Lisa Bilyeu

I was 13 years old and I remember creeping into my mums room to tear up a photo she took of me a week before. I had sleepless nights knowing it existed because, after all, it was just MORE concrete evidence of how ugly I was! It was evidence that the "mean girls" in my school were right! I was ridiculed and called concord for how big my nose was. I was mocked for how flat my chest was. They called me Goofy for my buck teeth. So the laaaaaast thing I wanted was for the photo to be lying around!
This was 1992, and I would cry myself to sleep wishing I was different. Wishing I looked and was as pretty as the celebrity models...

Cut to 33 years later (& 20 years of building my confidence), and let me tell you something:
I love my nose. It's mine, it’s bold, and it makes a statement.
I celebrate my small boobs, because let’s be real, no bra in your 40s is an actual superpower 😉
And those buck teeth? Fixed them. But the real fix was how I saw myself.

Confidence isn’t built overnight. But it is built.
And every time you choose self-love over shame, you're laying another brick.

You don’t need to change who you are.
You need to learn to OWN who you are. Fully, loudly, and without apology!!!

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Have you ever faced something so unexpected that it made you question everything? Your instincts, your reality, even your relationship?

This week on Women of Impact, I sat down with Emma Heming Willis: model, author, and founder of Make Time Wellness. She’s also the wife of actor Bruce Willis, and together they’ve faced one of the most heartbreaking journeys imaginable.

When Bruce started acting differently, Emma didn’t know if she was imagining it, if he was just stressed, or if their marriage was falling apart.

In a desperate effort to understand what was happening, she trusted her gut, and it led to a life-changing diagnosis.

In this powerful episode, Emma shares:

• What it feels like when the person you love suddenly starts to change

• The moment she realized “just because one person gets the diagnosis doesn’t mean two people have to die”

• How she found strength in grief, and learned to rebuild her life with purpose and hope

So if you’ve ever faced the unexpected, and you’re ready to GET BACK UP and find confidence when life falls apart… this one’s for you!

Watch the full episode here: bit.ly/4o2XNTa

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2 days ago | [YT] | 849

Lisa Bilyeu

Getting older isn’t a downfall; it’s a GLOW UP in disguise. 😎

Who else feels MORE badass with age? Drop a 🙌 below if you’re with me!

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3 days ago | [YT] | 3,131

Lisa Bilyeu

It was my own personal nightmare to eat alone at school. That moment after getting your food and finding a group of kids you could join would give me heart palpitations. Was there a seat? Was there a seat with the “cool” kids? Or would I be relegated to the “loner” table? And that’s what was crazy.... I didn’t want to sit with other kids who also didn’t have anyone to sit with! Somehow all of us, even collectively, would still be made fun of! But even THAT was better then eating all by myself! Omg I mean the shame! The embarrassment! The ridicule! The weight of not being liked and accepted haunted me. But looking back now I totally see that I didn’t even like myself! So why on earth would anyone else?! I didn’t believe I had a “right” to be sitting at the table (even though I was just stubborn enough to give it a shot every day!). I didn’t honor myself!

Now, talking about it from my school days seems rather abstract right? It was so long ago and many of us have stories like that, that don’t necessarily affect or correlate to the lives we live now. But forget about school days!.... the feeling of being wanted.... the feeling of being accepted... all relates to how we feel about ourselves. Do you feel “worthy”. Do you feel “deserving”. Do you feel comfortable in yourself and believe in yourself enough to NOT care? Well I have worked so much on my own self esteem and self-worth that yes I can safely say... that now... if you don’t see my worth... then honey... I’d rather eat alone!

Drop in an emoji that best describes how you feel when reading this! And SAVE and SHARE IT with anyone who struggles with this and let them know you see them for them!

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When you choose to be real, the WRONG people will fall away... that’s not loss, that’s ALIGNMENT!!! 🙌

5 days ago | [YT] | 9,452

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What’s YOUR secret weapon when you need to bounce back?
Drop it below!💪

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Lisa Bilyeu

Ever wish you could spot a liar or narcissist in seconds before they trap you in their manipulative web and ruin your peace? 👀

This week on Women of Impact, we're revisiting a POWERFUL conversation where I sat down with Chase Hughes, one of the worlds TOP former U.S. military interrogator who now teaches behavioral analysis and influence.

He breaks down how to read human behavior like an FBI profiler, and the patterns narcissists can’t hide, no matter how charming they seem!

In this conversation you’ll learn:

• How to detect deception without sounding accusatory

• The #1 nonverbal cue that reveals a manipulator

• How to expose a narcissist, on the first date

Watch the Clip now: bit.ly/3JfVAoj

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Lisa Bilyeu

Aging isn’t the enemy.

Every wrinkle, every scar, every year is proof you’re leveling UP!

Tell me, what’s the biggest upgrade you’ve noticed in yourself with age?

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Have you ever had that gut feeling that something was off about someone… but you convinced yourself you were overreacting?

In this episode of Women of Impact, I sat down with theeeee legend himself Robert Greene, CIA spy Andrew Bustamante and the #1 narcissist expert Dr Ramani to uncover how manipulators think, how they hook you emotionally, and how to finally take your power back!

These experts break down manipulation like a science, from the psychological tactics used in seduction, to the CIA methods of loyalty conversion, and the emotional traps narcissists use to keep you stuck.

In this episode, we'll cover these key insights:

Robert Greene reveals how manipulators create emotional “wounds” to gain control, and how to spot them on the first date!

Andrew Bustamante breaks down the CIA’s “SAD RAT” process, the same psychological playbook narcissists use to slowly take your independence.

Dr. Ramani exposes why fear keeps you loyal to toxic people, and the ONE question that will tell you if love is real or manipulation.

Don’t ignore your instincts again. Watch the full episode now and learn how to protect your heart and your power! bit.ly/42DWJN5

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1 week ago (edited) | [YT] | 2,264

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One day you'll realize you were never "too much", you were just asking the wrong person!

Before I met Tom, I dated a guy who was sometimes… well he was just mean! I always felt like I wasn't good enough and it took me almost 4 years with him to actually realize that I deserved better.

A couple of years later… I met ‪@TomBilyeu‬
And the rest... as they say... is history ❤️

Save this as a reminder for the next time you think about accepting less than you deserve!

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