Susan got a call from a close friend who wanted her to chair a high-profile, multi-million naira NGO fundraising event. Her friend saw her as capable, honorable, and worthy of the platform.
She felt genuinely honored—but she politely declined. Why? Because Susan had already committed to a number of other important tasks and responsibilities.
She understood that saying yes to this new assignment, no matter how flattering, could mean spreading herself too thin, falling short on delivery, or disappointing someone—something she wasn’t willing to risk.
That, right there, is wisdom. Sadly, not many operate with that level of self-awareness—especially in spiritual spaces.
Many say yes to every request, assignment, or opportunity—thinking that saying no is unspiritual or might offend others.
But in reality, overcommitting often leads to underperforming, missed deadlines and broken trust—which soils your credibility and damages valuable relationships.
Here’s the truth: The mistake isn’t in saying no. The real mistake is in saying yes to what you can’t fully commit to—and then showing up half-heartedly or not at all.
Better a sincere “no” now, than a sloppy “yes” that breaks trust later. Better a momentary offense, than long-term damage to your integrity.
Saying “no” is not pride. It’s not sin. It’s not weakness. It’s actually emotional maturity, self-awareness, and respect—for yourself and others.
So, if you’re someone who struggles with guilt every time you have to say no, breathe. You’re not selfish—you’re just being wise. In protecting your boundaries, you’re preserving your value.
Relationships last longer when integrity is intact.
A blessed week to you. Your week is loaded full of blessings and packed full of favor❤️
theurbanyouthchurch
LEARN TO SAY NO – Protect your integrity & peace
Susan got a call from a close friend who wanted her to chair a high-profile, multi-million naira NGO fundraising event. Her friend saw her as capable, honorable, and worthy of the platform.
She felt genuinely honored—but she politely declined. Why? Because Susan had already committed to a number of other important tasks and responsibilities.
She understood that saying yes to this new assignment, no matter how flattering, could mean spreading herself too thin, falling short on delivery, or disappointing someone—something she wasn’t willing to risk.
That, right there, is wisdom.
Sadly, not many operate with that level of self-awareness—especially in spiritual spaces.
Many say yes to every request, assignment, or opportunity—thinking that saying no is unspiritual or might offend others.
But in reality, overcommitting often leads to underperforming, missed deadlines and broken trust—which soils your credibility and damages valuable relationships.
Here’s the truth: The mistake isn’t in saying no. The real mistake is in saying yes to what you can’t fully commit to—and then showing up half-heartedly or not at all.
Better a sincere “no” now, than a sloppy “yes” that breaks trust later. Better a momentary offense, than long-term damage to your integrity.
Saying “no” is not pride. It’s not sin. It’s not weakness. It’s actually emotional maturity, self-awareness, and respect—for yourself and others.
So, if you’re someone who struggles with guilt every time you have to say no, breathe. You’re not selfish—you’re just being wise. In protecting your boundaries, you’re preserving your value.
Relationships last longer when integrity is intact.
A blessed week to you. Your week is loaded full of blessings and packed full of favor❤️
4 months ago | [YT] | 1
View 0 replies