TheProcess Life

Whether you’re already a mother, longing to become one, grieving, waiting, or simply learning how to nurture the calling God placed inside of you, your womanhood still carries beauty, value, and purpose.

Your season of waiting is not punishment.
God is still writing your story.

Keep becoming. Keep healing. Keep praying. Keep growing. The right love will never require you to abandon the woman God is shaping you into. 🤍

You are not behind.
You are being prepared.

Happy Mother’s Day to the women waiting on God. 🌷

Waiting for:
• the right husband
• clarity of purpose
• healing
• answered prayers
• spiritual growth

Just because it hasn’t happened yet doesn’t mean God forgot you.

Your waiting season still has purpose. 🤍

Mother’s Day can feel beautiful for some and painful for others.

So today, I’m praying for every woman silently waiting: for love, marriage, purpose, restoration, healing, and deeper intimacy with God.

God knows the desires you haven’t even spoken out loud. 🌸

You are still worthy.
Still chosen.
Still becoming.


Comment “Amen” if you’re trusting God’s timing this season. ✨

Happy Mother’s Day, beautiful soul. 🤍

1 week ago | [YT] | 21

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Judging vs. Truth… where’s the line? 🤔

This has been on my mind lately.

We live in a time where speaking truth is often labeled as “judging.” But are those really the same thing?

John 7:24, “Do not judge by appearances, but judge with righteous judgment.”

That right there shows us: there IS a difference.

Telling the truth about a situation, especially when it’s rooted in biblical principles, isn’t automatically judgment.

TRUTH, simply acknowledges what is.

Judgment, on the other hand, often comes from a place of condemnation, pride, or assuming authority over someone’s heart.

At the same time, truth should always be delivered with humility and love.

Ephesians 4:15 reminds us to “speak the truth in love.” Not harshly. Not to tear down. But to guide, correct, and build up.

So maybe the real question isn’t:
👉 “Is this judging?”

But instead:
👉 “Is this truth being spoken with the right heart?”

Because truth without love can feel like attack.
And love without truth isn’t really love at all.

It’s a balance and one worth getting right.

💬 Let’s talk:

1. When does speaking truth cross the line into judgment?
2. Can you speak truth without offending someone or is offense sometimes unavoidable?
3. How can we check our intentions before correcting someone else?
4. Have you ever been corrected in a way that felt loving? What made the difference?
5. Do people sometimes call truth “judgment” because it’s uncomfortable? Why?

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 26

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Friendly Reminder:

"Repentance isn’t just saying sorry it’s moving different, thinking different, living different. Faith in God shows up in your actions, not just your words. Change is the proof.❤️"

2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 23

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"WHEN GOD SAYS CUT TIES… CUT THE TIES!! ✂️🔥
Not sure who this is for, But it was a friendly reminder for me and I know it will be for you too:

Some of you are praying for elevation…
but still connected to what God told you to release.

You can’t walk into purpose
while holding onto people, habits, and environments
that were only meant for a season.

Let me say it again…

Delayed obedience is still disobedience.

When God says move…
MOVE.

When God says let go…
LET GO.

When God says cut ties…
CUT THE TIES.

Not halfway.
Not emotionally.
Not secretly holding on “just in case.”

CUT IT.

Because what God is trying to take you into
requires a level of freedom
you cannot access while tied to what’s draining you.

✨ Stop negotiating with what God told you to release.
✨ Stop making excuses for what God exposed.
✨ Stop revisiting what God delivered you from.

There is greater on the other side of obedience.

And sometimes…
your next level is waiting on your willingness
to cut the tie".

By Dr. Marquette Walker...

#CutTheTies #Obedience #NextLevel #Healing #Freedom GodsPlan WalkByFaith

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4 weeks ago | [YT] | 23

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17yrs of love, growth, and God’s unwavering grace. ❤️

Today we celebrate 17 years of marriage, and I can honestly say through every season, every challenge, and every joy, God has been the center of our story. He has strengthened our bond, carried us when we were weak, and reminded us that love is not just a feeling, but a commitment rooted in faith.

To my husband Vito Smith, thank you for being my partner, my best friend, and my constant reminder of God’s love in my life. Loving you has been one of my greatest blessings. We are far from perfect, but with God, we are perfectly held together.

Here’s to 17 years… and to many more chapters written by His hands. 🙏..In Jesus Name Amen...

1 month ago | [YT] | 133

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Marriage isn’t about perfection, it’s about grace. 💛

Two imperfect people, learning, growing, forgiving, and loving each other through every season… all held together by a Perfect God. When we place Him at the center, He fills the gaps, strengthens the weak places, and reminds us what love truly looks like.

Through every high and low, His love is the foundation that never fails. 🙏

#Faith #Marriage #GodAtTheCenter #LoveAndGrace

1 month ago | [YT] | 32

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Becoming who God has called you to be is not comfortable, it’s costly.

It will stretch you, break you, and separate you from things you thought you needed: relationships, plans, comfort, and even people you once called friend. But nothing compares to what God is building in its place.

This process is not punishment; it’s preparation.

Yes, it hurts. Yes, it gets lonely. But even in the pain, God is working. Every loss is making room. Every tear is watering something greater.

Trust Him anyway. Because what’s on the other side of obedience is far greater than anything you've had to leave behind.

1 month ago | [YT] | 47

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Hello beautiful soul, I know it’s been a while since you’ve heard from me…

And to be honest, that silence wasn’t by accident. It’s been a season of stepping back, reflecting, praying, and really seeking God for clarity and direction.

This season I’m in now feels like a shift. Things that once felt clear & certain, things God allowed me to build, move in, and walk through, have come to a complete pause. And I’ve found myself sitting with some real questions:

Is this something I’m supposed to release…Or am I being asked to hold on a little while longer?

Am I truly trusting God wholeheartedly…Or am I allowing fear to quietly lead me?
Am I hearing His voice clearly…Or am I listening more to my own inner thoughts?

These are the honest places I’ve been in. And if I can be real, this kind of waiting can feel uncomfortable. When you’re used to moving, creating, and walking in purpose, it’s not easy to be still without clear instructions.

But what I’m learning in this season is this: The wait is not wasted.

There is something sacred about choosing to trust God even when things feel unclear. Even when it feels quiet. Even when you don’t yet have the next step.

So instead of rushing ahead and creating from assumption… I want to slow down and create from connection.

I want to hear from you. I’ve been thinking about hosting some upcoming webinars, intentional spaces where we can grow together and have real, honest conversations around things like:

• Faith-based relationships
• Healing from life trauma
• Journaling for clarity, healing, and breakthrough
• Understanding what may be holding you back from your purpose


I also have several journals I would love to share and pour into during these sessions in a meaningful way. But before I move forward, I don’t want to guess what you need.


I want to ask you directly:

*What are you currently struggling with in this season?
*What do you feel like you need help, guidance, or clarity in?
*Would you be open to attending a live webinar with me?


You can simply reply to the link below and share whatever is on your heart. It doesn’t have to be perfect, I’m truly listening.

NOTE: If you are apart of our email community you should have recieve this message at noon today, so you can disregard this post, but make sure to respond to the email. I want to hear from you!

Before I plan these sessions, I’d love to hear from YOU. What’s on your heart? What do you need help with?

You can share your thoughts here → forms.gle/cvEef2p4ffX5CwC49


Later, I’ll gather everything and we can even choose the topics together as a community.

Thank you for being here with me, even after the silence. That truly means more than you know.

We’re not stuck.We’re being stretched, refined, and prepared.

And even in the waiting…God is still working.

I would love to hear from you ❤️


With love and intention,

Marchelle Smith,

1 month ago | [YT] | 67

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When God opens your eyes to the truth, some people may suddenly see you as the problem.

Discernment is a gift of the Spirit. It allows you to recognize patterns, see situations clearly, and sense when something is not right, even when everyone else is pretending it is. The truth can be uncomfortable, especially in places where denial has become the norm.

In environments where accountability is avoided, the one who walks in clarity can easily be misunderstood. When you speak honestly, point out inconsistencies, or refuse to go along with deception, others may turn their frustration toward you.

They might call you difficult, negative, or dramatic, simply because you chose to honor God by refusing to ignore what was wrong.

This happens because discernment disrupts comfort and exposes what has been hidden. Choosing honesty in faith forces others to confront realities they might rather avoid. And rather than facing that discomfort, some will blame the messenger rather than the situation.

Being misunderstood for standing in truth is not a failure. Often, it is a sign that you are faithfully walking in God’s wisdom, refusing to participate in what is unhealthy.

Discernment may make you the “villain” in some rooms, but it protects your peace, strengthens your walk with Him, and keeps you aligned with His reality rather than the illusions of the world.

2 months ago | [YT] | 55

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4 levels of Intimacy...So many relationships today are built out of order.

We start with "physical" attraction.
Then we focus on the "social" how they look, how they post, how they appear to others.
If it makes it that far, we connect on an "intellectual" level.
And somewhere at the top, almost as an afterthought we “add” God.

But when storms hit a marriage, what holds it together?
Feelings fade. Looks change. Opinions differ. Circumstances shift.

If the foundation is physical chemistry or social image, the relationship has nothing solid to stand on when pressure comes.

But when the foundation is "Spiritual" when both people pursue God first, seek His will, and build their lives on Him everything else finds its proper place.

Spiritual first.
Then intellectual, growing in mindset and wisdom together.
Then social, building a life that reflects shared values.
And physical, expressed in the safety and covenant of marriage.

When God is the foundation, love isn’t just emotion, it’s anchored.
It’s not just attraction, it’s alignment.
It’s not just passion, it’s purpose.

Storms will come.
But a house built on the right foundation will stand.

#BuiltDifferent #KingdomMarriage #FoundationFirst

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