Rude Advice
Married at 21 and divorced after 16 years, Rudy doesn’t speak from theory—he speaks from experience. Every lesson shared here is hard-earned, practical, and designed to help you stop spiraling, let go of the past, and build a stronger version of yourself.
With 614,800+ followers across social media, Rudy A has helped transform thousands of lives through raw, unfiltered truth about heartbreak, breakups, marriage, dating, and rebuilding after loss. He tells you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. If you’re ready to move forward instead of staying stuck, you’re exactly where you need to be.
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In this episode, I'm joined by the hosts of the Lost in the Shadows podcast, @CodyLeachYT and Chuck the movie guy. We dive into horror films and share honest conversations about moving on from heartbreak, failure and divorce.
If you love my page and want to see more of my content, please consider subscribing. #horror #heartbreak #divorce
6 days ago | [YT] | 3
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This is a comment from my video where a wife throws a toy at her husband for napping.
Everyone asks why husbands emotionally detach. Maybe we should start asking why some wives think disrespect is a personality trait.
If you constantly mock him, interrupt his sleep, ignore his needs, and treat him like the enemy, don't be shocked when he stops sharing his heart with you.
Men matter too. This behavior isn't cute. It's abuse. #menmatter #mensmentalhealth #MensMentalHealth
2 weeks ago | [YT] | 10
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Part 8 of Reacting to Bad Advice. This creator claims Gen Z women are hitting a life crisis because of their choices—but is that really what's happening, or is this just another bad take on modern dating? Let's break it down and talk about what people keep getting wrong about relationships today. If you enjoy my content, click my page, subscribe, and help support the channel.
#RudeAdvice #ReactingToBadAdvice #DatingAdvice #Relationships #GenZ
3 weeks ago | [YT] | 1
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A father called in and shared the heartbreaking reality of being kept away from his son. No matter what side of the parenting debate you're on, hearing the pain in his voice is a reminder that children deserve healthy relationships with both parents whenever possible.
Watch this clip, then let me know your thoughts.
#RudeAdvice #Fatherhood #CoParenting #FamilyCourt #Parenting #MensMentalHealth #SingleDad #Relationships #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #PodcastClips #ViralReels
1 month ago | [YT] | 0
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312,000 followers on Facebook!
When I started this journey, I never imagined so many people would take the time to listen to my story, share their experiences, and allow me to be a small part of their lives. Whether you've been here since day one or just recently joined the community, thank you for your support, your comments, your shares, and your trust.
Every view, like, share, comment, and conversation means more than you know. Thank you for helping me reach this milestone and for continuing to support Rude Advice.
From the bottom of my heart, thank you.
#RudeAdvice #ThankYou #312KStrong #FacebookFamily #RelationshipAdvice #HeartbreakRecovery #PersonalGrowth #Grateful
1 month ago | [YT] | 5
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New video is up in my Reacting to Bad Advice series. Where I break down the growing trend of telling men to give up on women, dating, and relationship, and why that mindset may be doing more harm than good.
If you enjoy honest, blunt and tough-love relationship advice, check it out and consider subscribing to my channel. NEVER GIVE UP. NEVER QUIT.
#RudeAdvice #ReactingToBadAdvice #DatingAdvice #MensMentalHealth #Relationships #YouTubeCreator
1 month ago | [YT] | 0
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Here’s my new reaction video about why so many young men are giving up on dating, relationships, and even themselves. The goal of this video isn’t to push doom and gloom — it’s to challenge that mindset and offer a healthier, more grounded perspective on modern life, dating, and self-worth. If you’re tired of negativity online and want real conversations that actually help people grow, check it out.
#MensMentalHealth #ModernDating #SelfImprovement #RelationshipAdvice #YoungMen
1 month ago | [YT] | 1
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“I walked in and caught my wife cheating… then her affair partner delivered the divorce papers to me.”
That’s the real story from tonight’s live call.
After 15 years of marriage, one moment changed this man’s entire life. We talk about betrayal, shock, humiliation, and what happens when the person you trusted most becomes someone you don’t even recognize anymore.
This is one of the most brutal calls I’ve taken. Watch now. #cheating #cheater
1 month ago | [YT] | 0
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The response to my “men are lost” video honestly caught me off guard. I wasn’t expecting that level of rage and hostility on a message that was meant to push young men toward growth instead of giving up.
So I made a follow-up video reacting to some of those comments. Fair warning—this one is blunt, direct, and not for everyone. But sometimes people don’t need comfort… they need the truth.
Watch with discretion. Let me know where you stand.
#MensMentalHealth #YoungMen #ToughLove #RealityCheck #SelfImprovement #Accountability #MindsetShift #RudeAdvice #GrowthOverComfort #LifeAdvice
2 months ago | [YT] | 2
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As a father of two boys, I am very concerned about the state of young men and their mental health. Too many are giving up, and honestly, it’s not by accident. As a content creator, I see what’s being fed to them and how they’re being exploited.
I reacted to a viral video that shows the end result of what listening to horrible advice can do to a young man.
Let me know if you agree.
#MensMentalHealth #MindsetMatters #SelfImprovement #ToxicInfluence #RudeAdvice
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