I just want to share a hot take, I'm honestly getting tired of the whole "parasocial relationship" conversation online. I don't agree with people being creepy or weird towards content creators obviously but I think that a lot of creators should appreciate and be thankful for their fans more? I've seen instances where when a fan of a creator or YouTuber says that the creator helped them through a hard time or they don't have any friends which is honestly a lot of people online, the creator acts super weirded out and dismissive towards the person.
I understand creators have boundaries blah blah blah but the truth is a lot of YouTubers and creators wouldn't be in the places that they're in without these parasocial relationships that they supposedly hate so much.
Again, I'm not in support of harassment, stalking etc etc, but I think there needs to be an understanding that if you're online there's going to be people who are weird, if you don't like that, don't post 🤷🏾🤷🏾. You guys can disagree with me but you guys know I'm never gonna cap on my channel lol
I honestly don't know if I should even talk about the looks conversations/discussions of how you're treated in society based on looks anymore after I do my featurism video...
I try to be positive and have an optimistic view on the world despite what I say on this app but after looking at a lot of the comments that people have posted on my latest and most popular video, Its extremely depressing what this type of content attracts at times.
I got a comment recently from someone saying that after being treated as ugly they developed an intense fear of going outside(agoraphobia) and that even after trying so hard to glow up she still doesn't get treated well in society, and unfortunately that seems to be the story of some of the people I've met online and that I've seen in the comments.
I'd like to believe that everyone can make it in this world but unfortunately sometimes it's very hard to cope with the reality of things, I think I'm going to stop talking about looks for a bit after my featurism video.
BROOO I'm scrolling through tiktok for my featurism video, I swear to god most of these people screaming about pretty punishment and having "pretty privilege" be the MOST average to unattractive people I've ever seen, and that's not an insult...
you'll NEVER catch me on this timeline saying that I got all this pretty privilege with my FACE SHOWING... most of the women/men who ACTUALLY HAVE pretty privilege usually are unaware of it or don't think they're all that and this has been studied in psychology, the majority of yall shouldn't even be speaking on this topic and that's why the internet is quick to humble you guys I'm tired of average/uglies saying that they have all this privilege in society because of an arbitrary set of features like "loose curls" "hair texture" "light eyes" "light skin" or whatever...no one cares💀
I'm just learning about this Cynthia g lady recently...why is it that with a lot of these bitter women online it's always a certain archetype...she styles herself in such a crazy way...who told her that this wig looks good? looking at it on camera it literally looks like a wet slimy mop...
beyond just aesthetics she was constantly disrespectful towards the people trying to debate with her, you know someone doesn't have an argument when they're constantly trying to interrupt you and don't let you speak, her aura and charisma is negative infinity...
in short her argument was that black men blame all their issues on white people and black women, looking at her channel she was also saying that black men were hard to love and it's like...how are dating issues exclusive to black men?? ANY group of men and women can be bad to the opposite gender...that's what I was wondering for this whole time...
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I just want to share a hot take, I'm honestly getting tired of the whole "parasocial relationship" conversation online. I don't agree with people being creepy or weird towards content creators obviously but I think that a lot of creators should appreciate and be thankful for their fans more? I've seen instances where when a fan of a creator or YouTuber says that the creator helped them through a hard time or they don't have any friends which is honestly a lot of people online, the creator acts super weirded out and dismissive towards the person.
I understand creators have boundaries blah blah blah but the truth is a lot of YouTubers and creators wouldn't be in the places that they're in without these parasocial relationships that they supposedly hate so much.
Again, I'm not in support of harassment, stalking etc etc, but I think there needs to be an understanding that if you're online there's going to be people who are weird, if you don't like that, don't post 🤷🏾🤷🏾. You guys can disagree with me but you guys know I'm never gonna cap on my channel lol
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Live right now
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going live in a couple min
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Might do a QNA live stream once I get back from my walk today guys. So stay tuned!
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I honestly don't know if I should even talk about the looks conversations/discussions of how you're treated in society based on looks anymore after I do my featurism video...
I try to be positive and have an optimistic view on the world despite what I say on this app but after looking at a lot of the comments that people have posted on my latest and most popular video, Its extremely depressing what this type of content attracts at times.
I got a comment recently from someone saying that after being treated as ugly they developed an intense fear of going outside(agoraphobia) and that even after trying so hard to glow up she still doesn't get treated well in society, and unfortunately that seems to be the story of some of the people I've met online and that I've seen in the comments.
I'd like to believe that everyone can make it in this world but unfortunately sometimes it's very hard to cope with the reality of things, I think I'm going to stop talking about looks for a bit after my featurism video.
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BROOO I'm scrolling through tiktok for my featurism video, I swear to god most of these people screaming about pretty punishment and having "pretty privilege" be the MOST average to unattractive people I've ever seen, and that's not an insult...
you'll NEVER catch me on this timeline saying that I got all this pretty privilege with my FACE SHOWING...
most of the women/men who ACTUALLY HAVE pretty privilege usually are unaware of it or don't think they're all that and this has been studied in psychology, the majority of yall shouldn't even be speaking on this topic and that's why the internet is quick to humble you guys
I'm tired of average/uglies saying that they have all this privilege in society because of an arbitrary set of features like "loose curls" "hair texture" "light eyes" "light skin" or whatever...no one cares💀
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Going live, I forgot to set the live stream to public lol
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I'm just learning about this Cynthia g lady recently...why is it that with a lot of these bitter women online it's always a certain archetype...she styles herself in such a crazy way...who told her that this wig looks good?
looking at it on camera it literally looks like a wet slimy mop...
beyond just aesthetics she was constantly disrespectful towards the people trying to debate with her, you know someone doesn't have an argument when they're constantly trying to interrupt you and don't let you speak, her aura and charisma is negative infinity...
in short her argument was that black men blame all their issues on white people and black women, looking at her channel she was also saying that black men were hard to love and it's like...how are dating issues exclusive to black men?? ANY group of men and women can be bad to the opposite gender...that's what I was wondering for this whole time...
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Gonna start working on my video on "featurism" soon, hopefully it won't take long
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Going live in a couple min
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