JulienHimself

You say you don’t care what people think… 👇

But you’re lying.

Because almost EVERYTHING you do is filtered through one quiet fear:

“What if they don’t like me?”

You feel it in your body...

The tension in your chest when someone frowns.

The hesitation before you speak.

The fake laugh you force out just to keep things “nice.”

You know you’re doing it.

You can feel the weight of it every day.

Like you’re constantly acting in a play you never auditioned for.

You don’t feel safe being you.

Not at work... Not with friends... Not even when you’re alone...

Because that voice doesn’t turn off.

The one that says:

❌ “Careful.”
❌ “Don’t say that.”
❌ “They’re judging you.”
❌ “You’re not enough.”

This is why you still feel stuck.

You’re not building confidence.

You’re managing anxiety.

And if you’re being honest, it’s slowly eating you alive!

If you're done with this performance, then talk to me or one of my coaches.

👉 Book your call now and we’ll help you break free from this for good: application.julienhimself.com/

Because living like this isn’t living.

And you know it.


- Julien

1 day ago | [YT] | 407

JulienHimself

Stop chasing someone to love you… 👇

Start becoming someone YOU can love!

You keep fantasizing about your “dream partner”:

✅ Loyal
✅ Supportive
✅ Emotionally available
✅ Confident
✅ Driven

Someone who gets you.

Someone who makes life feel safe and exciting again.

But what if…

Instead of waiting for them…

You became that for YOU? 🤔

Because whether you realize it or not, you’re ALREADY in a relationship.

You’re not “single.”

You’re not “alone.”

You’re in a relationship… With yourself!

But for most people?

That relationship is TOXIC.

It’s a cycle of manipulation, self-doubt and self-abandonment.

👉 This is why most people AREN'T actually looking for love… They’re looking for relief!

They don’t want a partner. They want a painkiller.

Someone to soothe the ache and distract them from… Themselves.

And, yeah...

You can STILL get into a relationship like that.

But it’ll be built on fear and fueled by performance.

And every relationship will feel off… Because YOU feel off.

So stop asking:

“How do I get them to love me?”

And start asking:

“Am I being someone I can love?”

That’s the REAL work.

Build that relationship.

Make it honest, supportive and safe.

Then love will feel like home... Not a high.


- Julien

PS: Want my help with this? 👉 application.julienhimself.com/

3 days ago | [YT] | 791

JulienHimself

He came in with fake confidence, fear of rejection, and a need to be "liked"... 👇

Now? He’s free.

Transformation Mastery Mentoring review:

"When I joined this mentoring my social and especially dating life was completely run by fear, grief, and desire, with some pockets of apathy. I was chasing the approval of others constantly without even realizing, and the outcomes were what determined my mood and my self-worth.

While the good outcomes felt awesome, the negative ones felt absolutely awful. Experiencing these awful sensations put me in grief or even in apathy, and I had started to fear these sensations subconsciously. I felt like I could only be the happy and confident version of myself around my friends, but looking back that was just because I already had their approval.

Also, I remember that before this mentoring I didn't love myself. You could see it in my posts when I said that I couldn't connect with the space of love even when I really wanted to, and in the support calls when I remember asking what to do if I feel like I don't deserve love.

Now I feel much more at peace with myself. It feels like I finally understand myself and can accept myself for who I am. Of course I haven't let go of everything, and I can still feel some fear and desire in me, for example. But my self-esteem is much, much higher than before and it doesn't depend on the opinions of others nearly as much as it used to.

I have also noticed that I speak my mind more often. I feel like there's less resistance around my real, authentic thoughts, and I'm able to say those thoughts if I want, even if the topic is difficult or personal.

Also, after the courage and purpose weeks I feel like I finally know what I want from life, and feel this completely new joy and excitement for life.

People seem to be naturally drawn to me now. I wasn't disliked before, and I was a fairly open person even before this mentoring. But now it seems like my friends love me even more, praising how authentic and open I am, and new people I talk to seem to be on average more receptive than before. I even kissed a girl this past weekend because I wasn't afraid of showing interest. Funny enough these positive experiences don't bring me the euphoric good feeling that desire craves for as they probably would have before this mentoring, but I still do enjoy them.

Reading through my posts and seeing the progress I've made is astonishing. I completely forgot that I had an insecurity of whether I was attractive to women. My thoughts/self-talk in the first few weeks seem like ancient history.

On courage week I wrote that it feels good to finally be open and say to people what I've always wanted to say, and reading that felt surreal, as if I've always been this open. And you can also see from my posts how I've started to accept myself more and more over time. And as I've learned this week, that is what loving myself is.

This mentoring was truly life-changing. It gave me everything that I wanted from it and more. I'm so grateful for Julien, Joy, Buddy, and all the others for creating this program and guiding me through it. I'm so grateful for finding and getting access to this, and proud of myself for the progress I've made.

Now I'm ready to live my best life."

👉 MORE CLIENT RESULTS: www.julienblancmentoringreviews.com/


- Julien

4 days ago (edited) | [YT] | 215

JulienHimself

She didn’t just grow... She found herself again! 👇

Transformation Mastery Mentoring review:

"At the beginning of this coaching journey, I honestly didn't know how to just be happy anymore. I wasn't sure what I even enjoyed doing or what felt fun to me. I was hesitant to try new things-my go-to was watching a lot of YouTube and Netflix, and maybe going for a walk in the park.

By week 3, something started to shift. I began getting out of the house more, exploring new places, trying new foods. I even started saying hi to strangers and chatting with the cashier. After the free hugs challenge, I really started to feel a change in me. I felt more open, more trusting. I realized that strangers are actually friendlier than I thought-that there are good, kind people out there.

I also noticed how I showed up in videos and photos-I looked unsure of myself, a little uncomfortable. But by the end of Week 4, when I filmed my forgiveness video to my inner victim, I looked lighter. I felt a little more at ease with myself.

In week 5, I kept pushing my edges-I went to ecstatic dance, comedy improv show, did the toothpick mission, and started reconnecting with my sense of humor. I started telling jokes again, remembering what I actually find funny and sharing that with my friends. The death meditation and shadow work really got me thinking about how I want to spend my time... and how I don't want to keep holding back, waiting for "someday" it made rethink how I can get more out of each experience.

Week 6 was huge too. I did a social media cleanse, wore my most "unattractive" clothes, posted a photo with a double chin-and realized... no one cares. Like really, no one cares. I've always heard that, but now I experienced it. And it made me realize what actually matters is how I feel about myself.

Week 7 was maybe one of my favorites-I got the challenge to do light trolling and just have fun with myself. I rediscovered this part of me that loves being silly and playful...game changer! I didn't realize how much I had been missing this part of myself- my weird, funny side.

Writing down my top 10 core values really helped me see what matters most to me. And thinking about my purpose, well....I've known for a long time what my purpose is but I was just too scared. I didn't think I was good enough or qualified enough. I want to be a spiritual healing coach. And now I'm going to go for it!

When I posted my vision for my ideal life it lit something up inside of me. I noticed how much calmer and more confident my voice sounded, and how I looked more relaxed and radiant in the video compared to the earlier weeks.

I just want to take a second to really congratulate myself. I signed up for this. I stuck with it. I really showed up. I allowed myself to go there, to feel the hard stuff, to be seen in ways I normally avoid. And I'm proud of myself..

I'm also so grateful-thank you Julien, Joy, Oliver, Buddy, and all the coaches for guiding me through this. This coaching program was designed in a brilliant way- so thank you all for doing this important work! It wasn't always easy, but I'm so glad I did it.

I feel motivated again. I feel more like myself around friends, at work, with strangers. It's been at least 7 years since I felt this alive-but never with this much clarity and confidence.

If this is how far I've come in 8 weeks... I can't wait for what's ahead."

👉 MORE CLIENT RESULTS: www.julienblancmentoringreviews.com/


- Julien

6 days ago (edited) | [YT] | 319

JulienHimself

Your life’s NOT boring... 👇

You’re just too busy playing it safe!

You wake up, scroll your feed, go to work, make small talk, go home, binge something you don’t even like, pass out and repeat.

You KNOW you were meant for more than this washed out version of "Groundhog Day", but here you are... Watching life instead of LIVING it.

Let me tell you something no one else will:

📌 IF MOVIES ARE MORE EXCITING THAN YOUR LIFE, YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG.

Seriously.

If the highlight of your week is someone else’s story on Netflix…

If the biggest risk you took today was switching up your coffee order…

If you’re still “waiting” for the perfect moment to finally show up like the main character...

You’re ALREADY dying.

Most people aren’t afraid of death. They’re afraid of LIVING.

Because real living requires risk.

It requires breaking your routine.

It requires DESTROYING your comfort zone.

And no, you don’t need to move across the world or quit your job...

You just need to STOP SLEEPWALKING:

✅ Say the thing you’ve been too afraid to say.
✅ Show up in a way that terrifies you.
✅ Do anything that breaks the loop.

Every day, you’re either writing a story worth telling… Or stacking regret you’ll choke on later.

And yeah, maybe life dealt you a crappy hand.

But guess what?

This game of life was never about having the "best" cards.

It’s about who plays them the BOLDEST.

I started with crippling anxiety, low confidence and total social paralysis.

Those were my cards... And I played the hell out of them!

Because at the end, when it’s over and your time is up:

❌ You don’t get to keep your excuses.
❌ You don’t get to keep your “somedays.”
❌ You don’t get to keep your dreams.

All you get to take with you is one question:

"Did I really LIVE?"

And if your answer is anything but a full body, undeniable: “YES!!!”

Then you’ve got work to do.


- Julien

PS: Want my help with this? 👉 application.julienhimself.com/

1 week ago (edited) | [YT] | 1,130

JulienHimself

Why you STILL don’t feel confident…

Even when it looks like you “have it all.” 👇

You’ve tried everything.

You changed your wardrobe. You started making more money. You hit the gym. You read all the self-help books.

You did everything you were "told you to do."

But none of it actually worked… Did it?

Because deep down, you STILL feel insecure.

Why?

Because you’ve been chasing confidence the wrong way!

Let me break it down:

1️⃣ HAVING: “I am how much I have.”

This is where most people get stuck.

“If I just HAVE better looks, more followers, more money... Then I’ll feel confident.”

But no matter how much you stack on, it’s never enough.

Because there’s always someone richer, cooler, more “liked.”

And you know it’s all fake anyway.

So maybe you shift to...

2️⃣ DOING: “I am how much I do.”

You hustle. You perform. You produce.

You try to earn your confidence through output.

But now? Your entire self-worth is tied to your productivity.

If you’re not performing, you’re panicking.

If you’re not adding value, you feel like a burden.

If you’re not “on”… You disappear.

And no matter how much you achieve… You STILL don’t feel enough.

So what’s left?

3️⃣ BEING: “I am who I am.”

This is the only place real confidence comes from.

Not in what you have.

Not in what you do.

But in who you are.

Confidence isn’t something you earn.

🔥 It’s something you remember.
🔥 Something you return to.
🔥 Something that shows up the second you stop compensating… And start being you again!

This is what I help people with...

Not “situational” confidence. Not tricks or tactics.

But core confidence.

The kind that doesn’t disappear when the compliments stop.

The kind that doesn’t collapse when things fall apart.

Just you. Fully seen. Fully real. Fully grounded.

That’s real confidence.

And it’s possible for you...

But most people never get here.

They keep performing.

Keep pretending.

Keep hoping “one day” it’ll click.

Don’t let that be you!

I’ve shown thousands of clients how to drop the mask, stop chasing confidence and finally live it.

You could be next.

👉 Apply now: application.julienhimself.com/


- Julien

1 week ago | [YT] | 644

JulienHimself

Stop chasing a FANTASY… 👇

And start fixing your life.

You’re NOT stuck. You’re hypnotized.

Lost in a fantasy of who you could be... While doing nothing to become it.

Right now, there are 3 versions of you:

1️⃣ THE REAL YOU: Quietly falling apart.

2️⃣ THE ONLINE YOU: Polished, curated and fake.

3️⃣ THE DREAM YOU: A fantasy you escape to when reality hurts.

Only ONE of those is actually alive.

The others?

Distractions. Illusions. Excuses.

You scroll.

You curate.

You imagine.

And it might feel like progress… But it’s not.

You’re not posting because you’re confident.

You’re posting because you’re insecure and trying to compensate for it.

You’re not fantasizing about the future because you’re a visionary.

You’re fantasizing because it’s easier than facing what’s in front of you.

This is why you FEEL stuck.

Because you’ve spent years watching a highlight reel of someone who doesn’t exist… While the real you drowns in silence.

Your confidence? Faked.

Your peace? Performed.

Your fulfillment? Nowhere to be found.

You keep saying:

“One day I’ll finally feel confident.”
“One day I’ll stop caring what people think.”
“One day I’ll be ready.”

But what if that “one day” never comes?

What if you keep waiting... And wake up one day with nothing but regret?

You need to get real.

You need to unplug.

And you need to stop outsourcing your life to a screen, a story or a version of yourself that never existed.

✅ You want to feel proud of the life you're actually living?

✅ You want to be seen, respected, and loved for who you really are?

Stop daydreaming... And start building.

I’ve helped thousands of people shatter the illusion and create a life that finally feels REAL.

Not for attention. Not for performance. But for THEMSELVES.

Their lives? Unrecognizable now!

Yours could be next... But ONLY if you’re done pretending.

👉 Click here to apply: application.julienhimself.com/


- Julien

1 week ago | [YT] | 419

JulienHimself

You THINK you’re anxious... 👇

But you’re not.

You’re just busy performing!

If you feel tense, awkward, or self-conscious around people… It’s not because something’s wrong with you.

It’s because you’re PRETENDING.

Pretending to be cooler than you are. Pretending to be fine when you’re not. Pretending you don’t care when deep down, you really do.

And you know it.

You walk into a room and immediately think:

😱 “What do they think of me?”
😱 “Do I look confident?”
😱 “Am I coming off weird?”

You’re not being you... You’re managing a version of you.

That’s not anxiety. That’s performance stress.

You’re not just talking to people anymore… You’re protecting a shaky, house-of-cards image.

It’s fake.

It’s exhausting.

And the second someone challenges that image? You panic.

Because now there’s something to lose.

The "real you" might get exposed… And rejected.

So you overthink.

You rehearse conversations.

You calculate how to stand, smile, laugh... How to look more “normal.”

You think: “If I can just perfect the performance… Maybe I’ll finally feel confident.”

WRONG.

That performance IS the anxiety.

You’re not anxious because of people.

You’re anxious because you’re faking it.

👉 And the fix isn’t another trick to “look confident.”

It’s dropping the act completely!

Stop pretending.

Stop trying to be cool and start being YOU.

And yeah… Someone might judge.

But you know what’s worse than being judged?

Living your entire life afraid of being seen.

Confidence doesn’t come from being "perfect".

It comes from FINALLY being real... And realizing you’ll survive, even if they don’t approve.

You want freedom?

That’s what it looks like.

I’ve shown thousands of clients how to break free from their "impostor self" and build a life where they’re fully seen, fully real and fully loved for it.

Now it’s your turn.

👉 Click here to apply today: application.julienhimself.com/


- Julien

1 week ago | [YT] | 697

JulienHimself

If someone DISRESPECTS you... 👇

Do this to make them regret it.

People can smell insecurity.

So what do they do?

They poke. They prod. They test.

And if you react... They win.

Whether it’s your appearance, your past, your voice, your energy...

The second you flinch, you give away your power.

NEVER forget this:

👉 They’re not testing to destroy you.

They’re testing to see if YOU believe the story they’re throwing at you!

Because people mock what they think might get under your skin.

And when it doesn’t? When you give them NOTHING?

They have nothing to stand on.

Someone makes a rude comment about you:

“Why are you dressed like that?” 👉 “Just cause...”

"Did you really just say that?" 👉 "Yeah, I did..."

“You’re so weird.” 👉 “I know...”

You don’t attack.

You don’t defend.

You just shrug, smile and move on.

You don’t owe them an explanation.

Because the more you explain yourself... The more you validate their frame.

Neutral is power.

Unbothered is magnetic.

Own the very thing they think should make you insecure and you become unshakable.

This is how you FLIP THE SCRIPT! 🔥

They expect you to overreact.

So don’t.

They expect you to explain yourself.

So don’t.

They expect you to prove something.

So stop trying.

This is how you take all your power back.

And the people who used to test you?

They'll start respecting you.

Not because you “beat” them.

But because you stopped betraying yourself.


- Julien

PS: Want my help with this? 👉 application.julienhimself.com/

2 weeks ago (edited) | [YT] | 1,087

JulienHimself

No one is coming to save you… 👇

And that’s the best news you’ll ever hear!

You’re not stuck because you’re broken... You’re stuck because you’re WAITING.

Waiting for the right moment.

Waiting for the fear to disappear.

Waiting for someone to tell you, “It’s your time.”

But that moment isn't coming... No one is coming.

👉 This "rescue me" fantasy is DESTROYING your potential.

You don’t need more time.

You don’t need another sign.

You don’t need to be “ready.”

What you need is to stop playing small, while secretly hoping someone else will do the hard part for you!

When you stop waiting to be saved... You realize you never needed saving.

You just needed to DECIDE.

You’re not overwhelmed because there’s too much to do.

You’re overwhelmed because you haven’t decided who you’re willing to become.

And deep down, you ALREADY know what needs to change.

You just haven’t committed to it... Yet.

So here’s your line in the sand:

🔥 No more excuses.
🔥 No more hoping.
🔥 No more waiting.

The life you want doesn’t need a rescuer.

It needs a leader.

And that leader… Is YOU.


- Julien

PS: Want my help? 👉 application.julienhimself.com/

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 940