Dan Maze

Free weekly call, tomorrow 1:30pm GMT+2 on Skool

I do this every week, just hop on a call with whoever shows up and we talk through whatever's actually going on. No script, no agenda, just real talk.

if you've been watching the videos and have something you're working through, come pull up

join free here: www.skool.com/accountabilio-6173/about

call link gets dropped inside once you're in

1 month ago (edited) | [YT] | 6

Dan Maze

First weekly group call went AWESOME!

Guys, we just had our first weekly call in the Accountabilio Skool community, and although not many people showed up, the ones who did brought real depth.

We talked about how to actually overcome PMO and then went deeper into how this behavior corrupts a man at his core and what it's doing to humanity at a societal level.

If you've been struggling, or if you just want to stay on top of your game, these are the kinds of conversations that change people.

I want to run this every week, but I need people to show up. If you've been sitting on the sidelines, this is your sign. Bring your experiences, your questions, your struggles.

Join the FREE community and be on the next one 👇

www.skool.com/accountabilio-6173/about

2 months ago (edited) | [YT] | 5

Dan Maze

This is controversial, but I am going to say it.

You dont know yourself.

I would say you dont even know 50% of who you truly are.

I can almost guarantee it.

How?

Because you are never alone with yourself.

I mean truly alone.

Im not talking about not having constant external input from the endless content out there, the reels, the videos.

And not just that. The constant stream of thoughts that flow through you.

I am talking about you, sitting there, in full consciousness. Not even meditation. Just you, CONSCIOUSLY having a conversation with yourself out loud.

Saying the things you have been scared to acknowledge. Facing the facts of your life that you try to justify or hide away. Truly being alone with yourself and yourself only.

So here is something actionable.

Find a quiet place where you are all alone. Your room. Your car. Wherever.

Sit there and just be.

And when it feels right, speak out loud to yourself.

This will feel weird at first. You might feel crazy.

Say whatever comes to mind. Ask yourself questions, then answer them with whatever flows out first. Dont force the answers you want to hear. Just let it come.

Converse with yourself. Face the parts you have been hiding.

Most people will read this and move on.

They will tell themselves they already know who they are. They will scroll to the next thing. They will stay comfortable in the version of themselves they have constructed.

But some of you will actually do it.

And when you do, do not be surprised by what comes out.

2 months ago (edited) | [YT] | 16

Dan Maze

We run a weekly call now inside the free Accountabilio community.
--> Every Sunday, 13:30 (GMT+2).

If you're serious about quitting corn and breaking the PMO cycle, this is where you do the work with other men doing the same. No hype, no shame. We get on together, work through what you're actually stuck on, and reset for the week ahead.

This is the brotherhood that keeps you accountable when motivation runs out.

The community is free to join right now. That won't stay the case forever, so if you've been on the fence, this is the time.

Join here 👉 www.skool.com/accountabilio-6173/about

See you Sunday, brother man.

2 months ago | [YT] | 7

Dan Maze

My video got 300 000 views.

Its hard to fully wrap my head around that number.

If this video reached you at the right time, and you used it to start taking your life back from addiction and degeneracy, that is all I wanted.

Now I want to be honest with you.

This video has 300 000 views. Some of my other videos barely get 300. That gap tells me something, and I would rather address it directly than just keep chasing what works.

I dont want to purely be a nofap and semen retention channel. There is only so much to be said, and I dont want to oversell it like some other channels do. The knowledge I share here is supposed to be real, zero hype, and actually useful, regardless of whether it trends. Thats the standard I want to hold this channel to.

So I want to ask you directly: what do you actually want to see here?

What are you struggling with? What questions do you have that nobody is giving you a straight answer to?

Drop it in the comments. I read everything.

2 months ago | [YT] | 22

Dan Maze

You know those moments where you are urging to do the thing you told yourself you would never do again.

Watching explicit content, smoking, drinking, whatever it might be.

Have you ever noticed, in the moment of the urge, that it feels like your brain is rationalising the behaviour? Its almost as if it is saying “just do it ONE MORE TIME”.

The rationalization is not your real reasoning.

It is the limbic system generating language to justify what the craving already decided.

Your prefrontal cortex is being flooded and overpowered. Which means that you is in an altered neurological state, not a logical one.

The arguments feel compelling because the brain that is evaluating them is the same brain that wants the outcome.

This is the first thing to understand when you are urging:

you are not thinking clearly in that moment, and you SHOULD NOT trust your own reasoning.

2 months ago | [YT] | 3

Dan Maze

Interesting thought:

Most people dont know who they are because they are never alone with themselves anymore.

Any idle moment is filled with input from scrolling, news, tv shows, other people, music, etc

Remember the quote:

“You are the sum of the five people you spend the most time with” ?

Well, today is more relevant to say “You are the sum of the content you consume”.

Drop all the external input, and get to know yourself again

2 months ago | [YT] | 5

Dan Maze

The time, focus, and energy you spend on 2 hours of video games is the same time, focus, and energy you could spend becoming the person you keep saying you want to be.

Same input. Completely different output.

Nobody's saying never play games. But if you're unhappy with where you are, your body, your work, your relationships, and you're still choosing 2 hours of escape every night, that's not a rest decision. That's a priority decision.

The gap between who you are and who you want to be isn't closed by motivation. It's closed by hours. And you have them. You're just spending them somewhere else.

2 months ago | [YT] | 10

Dan Maze

Working towards a goal is rarely glamorous.

Some days you feel aligned, clear, ready to go.

Other days you wake up underslept, stomach off, back hurting for no reason, wondering why the energy just isn't there.

That's because motivation is a FEELING. And like every other feeling, it comes and goes.

Discipline is something else entirely.

It's doing what needs to be done regardless of how you feel.

3 months ago | [YT] | 5

Dan Maze

Your brain isn't judging you. It's just optimizing for what you repeat.

Watch corn to decompress and it builds the pathway back to corn every time stress hits. Scroll first thing in the morning and it starts reaching for the phone before you're awake. Procrastinate when something feels hard and avoidance becomes the default response to anything uncomfortable.

But the same mechanism works in reverse. Read every morning and your brain reaches for the book. Train when you don't feel like it and your brain stops negotiating. Do the hard task first and starting becomes easier than avoiding.

The mechanism is identical. The outcome is completely different.

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