Welcome to The Process Life, a faith-based community for singles, couples, and those preparing for marriage. Hosted by a husband-and-wife duo, we share real conversations, biblical wisdom, and practical encouragement for navigating relationships and dating God’s way. Whether you’re waiting on your future spouse, seeking a godly marriage, or growing in your walk with Christ, our videos will inspire you to trust God’s timing and purpose.

We also design faith-based and motivational journals as tools to help you grow in your journey — deepening your faith, purpose, and relationship with God. Explore our journals, coaching, and podcast to stay inspired and trust God’s process in every season of life.

Join us for weekly talks on Christian dating, marriage preparation, relationship advice, and spiritual growth. Together, let’s embrace the process - God’s way!

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Cheating Is the Fruit, Not the Root:

Cheating isn’t the root of broken relationships, it’s the fruit.

The real root is something many people don’t want to talk about or agree with: not allowing God to be the ultimate Matchmaker.

I’ve said it time and time again, God knows best. He knows what both individuals will become. We look at who a person is RIGHT NOW, but God sees the present and the Future… the person we cannot yet see.

When we rush, lean on our own understanding, trust our flesh, or rely on our limited and finite knowing, we plant relationships in weak soil.

But when we wait, trust, and put our faith in the All-Knowing God, the root of the relationship is established properly.

I didn’t say it would be perfect.
But what God put together nothing can put it asunder.

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We are LIve!!!

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My sister in Christ Tamisha Curry posted this and it was definitely a must share...

Wife 💍Wednesday:

When Adam was lonely God gave him one woman. Not one man. Not multiple women. Not a one night stand. Not porn. Just Eve.

This is the divine design. God created the ultimate match, the perfect companion, and the ideal partner for His Glory. 🤯💕

He didn't give Adam a temporary fix, He gave him a lifelong gift. He didn't give him a tool for exploitation, He gave him a treasure to cherish and love.💖👑

The beauty of it is, it's not just about Adam and Eve. It's about the blueprint for relationships, it's about the standard for love, and it's about the reflection of God's love for us .💫🌟

One man, one woman, one love, one life. It's not just a concept, it's a covenant. It's not just a feeling, it's a commitment. 💕👫

Let's honor the design, let's respect the institution, and let's cherish the gift of love, DAILY ‼️🪷💕

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My customers, young and seasoned, have found so much help with this journal. After dealing with blows to their self-esteem and self-confidence due to past trauma and situations, this soft touch Guided Prompt and Self-Reflection journal help to Reduce Stress and Improve Well-Being journal has helped their confidence as well as their personal outlook in life. ★★★★★

No more living in fear, anxiety, & stress.

Gift Words of Affirmations and Positivity Journal 🎁to your love one to help them grow their confidence and/or become more positive vs negative. Learn coping skills to manage emotions, thought patterns and mindset.

By using this Special Silk Guided-Prompt journal just a few minutes a day, you can help them turn around their thinking and words in the right direction. (Thoughts become Words, Words become Actions…)

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Thank you so much to everyone who took time out of your day to wish your girl a happy birthday yesterday. I truly, truly appreciate every single message and gesture. ❤️

May God bless each and every one of you. Your kindness meant more to me than you’ll ever know. Thank you for the text messages, monetary gifts, social media shout-outs, emails, phone calls, cards, and every little way you showed love. I felt it all.

I pray that all your dreams come to pass according to God’s perfect will, today, tomorrow, and always. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. ❤️✨

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50. This birthday feels different, purposeful-driven, even. Last year, there were moments I truly didn’t know if I would still be here to see another one… but God. He had other plans for me.

When I was weak, He carried me.
When I was afraid, He covered me.
When my faith wavered, His never did.
He held me together through every tear, every prayer, every silent battle no one else saw.

The older I get, the more I realize that peace means everything. Relaxing, slowing down, and being surrounded by the people I love, that’s all I truly need.
Those simple moments feel like God’s way of reminding me what really matters.

So today, I don’t just celebrate another birthday, I celebrate God’s mercy, His grace, and His decision to keep me here a little longer.

I am walking into 50 with gratitude in my heart, strength in my spirit, and a renewed understanding that my story is still being written by His hands.

Thank You, Lord, for life… for purpose… for another chance.

Here’s to Chapter 50, a testimony of Your unfailing faithfulness. 🙏🏽❤️✨

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"Hello beautiful" was inspired and birth in an unexpected way. I saw this young lady, as she walked passed me I greeted her with a Hello Beautiful.

She turned abruptly with tears in her eyes, and with a trembling voice she said," thank you, you have no idea what that means to me, today I was contemplating suicide."

I embraced her and she held on for a while, just crying. I have no idea what her name is and it really doesn't matter. What matters is compliments and genuine gestures are FREE. Being nice and kind cost you nothing.

You never know what someone is going through and you could be the only light they see.

If you are going through, you are not alone. You are beautiful and a gift from God and the plans He has for you are good and not evil. Don’t give up. Don't quit.

There's more for you to do here on earth. God is not finished with you yet. You are strong, beautiful, and resilient and today I want to greet you and say HELLO BEAUTIFUL ❤️❤️❤️...

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Great gifts for you and your love ones...

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I’m the author and designer of these journals; each one something God placed on my heart to create. Every journal was inspired by my own personal story, my process, and the lessons I’ve lived through. I realized my journey wasn’t just for me; it was also meant to help you on yours.

These journals are tools for personal and spiritual growth, created to support real transformation. If that’s what you’re seeking, you’ll find a safe, gentle space within these pages. I truly believe you’ll feel the benefit of each one.

Every journal was crafted with love and prayer. They have a soft, elegant feel, a reflective foil title, guided prompts, and open spaces for your own writing, 100 pages created with intention, ready to be sent to your doorstep.

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I’m the author and designer of these journals; each one something God placed on my heart to create. Every journal was inspired by my own personal story, my process, and the lessons I’ve lived through. I realized my journey wasn’t just for me; it was also meant to help you on yours.

These journals are tools for personal and spiritual growth, created to support real transformation. If that’s what you’re seeking, you’ll find a safe, gentle space within these pages. I truly believe you’ll feel the benefit of each one.

Every journal was crafted with love and prayer. They have a soft, elegant feel, a reflective foil title, guided prompts, and open spaces for your own writing, 100 pages created with intention, ready to be sent to your doorstep.

theprocesslife.com/journals/

Use code: processlife20

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I saw this post come across my feed, and it really hit home for me. I felt it deeply, because I’ve lived this before. I kept going back to the one who broke me who brought me pain, disrespected me, and cheated on me over and over again.

I thought that if I just loved harder, tried more, or held on long enough, things would somehow change.

But eventually, I realized my worth.

I started believing what God says about me: that I am part of a royal priesthood, wonderfully and beautifully made, and deserving of God’s best for my life.

And that’s why this message resonated so much: Posted by Malcolm MJ…

“They broke you.
And you kept going back …
hoping that if you tried harder,
loved louder,
cried deeper,
they would finally give you the love you so freely gave them.
But here’s the truth:
The person who shattered you is not equipped to restore you.

They don’t have the emotional tools.
They don’t have the spiritual maturity.
They don’t have the capacity to love you at the level your soul requires.

And still, you returned …
not because you were weak,
but because you were human.

Because your heart believed the history you shared could somehow become the future you deserved.

But hear this clearly:

Your healing will never come from the hands that hurt you.

You don’t need their apology to rise.
You don’t need their closure to move forward.
You don’t need their understanding to finally choose yourself.

At some point, you have to accept: they broke you because that’s all they were capable of doing.
And you will heal because you are finally choosing to reclaim your power.

Your healing is yours.
Your peace is yours.
Your future is calling your name … not theirs.

Walk away.
Not in anger…
But in strength.

Because the moment you release what wounded you, you make space for what will love you the way you were meant to be loved.”*

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