G.R.O.W.T.H. Talk w/ Kofa

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G.R.O.W.T.H. Talk w/ Kofa

This time on… Find! 👏🏾That!👏🏾 Lie!👏🏾

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God help us! Thank you ‪@Mona_D‬!

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On Lindsey Clancy and Those of Her Ilk:

The amount of money and time I’ve had to spend to try and get custody of my son because his mom has “mental health” issues is ridiculous.

NONE, of you (yes, even mothers) can tell me anything about how serious postpartum or mental health is. If it were as serious to the extent of murdering children, I, a present and capable father, wouldn’t be in this fight. Nor, would any man like me. But, ‘that’s the way it is’ right?NONE of you give a damn about that. Daddy, battles depression? Get over it. Daddy is tired? Figure it out.

“Kofa, do you know what it’s like to…(insert bs excuse I’d never be given)”.

I’m more than aware mental health is real. Again, my own struggles would be no grounds for harming my children. However, the open and blatant support women are giving other women for murdering their children, is the support people say men give abusers. No immediate firings, no suspension, and no backlash other than a few people with questions for any of these supporters. A $1M GoFundMe and a bunch of TikTokers crashing out later, men are proven right again.

8 kids killed in Louisiana just 4 months ago y’all didn’t want to hear one word about mental health. A man found out all 3 of “his” kids weren’t his, and shot his wife. No mental health or trauma support discussions were had. Again, men were right.

Gentlemen, take note of the women in your circles and their thoughts on this. We’re supposedly a threat, especially those of us who actually work. Keep fighting. Don’t kill your kids, or yourself.

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I Don’t Do Diaspora Wars😪

Everybody that’s FBA now, were AFRICAN American 5 years ago. Most of you have done ZERO research into your own actual lineage and are following a trend. The “we’ll never know” is counterproductive to the argument of not being African.

The same adult FBAs were calling any kid from Africa or the Islands, that didn’t sound or dress like us back in the day “African booty scratchers”, now you’re offended when “them Africans” say something negative about “FBAs”.

To my “tethers”, our (across the diaspora) cultures and countries are different. Respect Black American history. Coming in after things have been built and cleaned up enough for SOME of you to finesse the system, but look down on Black Americans because “you aren’t like us” is shameful, and makesnyoubjuat as hateful as anyone else.

We all were told the same lie, at the same time, from the same group of people, for the same amount of time, took different boat rides, and yes, some were here already.

To BOTH sides or whatever space you think you fall in, we need each other. We NEED each other, because we have HARMED each other AND again, ourselves (whatever space you’re claiming).

Everyone has come too far to have this knit picky fight still going in 2026. Especially amongst the men, because as soon as a cute face and a fat ass with different accent crosses your path…..you know the rest😐. All that pontificating goes out the window.