to go deep. I want my words to heal your heart once it is ready. I want my words to love on your soul. I want to show you that even though I can’t give a physical hug my words are a hug within themselves. I want my videos to be a place that you can always return to when you forget who you are.
May I stop trying to rest that I already deserve May I release what I was never meant to carry May I trust God who's brought me this far... will walk me into this next season too.
Destinee
Destinee
Some hits were meant to break you… but you’re still here. 🌱✨ That strength is what my next episode is all about.
🎧 “The Hit That Didn’t Take Me Out” releases September 30th on the Beautifully Unbalanced Podcast.
Set a reminder this is one you won’t want to miss. 💛
#BeautifullyUnbalanced #HealingJourney #FaithOverFear
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Destinee
🌿 I heard something that stopped me in my tracks…
Most of what we carry—stress, burnout, even body aches—is actually emotional. And healing doesn’t start with doing more… it starts with listening to ourselves.
I learned this simple tool for breaking bad habits:
✨ Feeling — What am I feeling right now?
✨ Function — What am I trying to fix or soothe?
✨ Feedback — How do I feel afterward?
Sometimes the answer isn’t more discipline. It’s deeper compassion.
And maybe… just maybe… it’s time to forgive. Not for them, but for you.
Let’s heal, one honest moment at a time.
🧡 #DestineesCorner
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Destinee
You're allowed to outgrow seasons, habits, people, and even old versions of yourself
Growth is not betrayal. It's obedience.
Rest in that tonight.
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Destinee
What's something you're learning to fully accept yourself?
Drop it in the comments if you feel led. No judgement, just space.
I'll go first below
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You're not too sensitive. You're just finally feeling what you've been carrying.
May this week bring softness, clarity, and quiet strength. You're allowed to heal loudly or in silence.
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Destinee
What's something that's been quietly teaching you lately?
Sometimes the smallest things shift us the most.
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When Showing Up Is All You’ve Got ❤️
Some days healing feels so powerful. Then other days it feels exhausting. I wanted to tell you that you are not unmotivated.. you are just tired. I know you are trying and sometimes that is more than enough.
There are days when just getting out of bed is a win. When brushing your teeth or answering a text feels like climbing a mountain. You see no one talks about that part of healing. The part that is still and quiet. The part where progress is more so survival.
Please understand you do not have to be full of energy or have clarity to be growing at your own pace. You are still in your healing phase when you make mistakes. You are still in your healing phase when you don’t know which way to turn. You are still healing on the days you want to quit.
Even when you look online and your healing looks nothing like what healing looks like for others.
The real truth is all you have to do is show up. Show up however you can and that is enough.
Not everyday is meant to be a breakthrough. Some days are meant to be survived.
So if today, all you did was keep going, I am proud of you. And if you’re not okay, you don’t have to pretend to be. You are not alone here. Not in this space, not in your pain, not in your process.
This blog is for the ones healing quietly. You are doing better than you think.
Feel free to share how you are really doing today in the comments. This is a safe space.
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Destinee
You have not fallen behind. You are just learning to move at the speed of your own healing.
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Destinee
I don’t want to go viral. I want to go deep. I want my words to heal your heart once it is ready. I want my words to love on your soul. I want to show you that even though I can’t give a physical hug my words are a hug within themselves. I want my videos to be a place that you can always return to when you forget who you are.
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Destinee
Here's a prayer for tonight
May I stop trying to rest that I already deserve
May I release what I was never meant to carry
May I trust God who's brought me this far...
will walk me into this next season too.
Amen
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