Lisa Bilyeu

Healing doesn't mean pretending the past didn't happen.

It's knowing it did and deciding it doesn't get to RUN THE SHOW anymore.

It aint easy.

It bloody sucks.

You can be mad as hell about it.

And you have EVERY right to be.

ANNNNNNND you can also stop allowing it to write your future story.

You deserve so much better, and its about time you believed it!

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Lisa Bilyeu

Watch now 👉 lisabilyeu.watch/stay_unbothered

To learn why closure doesn’t come from the person who hurt you—and how to finally give it to yourself.

“Women are trained to be very kind, very giving, very over-functioning, very loyal, very nice.” — Margarita Nazarenko

And that sounds like a GOOD thing… until being “nice” means you’re constantly explaining yourself, overgiving, monitoring his mood, or waiting for someone else’s attention to tell you whether you’re worthy.

Because when your confidence depends on someone else’s reaction to you, they suddenly have WAY too much power.

So in this episode of Women of Impact, I sit down with Margarita Nazarenko, author of Unbothered, to break down how to build the kind of confidence that makes you harder to manipulate and more capable of trusting yourself.

We get into:

Why inconsistent attention becomes addictive and how to stop mistaking emotional chaos for attraction.

The anti-manipulation moves that give you your power back especially when someone wants you reactive, emotional, or desperate for answers.

The 3 moves to becoming “untouchable” including why the healthy relationship you call “boring” may be the exact thing your nervous system needs.

If you’re DONE letting someone else’s mood, texts, attention, or approval determine how you feel about yourself… homie, this conversation is for you.

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Perimenopause: when your hormones stop asking for permission and start setting boundaries 🙌💪

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Now I'm not usually an emotional person. I don’t cry easily or very often. But I have found myself facing unexpected emotional moments. And after the first few times of saying “what the hell Lisa??” and then feeling worse after it, I decided to give myself grace. Give myself grace to feel and process the emotions, without judging myself. But once I have done that, once I have allowed myself to understand what and why I am feeling the way I do, I then remind myself…. Who. The Hell. I. AM!

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Protect your peace. Let them misunderstand you.

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Turns out, all our incompatibilities came down to worshipping at VERY different altars. 😆

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Truth time... I used to be the person that thought this 😣. Thats a bloody hard pill to swallow now that I'm educated on the subject, but its an important reminder to where others are currently.

Its lack of understanding the power of phycological manipulation. Its a lack of knowledge. And so I think its SUPER important NOT to attack anyone who is naive to say "Why didn't she leave". I dont think most people come from a position of malice.

So if we can start to spread the word and not judge the people that dont know, maybe just maybe we can be the pebble in the ocean that eventually creates a tsunami of change!

Who's with me???

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6 days ago | [YT] | 7,519

Lisa Bilyeu

You call them Witches🧙‍♀️
I call them Wise💅

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Watch now 👉 lisabilyeu.watch/Lindsay_Clancy

To learn how to spot the signs of postpartum mental health struggles and understand what makes the Lindsay Clancy case so complex.

“It’s so hard to meet that only 1% of all felony cases will ever raise an insanity defense.” — Dr. Shannon Curry

Did Lindsay Clancy know what she was doing or was she too mentally ill to understand what was happening?

That question has turned into a MASSIVE debate online, with people fighting over whether having compassion for a mother suffering from severe mental illness means excusing what happened to her children.

But there’s an even bigger problem: most of us don’t actually know where normal postpartum changes end and a serious mental-health crisis begins.

So I brought in Dr. Shannon Curry, clinical and forensic psychologist who took the stand in the Depp-Heard trial, to help us separate fear, assumptions and internet outrage from what forensic psychology can actually tell us.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

How to recognize the difference between baby blues, postpartum depression and postpartum psychosis and the signs women and their partners need to understand.

Why an intrusive thought is VERY different from losing touch with reality and when something frightening actually becomes a warning sign.

How the defense AND prosecution can look at the same evidence and reach radically different conclusions and why our own bias may be making this debate even more divisive.

Ladies, this conversation is heavy. But if you’ve ever wondered, “Could this happen to me? Would I know? Would my partner know?” this is one you need to hear.

Need Support? These Resources Can Help:  

988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: 988lifeline.org/ 

The National Maternal Mental Health 24/7 Hotline: mchb.hrsa.gov/programs-impact/national-maternal-me…

National Helpline for Mental Health, Drug, Alcohol Issues | SAMHSA:  www.samhsa.gov/find-help/helplines/national-helpli…

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Lisa Bilyeu

There’s a BIG difference between a man who wants to feel powerful...

and a man who actually IS secure in his power.

Find the kind of man who doesn't need to dim the woman beside him...

Find the kind of man who's PROUD to watch her shine.

And honestly, that's a hell of a lot sexier than any "alpha" BS act. 🔥

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