Rude Advice

If you're new to my page, thank you for being here and for taking the time to engage with my content. I want to introduce myself, explain my mission, and let you know what you can expect from me.

I failed as a husband in my first marriage. Instead of blaming someone else, I took accountability for my mistakes, went to therapy and learned alot about myself. I wanted to becomea better man for my children, for myself, and for my co-parenting relationship with my ex-wife. Those lessons changed my life.

My mission is simple: to help people avoid the mistakes I made, save as many marriages as possible, and help those whose marriages have already ended rebuild their lives. I know firsthand how painful divorce can be. I've lived through the loneliness, the heartbreak, the uncertainty, and the process of rediscovering who I was. I went through much of it alone, and I don't want others to feel like they have to.

Here you'll find personal lessons from mistakes I've made, relationship advice, divorce recovery, co-parenting guidance, and honest conversations about the behaviors that destroy relationships. I call out toxic behavior in both men and women because relationships are complex. It is irresponsible to claim that one gender is responsible for every failed relationship. I don't subscribe to that way of thinking.

My goal isn't to shame people, it's to encourage accountability, growth, healing, and healthier relationships. If calling out unhealthy behavior helps even one person save their marriage or become a better partner, then I've done my job.

Yes, I'm blunt. Yes, I'm direct. That's my coaching style. But everything I say comes from a genuine desire to help people heal, grow, and build healthier relationships.

Whether you're trying to save your marriage, recover from a breakup or divorce, navigate co-parenting, or simply become a better partner, I hope you find something here that helps you.

Thank you for your time.

— Rudy A.
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6 days ago | [YT] | 14

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I want to thank  @RIwHadenBaker  for having me on his podcast. I had an incredible time, and it was one of the most genuine, thoughtful conversations I've had in a long time. Without a doubt, it was one of the best podcast episodes I've ever had the pleasure of being a part of. Go check it out. #podcast

1 week ago | [YT] | 3

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In this episode, I'm joined by the hosts of the Lost in the Shadows podcast, ‪@CodyLeachYT‬ and Chuck the movie guy. We dive into horror films and share honest conversations about moving on from heartbreak, failure and divorce.

If you love my page and want to see more of my content, please consider subscribing. #horror #heartbreak #divorce

1 month ago | [YT] | 3

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This is a comment from my video where a wife throws a toy at her husband for napping.

Everyone asks why husbands emotionally detach. Maybe we should start asking why some wives think disrespect is a personality trait.

If you constantly mock him, interrupt his sleep, ignore his needs, and treat him like the enemy, don't be shocked when he stops sharing his heart with you.

Men matter too. This behavior isn't cute. It's abuse. #menmatter #mensmentalhealth #MensMentalHealth

1 month ago | [YT] | 10

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Part 8 of Reacting to Bad Advice. This creator claims Gen Z women are hitting a life crisis because of their choices—but is that really what's happening, or is this just another bad take on modern dating? Let's break it down and talk about what people keep getting wrong about relationships today. If you enjoy my content, click my page, subscribe, and help support the channel.

#RudeAdvice #ReactingToBadAdvice #DatingAdvice #Relationships #GenZ

1 month ago | [YT] | 1

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A father called in and shared the heartbreaking reality of being kept away from his son. No matter what side of the parenting debate you're on, hearing the pain in his voice is a reminder that children deserve healthy relationships with both parents whenever possible.

Watch this clip, then let me know your thoughts.

#RudeAdvice #Fatherhood #CoParenting #FamilyCourt #Parenting #MensMentalHealth #SingleDad #Relationships #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #PodcastClips #ViralReels

1 month ago | [YT] | 0

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312,000 followers on Facebook!

When I started this journey, I never imagined so many people would take the time to listen to my story, share their experiences, and allow me to be a small part of their lives. Whether you've been here since day one or just recently joined the community, thank you for your support, your comments, your shares, and your trust.

Every view, like, share, comment, and conversation means more than you know. Thank you for helping me reach this milestone and for continuing to support Rude Advice.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you.

#RudeAdvice #ThankYou #312KStrong #FacebookFamily #RelationshipAdvice #HeartbreakRecovery #PersonalGrowth #Grateful

2 months ago | [YT] | 5

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New video is up in my Reacting to Bad Advice series. Where I break down the growing trend of telling men to give up on women, dating, and relationship, and why that mindset may be doing more harm than good.

If you enjoy honest, blunt and tough-love relationship advice, check it out and consider subscribing to my channel. NEVER GIVE UP. NEVER QUIT.

#RudeAdvice #ReactingToBadAdvice #DatingAdvice #MensMentalHealth #Relationships #YouTubeCreator

2 months ago | [YT] | 0

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Here’s my new reaction video about why so many young men are giving up on dating, relationships, and even themselves. The goal of this video isn’t to push doom and gloom — it’s to challenge that mindset and offer a healthier, more grounded perspective on modern life, dating, and self-worth. If you’re tired of negativity online and want real conversations that actually help people grow, check it out.

#MensMentalHealth #ModernDating #SelfImprovement #RelationshipAdvice #YoungMen

2 months ago | [YT] | 1

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“I walked in and caught my wife cheating… then her affair partner delivered the divorce papers to me.”

That’s the real story from tonight’s live call.
After 15 years of marriage, one moment changed this man’s entire life. We talk about betrayal, shock, humiliation, and what happens when the person you trusted most becomes someone you don’t even recognize anymore.

This is one of the most brutal calls I’ve taken. Watch now. #cheating #cheater

2 months ago | [YT] | 0