🎀 enter the world: diaryofadictatress.com

Hi, I’m Jessica Harlow — former “OG beauty guru,” turned writer, commentator, and Dictatress.

I make provocative (and occasionally unhinged) observations about women, men, power, relationships, reinvention, current events, culture, and whatever else I can’t stop thinking about.

Part cultural commentary, part personal philosophy, part group chat I probably shouldn’t have made public.

Welcome to my dictatorship, where I share how to break the rules and get away with it.


Jessica Harlow

the truth about trad wife influencers...

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 2

Jessica Harlow

Sometimes, the girl everyone underestimates is already five steps ahead

New video: “why bimbos get ahead & smart girls stall” 🎀

3 months ago (edited) | [YT] | 1

Jessica Harlow

from beauty influencer to bad influence. 💅🏻🚬

new video up. đź’‹

3 months ago | [YT] | 8

Jessica Harlow

We need to talk! Looksmaxxing, Morning Shed Routines...people are doing too much.

4 months ago | [YT] | 1

Jessica Harlow

the election is every day. new video up now.

4 months ago | [YT] | 1

Jessica Harlow

The beauty era is behind me, but I'm still just a girl! I put together my honest Sephora sale picks — no sponsorships, no gifting, just what's actually in my cart. dictatress.substack.com/p/im-an-ex-influencer-here…

4 months ago | [YT] | 8

Jessica Harlow

Carolyn Bessette Kennedy: Love Story or Cautionary Tale? My first video back discussing how women disappear in relationships.

5 months ago | [YT] | 3

Jessica Harlow

Happy Easter Sunday... this channel is undergoing a bit of a resurrection.

5 months ago | [YT] | 2