Kai Decadence

Happy Be-lated Halloween everyone! I originally wasn't sure if I wanted to dress up this year but I decided to at the last minute and went with cisplaying my favorite dark heroine, Raven from the Teen Titans! Because it was more of a last minute thing, I wasn't able to get a wig, the hand jewel emblems, nor a bigger forehead gem in time so I improvised with what I could get and I think it turned out pretty nice, all things considered 😁

Anyway, I hope you all had spooktacular Halloween!
🎃🦇🎃🌕

#halloween #goth #gothyoutuber #gay #gayman #femboy #teentitans #raven

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4 weeks ago | [YT] | 164

Kai Decadence

This is why we love JK Rowling as she stands firm in her convictions and for the sanctity of women's rights. Emma is a celeb at the end of the day and she will never have to deal with the public the way working class women do and she needs to be reminded of that. And with all the smearing that JK Rowling has received over the years, including it coming from Emma & Daniel, JK has every right to not bother with their (Well, Emma in this case) disingenuous apologies. All in all, JK Rowling's response was great. ❤️

• Link to JK Rowling's Full Tweet - x.com/jk_rowling/status/1972600904185483427
• Link to article - nypost.com/2025/09/30/opinion/jk-rowling-laid-the-…

2 months ago (edited) | [YT] | 91

Kai Decadence

Tis' my birthday with another year passed~
I can't believe I'm 34 now but thankfully I still feel fine and I'm just gonna continue this ride called life hehe.

I wanted to draw something for the occasion but I ran out of time so I just got decked out in my favorite outfit 😊
Have a great day everyone!

#Birthday #Goth #GothYouTuber #Artist #Gay

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2 months ago | [YT] | 129

Kai Decadence

So I just heard that I was "called out" yet again on the r/goth subreddit by someone who posted my latest video where I shared what my experience has been like being a gender critical goth (and artist gamer) and of course, the comments were to be expected, trying to paint me as this villain type who's just grifting for money.

First off, I don't make any money from my channel and I never have. Any ads that may run on my videos are not placed on them by myself. And this whole "grift", grift to who? I make no money from my channel and I'm not out there trying to cozy up to conservative figures neither. And clearly the people didn't watch the video or listen very well because I did share how I came to develop my views and it was feminists that in large, helped me see through the lies of trans ideology. Magdalen Berns was not a conservative, Meghan Murphy is not a conservative. And it's interesting how they say that gender critical people are "fascists" when last I checked, gender critical people are not trying to shut down communication with the opposed. Last I checked, gender critical is not pushing for people to destroy their health in the wake of indefinite, misplaced feeling(s). Last I checked, gender critical people are not out there assaulting people who disagree

And just some other things that i saw which pretty much came down to them not understanding why a feminine presenting, gender nonconforming gay man like myself can have the views I have, to that I have to ask why? I have never said that I don't think people should be gender nonconforming, that would make me a hypocrite considering the person that I am and I think people should present themselves however they prefer. And speaking for myself, I understand that at the end of the day that regardless of how I prefer to look like or style myself, I am still a man, an adult human male and if anything, it shouldn't be surprising why I don't support an ideology that demands people to lie about objective reality.

And as far as the goth scene goes, no, it was not built by "trans" people. Yes, the scene was very welcoming and encouraging of breaking gender norms & embracing gender nonconformity but the people at the time were not saying that they were the opposite sex for doing that. You didn't see people like Siouxsie Sioux claiming to be a man when she cut her hair super short and dressed in masculine styles nor did you see Rozz Williams claiming to be a woman because he liked to present in a hyper feminine style. Back in those day, for the most part, people in the scene knew understood that not conforming to socially constructed gender roles & norms did not change their sex.

But at the end of the day, this is why I came out about my views. I wanted to show that you don't need to be a conservative to understand biological reality and to see how much of a (problematic) sham that trans ideology really is when you take a step back and truly analyze it. That just because you're a goth (or alternative in general), you don't have to believe in an ideology that makes no sense when you truly examine it with critical thinking. I made the videos I did to try to give another perspective that maybe one had not thought about and do I regret it? Absolutely not. Sure, it's been a lot more lonelier since I've come public with my views but I've also seen that I did reach some people and that is enough for me. And for those who have stuck around, I appreciate you very much, thank you~

2 months ago | [YT] | 196

Kai Decadence

"Now I will tell you what I've done for you 50 thousand tears I've cried Screaming, deceiving, and bleeding for you And you still won't hear me (going under)"

20+ years later and this album still plays in my head 🖤

Just some tribute fanart for this iconic album that provided an anthem for so many of darklings who grew up with it in the 2000s

3 months ago | [YT] | 113

Kai Decadence

King Critical's videos on the logical fallacies of "trans" ideology are usually good but this one is especially good and I highly recommend watching because he really breaks it done in such a great way.

4 months ago | [YT] | 24

Kai Decadence

Dedicated to the godfather of metal and the "prince of darkness". Ozzy was one of a kind and though his time to rest has come, his legacy will forever live on. Thank you for all that you've done...

RIP Ozzy Osbourne ✞

#OzzyOsbourne #RIPOzzyOsbourne #BlackSabbath #Fanart

4 months ago | [YT] | 113

Kai Decadence

I'm still very shook over the news about Ozzy Osbourne's passing yesterday and it has been on my mind since then. I wasn't like a die hard Ozzy Osbourne fan and mostly just listened & enjoyed his classic songs but still, I have lots of respect and admiration for what he did for music. After all, he and Black Sabbath were the ones who pioneered the genre of heavy metal! Nonetheless, he's going to be so missed and I give my condolesenses to his family, friends, and all the other fans. It's going to be so weird not having the prince of darkness anymore but his spirit will forever live in. Rest easy Ozzy ✞✞✞

4 months ago | [YT] | 37

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I meant to have this art out back in June during Pride Month because of how the TQ+ has overtaken the LGB but i didn't get it finished in time. That said, here is my pro gender nonconforming & LGB PSA art. There is no such thing as "trans"

- Men are adult human males
- Women are adult human females
- Gender nonconforming children are not "trans kids"
- "Man" and "Woman" are 𝐧𝐨𝐭 "genders"
- There is no such thing as "transphobia". Knowing what a man and a woman are is not "transphobic".
- And I am so freaking over the word "queer" and people referring to the gay/lesbian community as "queer". We are homosexual, NOT "queer". Stop it.

#gendercritical #gay #lgb #gaypride #transgender #trans #gayartist #artist #digitalart #art

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4 months ago | [YT] | 126

Kai Decadence

Really really love Garbage's new single here, it's so cool to see them exploring more of a dark post-punk influenced sound! I'm super stoked for that new album coming out soon 🖤

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