Welcome to our tiny oasis for the not-so-perfect, spit-up-stained, crayon-conquering, smile-through-anything super-mamas out there who are looking for a familiar face online.

My name is Victoria Vaden and I’m an English graduate turned full-time YouTuber and #BlackFarmer three gorgeous little humans and more furkids than I can count on our family farm.

My goal is to ensure that no other mama ever feels alone in their journey again. I hope you’re able to find a video here for whatever you’re facing. My prayer is that our shared experiences are somehow able to motivate you to look at your own life differently; and appreciate the super-human strength it takes to navigate womanhood, motherhood, marriage, and everything that comes with these blessings.


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My father passed away two weeks ago. Please be patient with me as I’m trying to navigate through this with my family. Hope everyone had a great new year. 🖤

3 years ago (edited) | [YT] | 16

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My YouTube friend and Soror and I sat down to do a Sorori-Tea talk on her channel. Check it out here:

3 years ago | [YT] | 3

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QOTD: Do you use Discord?

4 years ago | [YT] | 4

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Today’s upload is postponed. Bear with me getting back in the swing of things, but I am SO excited to share this video. I really hope it’s well received. Hint: it’s a curly hair for kids video.

4 years ago | [YT] | 7

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I received my first Instagram sponsorship with The Honest Company to share their Mama Bump Care Kit. Here is 25% discount code for anything on their site: bit.ly/3kledI4. Please share with other moms and enjoy!

4 years ago | [YT] | 14

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My “How To CLOTH DIAPER A Newborn (three ways)” will be up on Monday at 2:00 pm EST!

4 years ago | [YT] | 17

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My Labor + Delivery story will be live on MONDAY at 2:00 pm EST! I was in labor for literally two weeks and I have a long recovery ahead of me 😩 Make sure you tune in! Thank you SO much for the positive and thoughtful messages 💚

4 years ago (edited) | [YT] | 19

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I finally gave birth! Our baby boy was born at 3:02 am on September 8th.

4 years ago | [YT] | 36

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Hi everyone, as of right now, this Monday’s upload may be postponed. I was at the hospital all day yesterday because I'm in preterm labor. Our baby boy is trying to come early, so time will tell.

4 years ago | [YT] | 18

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No new upload tomorrow! My Braxton Hicks felt like serious contractions the past four days, so I haven't been able to do much filming or editing. A new video will be up next week. In the meantime, if you haven't seen our "Things to Do In Destin, Florida" vlog, check it out here: youtu.be/nYZbmQAzMfw!

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