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10 Rules to Maximize Your Aura

Fix your sleep or nothing else matters
Bad sleep = anxiety, low energy, weak presence. Cut coffee, stop eating late, phone stays out of the bedroom. Calm your nervous system before bed or you’re cooked.

Stop eating bullshit
If you eat like shit, you feel like shit. Anxiety goes up, energy drops, confidence drops. Cut gluten, seed oils, processed food. It’s a decision.

Your friends are programming you
You take on the habits and standards of who you’re around. Lazy friends will quietly ruin your momentum. Be around driven, disciplined people or pay the price.

Move your body every day
Sitting all day staring at a screen fries your nervous system. Do cardio, lift, box, walk — 30 minutes is enough to reset your energy and mood.

Get into nature
Cities drain you. Nature resets you. Sunlight, hikes, mountains, beach. This shit calms your mind and raises your baseline energy.

Have a creative outlet
Everyone needs one. Music, video, art, dance, comedy — something just for expression. It makes you feel alive and human again.

Pursue money and something competitive
Business, career, whatever — you need a financial pursuit that challenges you. It builds edge, self-respect, and how you carry yourself as a man.

Meditate + breath work
Learn to regulate your nervous system. When you can calm yourself down, life stops controlling you. This kills anxiety and reactivity.

Travel and chase adventure
Routine is comfortable but dead. New environments create new thoughts. Travel, explore, do hard and unfamiliar things.

Consume inspiring content
What you watch, read, and listen to matters. Choose music, films, and books that expand you, not numb you.

Aura isn’t vibes. It’s habits.
Dial these in and everything else gets easier.

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If this resonated, apply it.
If you want to go deeper and level up your confidence, link’s in the comments.

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OPENING MASTER CLASS.

Today we will talk about the Indirect OPENER, DIRECT & the "MELVIN" opener.

1) Indirect opener (no obvious intent)

Definition: She’s not sure if you’re flirting or just talking.
Why it’s useful:

Less pressure / less “risk” because it’s “just a convo”

If she’s not receptive, it doesn’t feel like you got “shot down”

You can friend-zone them, which can be a benefit if you want to invite them to stuff without it being a date

Can lead to chill invites without spending money

Indirect examples you use:

Situational: Open BASED on the situation. What they're doing, the environment, ETC. (this is best, and is the most natural)

Opinion opener: Asking for a female opinion on somehting, outfit or anything. (This works well)

Recommendation opener: Asking for fun party spots or fun things to do.


2) Direct opener (show intent)

Definition: You let it be known you’re interested.
Key idea you repeat: direct is simple and works even if you “don’t know what to say.”

Your go-to direct line:

“You have such amazing energy.”
It’s strong because it’s not just looks, it’s more personal, and it filters—if she doesn’t reciprocate, you probably wouldn’t like her anyway.

The “Melvin opener”

My favorite to use at times.

The structure:

Hook statement (creates a pause)

“Hey, I’m very curious about something.”

“Hey, can I be honest with you?”

“Hey, I have an important question.”

Then say anything (direct/indirect/situational)

IMPROV!

Could be “Where are you from?”

Could be a compliment

Could be anything improvised

Why you like it: it hooks attention first, then gives you flexibility to freestyle.

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There’s no perfect thing to say.

The “perfect thing” is walking up and doing it.

Every opener is “1000/10,” even the bad ones.

Every rejection is “1000/10.”

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Indirect: opinion/recommendation → low pressure, low risk, easy convo

Direct: “amazing energy” / vibe / outfit → clear intent, congruent

Melvin opener: hook line (“curious/honest/important question”) → improvise anything

Thesis: no perfect line; doing it is the win

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Attraction, money, and influence come from vibe, energy, and presence, not status or titles.

Experiences > resources: people care about how you make them feel, not what you have.

Social skill is a transferable, money-making skill.


The way you speak and lead determines how people feel—and how much they reward you.

People remember how you made them feel, not what you said.

Master social dynamics, own who you are, lead experiences—and everything improves.

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I have an immersion happening soon in Europe.

Last one we had 9 guys show up, and it was the best week of my life in the best city for approaching in the world (in my opinion).

on top of that, everyone who attended got an entire year inside my inner circle community.

Live calls, debrief, approach breakdowns, the whole 9 yards.

A life changing TRANSFORMATIVE year, if you want this experience, sign the link below in the comments.

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Your ENERGY is your identity. It doesn’t matter if you are short, tall, Indian, white.

How you make people feel is all that matters.

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HOW TO REDUCE FLAKINESS.
By becoming more unique as an individual and "being yourself"

Flakiness in hyper competitive place isn't because you need "more game"


Bali as an example is super flaked bc there are attractive ppl everywhere.

Solution:
Radical Authenticity.

Stop trying to please everyone and be more loose, unfiltered, expressive

When your polarizing, flaking lessens.
The ones who like you, REALLY like you.

Stop attracting lukewarm interest.

An analogy to give:
There is an ice cream in Brazil, the flavor guava and cheese.
You either think it's revolting, or you LOVE IT.

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Most recent video is an absolute banger and super relatable to our common problem at times...
Flakiness.

One of the most frustrating things.

This video will teach you not only how to overcome it, but not worry about it ever again.

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Game is not lines or techniques.

Game is:
- Internal state
- Emotional independence
- Relaxation
- Self-amusement
- Fun

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Hard dopamine vs instant dopamine

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