TheProcess Life

17yrs of love, growth, and God’s unwavering grace. ❤️

Today we celebrate 17 years of marriage, and I can honestly say through every season, every challenge, and every joy, God has been the center of our story. He has strengthened our bond, carried us when we were weak, and reminded us that love is not just a feeling, but a commitment rooted in faith.

To my husband Vito Smith, thank you for being my partner, my best friend, and my constant reminder of God’s love in my life. Loving you has been one of my greatest blessings. We are far from perfect, but with God, we are perfectly held together.

Here’s to 17 years… and to many more chapters written by His hands. 🙏..In Jesus Name Amen...

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Marriage isn’t about perfection, it’s about grace. 💛

Two imperfect people, learning, growing, forgiving, and loving each other through every season… all held together by a Perfect God. When we place Him at the center, He fills the gaps, strengthens the weak places, and reminds us what love truly looks like.

Through every high and low, His love is the foundation that never fails. 🙏

#Faith #Marriage #GodAtTheCenter #LoveAndGrace

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Becoming who God has called you to be is not comfortable, it’s costly.

It will stretch you, break you, and separate you from things you thought you needed: relationships, plans, comfort, and even people you once called friend. But nothing compares to what God is building in its place.

This process is not punishment; it’s preparation.

Yes, it hurts. Yes, it gets lonely. But even in the pain, God is working. Every loss is making room. Every tear is watering something greater.

Trust Him anyway. Because what’s on the other side of obedience is far greater than anything you've had to leave behind.

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Hello beautiful soul, I know it’s been a while since you’ve heard from me…

And to be honest, that silence wasn’t by accident. It’s been a season of stepping back, reflecting, praying, and really seeking God for clarity and direction.

This season I’m in now feels like a shift. Things that once felt clear & certain, things God allowed me to build, move in, and walk through, have come to a complete pause. And I’ve found myself sitting with some real questions:

Is this something I’m supposed to release…Or am I being asked to hold on a little while longer?

Am I truly trusting God wholeheartedly…Or am I allowing fear to quietly lead me?
Am I hearing His voice clearly…Or am I listening more to my own inner thoughts?

These are the honest places I’ve been in. And if I can be real, this kind of waiting can feel uncomfortable. When you’re used to moving, creating, and walking in purpose, it’s not easy to be still without clear instructions.

But what I’m learning in this season is this: The wait is not wasted.

There is something sacred about choosing to trust God even when things feel unclear. Even when it feels quiet. Even when you don’t yet have the next step.

So instead of rushing ahead and creating from assumption… I want to slow down and create from connection.

I want to hear from you. I’ve been thinking about hosting some upcoming webinars, intentional spaces where we can grow together and have real, honest conversations around things like:

• Faith-based relationships
• Healing from life trauma
• Journaling for clarity, healing, and breakthrough
• Understanding what may be holding you back from your purpose


I also have several journals I would love to share and pour into during these sessions in a meaningful way. But before I move forward, I don’t want to guess what you need.


I want to ask you directly:

*What are you currently struggling with in this season?
*What do you feel like you need help, guidance, or clarity in?
*Would you be open to attending a live webinar with me?


You can simply reply to the link below and share whatever is on your heart. It doesn’t have to be perfect, I’m truly listening.

NOTE: If you are apart of our email community you should have recieve this message at noon today, so you can disregard this post, but make sure to respond to the email. I want to hear from you!

Before I plan these sessions, I’d love to hear from YOU. What’s on your heart? What do you need help with?

You can share your thoughts here → forms.gle/cvEef2p4ffX5CwC49


Later, I’ll gather everything and we can even choose the topics together as a community.

Thank you for being here with me, even after the silence. That truly means more than you know.

We’re not stuck.We’re being stretched, refined, and prepared.

And even in the waiting…God is still working.

I would love to hear from you ❤️


With love and intention,

Marchelle Smith,

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When God opens your eyes to the truth, some people may suddenly see you as the problem.

Discernment is a gift of the Spirit. It allows you to recognize patterns, see situations clearly, and sense when something is not right, even when everyone else is pretending it is. The truth can be uncomfortable, especially in places where denial has become the norm.

In environments where accountability is avoided, the one who walks in clarity can easily be misunderstood. When you speak honestly, point out inconsistencies, or refuse to go along with deception, others may turn their frustration toward you.

They might call you difficult, negative, or dramatic, simply because you chose to honor God by refusing to ignore what was wrong.

This happens because discernment disrupts comfort and exposes what has been hidden. Choosing honesty in faith forces others to confront realities they might rather avoid. And rather than facing that discomfort, some will blame the messenger rather than the situation.

Being misunderstood for standing in truth is not a failure. Often, it is a sign that you are faithfully walking in God’s wisdom, refusing to participate in what is unhealthy.

Discernment may make you the “villain” in some rooms, but it protects your peace, strengthens your walk with Him, and keeps you aligned with His reality rather than the illusions of the world.

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4 levels of Intimacy...So many relationships today are built out of order.

We start with "physical" attraction.
Then we focus on the "social" how they look, how they post, how they appear to others.
If it makes it that far, we connect on an "intellectual" level.
And somewhere at the top, almost as an afterthought we “add” God.

But when storms hit a marriage, what holds it together?
Feelings fade. Looks change. Opinions differ. Circumstances shift.

If the foundation is physical chemistry or social image, the relationship has nothing solid to stand on when pressure comes.

But when the foundation is "Spiritual" when both people pursue God first, seek His will, and build their lives on Him everything else finds its proper place.

Spiritual first.
Then intellectual, growing in mindset and wisdom together.
Then social, building a life that reflects shared values.
And physical, expressed in the safety and covenant of marriage.

When God is the foundation, love isn’t just emotion, it’s anchored.
It’s not just attraction, it’s alignment.
It’s not just passion, it’s purpose.

Storms will come.
But a house built on the right foundation will stand.

#BuiltDifferent #KingdomMarriage #FoundationFirst

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To All Women Navigating Life, Age, and Change 💛

We live in a world that constantly reminds us of what we "used to be," what we “should look like,” or how our worth is tied to the reflection in the mirror. But here’s the truth: comparing our current selves to our younger selves is unfair and it steals our joy.

Our younger selves weren’t juggling menopause, hot flashes, slower metabolism, hormone shifts, low estrogen, high proteogen, low energy, medical issues, or life’s unexpected challenges. That version of you didn’t carry the wisdom, strength, and resilience you have now.

We are not defined by numbers on a scale, the shape of our bodies, or someone else’s perception of beauty. We are defined by how we rise after challenges, how we persevere through struggles, and how we nurture ourselves and those around us.

It’s time to stop self-sabotaging, stop speaking negatively about ourselves, and stop letting the world dictate our worth. We are survivors. We are children of God. Clothed in strength, dignity, and worth, each and every day.

Let’s focus on being the best version of ourselves strong, healthy, and vibrant and celebrate the woman we’ve become in this stage of life. 💪✨

What’s one way you’ve learned to embrace your current self, instead of comparing to your younger self & taking care of your health and confidence today?”

I’d love to hear from you, share your thoughts in the comments! Someone may need encouragement..

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Faith & Accountability:

When God is the author of your love story, it looks different.

God doesn’t call us to perfection; He calls us to humility.

No one is perfect. But if someone truly cares for you, they will care that their actions hurt you. They won’t ignore it. They won’t defend it. They’ll pray about it, seek help, and take responsibility.

Admitting fault isn’t weakness, it’s Christlike.
Growth is love in action.

If you’re with someone who can’t — or chooses not to, apologize… what are you really holding onto?

Admitting fault isn’t weakness. It’s vulnerability. It’s growth. It’s strength.

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Cheating Is the Fruit, Not the Root:

Cheating isn’t the root of broken relationships, it’s the fruit.

The real root is something many people don’t want to talk about or agree with: not allowing God to be the ultimate Matchmaker.

I’ve said it time and time again, God knows best. He knows what both individuals will become. We look at who a person is RIGHT NOW, but God sees the present and the Future… the person we cannot yet see.

When we rush, lean on our own understanding, trust our flesh, or rely on our limited and finite knowing, we plant relationships in weak soil.

But when we wait, trust, and put our faith in the All-Knowing God, the root of the relationship is established properly.

I didn’t say it would be perfect.
But what God put together nothing can put it asunder.

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We are LIve!!!

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