Married at 21 and divorced after 16 years, Rudy doesn’t speak from theory—he speaks from experience. Every lesson shared here is hard-earned, practical, and designed to help you stop spiraling, let go of the past, and build a stronger version of yourself.

With 614,800+ followers across social media, Rudy A has helped transform thousands of lives through raw, unfiltered truth about heartbreak, breakups, marriage, dating, and rebuilding after loss. He tells you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. If you’re ready to move forward instead of staying stuck, you’re exactly where you need to be.


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Dating Horror Story: He wanted me to get his name tattooed on my neck. #horrorstory #datingafterdivorce #datingstories

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If you’re stuck between missing your ex and knowing you deserve better, this channel is for you. I’ll be breaking down real situations, sharing live coaching calls, and giving you honest, practical advice to help you make better decisions, especially when your emotions are lying to you.

I’m not here to sell you hope.
I’m here to help you rebuild clarity, confidence, and self-respect.

#BreakupRecovery #CheatingInRelationships #RelationshipAdvice #MovingOn

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Welcome to my community, say hello and introduce yourself.

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Marriage, cheating, porn addiction, AI in Hollywood, and why video game movies keep failing. And what exactly is true happiness? ‪@AdamDoesMovies‬ and ‪@CodyLeachYT‬ join me and we discuss it all. #rudeAdvice #marriage #divorce #cheating #movies

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Going viral wasn’t the plan—but telling the truth was. Racquel opens up about her marriage, divorce, accountability, and how social media distorts love, dating, and expectations, especially after divorce. Her message is simple but powerful: if you don’t find happiness and self-awareness on your own, no relationship will ever fix that. #divorce #relationships #marriage #accountability

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Why are men and women held to different standards regarding their sexual histories?

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Starting over isn’t a setback — it’s your reset button. This video breaks down 10 powerful tips to rebuild your life after heartbreak or divorce so you rise stronger, wiser, and completely in control of what comes next.
#StartingOver #FreshStart #DivorceRecovery #BreakupHealing #RebuildYourLife

1 month ago | [YT] | 0

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They’re not “just curious.”
If your ex keeps watching your stories, liking old posts, or checking your profile in silence, there’s a reason—and it has nothing to do with closure.

🎥 New video: 10 Reasons Why Your Ex Stalks You on Social Media — and how to stop it from messing with your healing.


#ExStalking #BreakupRecovery #NoContact #HealingAfterBreakup #ExWatchingYou #MoveOn #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DivorceRecovery #HeartbreakCoach #LetThemGo #SocialMediaPsychology

1 month ago | [YT] | 1

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One of the most asked questions I receive. Know the signs before it's too late. #relationships #cheating

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