JayBhi's Life

Then and now. 🇮🇳❤️🇵🇭 You see small pieces of our friendship on the vlog, but behind the camera are years of stories, memories, and moments only we understand and hold close.

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It took me a while to post something about her and her wedding day—because every time I tried, I didn’t know where to begin. When I think of the things she has done for me, I go blank… not because there are none, but because there are so many—big, small, and deeply meaningful—ever since I came to India.

You’ve seen her in my vlogs, especially when I started vlogging in Bangalore. You’ve seen her presence on camera. But what you haven’t seen are the countless moments behind the camera—the moments that truly define who she is to me, to us, to our family. Maybe then you’d understand how big her place is in our lives.

She was one of those friends who picked me up at the airport the second time I came to India—to get married. She was the first friend here who knew about my pregnancy. She was there when Mishka was still so tiny. She carried Mishka when I went for my COVID shot. She was always there.

But most importantly, she believed in me. She encouraged me to keep vlogging when I doubted myself. Maybe I am where I am today in my vlogging journey because of her. She pushed me forward, celebrated every small milestone with me, and cheered when I reached my first few thousand subscribers on YouTube.

She is a big part of our life.
She is Mishka’s Indian tita—Tita Stella.

When I look back at all the years we’ve shared, it’s filled with laughter, joy, and beautiful memories. Like many of you, I prayed to see her get married and start her own family. And while my heart is overflowing with happiness for her, I’d be lying if I said there wasn’t also a little fear.

Here in India, marriage often changes a woman’s world. She becomes part of her husband’s family, his circle, his life. And sometimes, friendships slowly fade. Abhi once told me this, and it stayed with me. I was scared—what if our friendship wouldn’t be the same?

When I saw her walk down the aisle, smiling, glowing, and happy, I became emotional. Happy for her, yes—but also emotional at the thought that this beautiful chapter of our friendship might change.

She was never just a friend.
She was my Indian sister.

She was there when I started my life in India.
She was there when I started YouTube.
She was there when we discovered we were becoming parents.
She was there through the early days of motherhood.
She was there as Mishka grew.
She was always there.

So maybe it’s selfish of me—but on her wedding day, I didn’t just wish for her happiness. I also wished for us. For our friendship to remain, even after marriage.

Stellaaaa, thank you for the love, the support, and the friendship. I wish you a lifetime of happiness and love in this new chapter of your life. And I hope—no matter how life changes—that we remain friends forever.

You were never “just a friend.”
You are my sister. 🤍

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Happy New year JayBhi fam! 🩵 🇮🇳🇵🇭

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Ganito pala ang pag gawa ng bangles ng mga kababaihan dito sa India

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Look who’s getting married!❤️💕 #mehendi

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Wish you all a merry, merry Christmas! May your hearts and homes be full of joy. 🎄🎅 #christmas

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We still have a lot of fun vlogs from our Goa trip, but starting tomorrow, I’ll be sharing our Christmas vlogs here in Patna. Since this is our first Christmas in Patna, I don’t want to delay the Christmas spirit 🎄✨
After Christmas, we also have a few events to attend, so our Goa trip vlogs will be coming a little later.

#christmas #india

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Mishka: Mommy how to write “makeup toy”?
Me: why?
Mishka: I will write to Santa Clause

(The initiative to write her name below was totally hers, I only told her the spelling of makeup toy.) 😊

*next day*

Me: Where did you put your letter to Santa Clause
Mishka: Next to the Christmas tree but he did not get me.
Me: It’s not yet Christmas.

Let’s see if Santa will get her one this Christmas. 🎄🎅
#christmas #fblifestyle

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I asked Abhi to take this photo because I knew I wanted to share why this man is so close to my heart.

To those who have been watching our journey on YouTube since 2019, you already know who he is in our lives. This is Kislay or Uncle KP to Mishka—Abhi’s friend, colleague, and eventually, my friend too.

I will never forget 2019, the second time I came to India to get married. Abhi was posted in Bagalkot then—an overnight bus ride away from Bangalore. I was arriving at Bangalore airport on a weekend evening, and Abhi couldn’t take leave to pick me up. He had to wait for office hours to end before catching his bus.

Being new to India, I never expected anyone to go out of their way for me. But while Abhi couldn’t be there, Kislay—along with our other friends—drove all the way to the airport just to pick me up. They had no obligation, and we hadn’t even spent much time together before that.

My immigration took longer than expected because of questions about my previous six-month stay in India. While I was stuck inside, they waited for me for hours at the parking lot—until midnight. That night stayed with me.

After we got married and moved to Bangalore, we spent so many beautiful moments together. Weekends, weekdays, random plans—those days became some of the best years of my life in India. When people ask me how I survived my first few years here, I always say it was fun—because I was surrounded by kind, caring, fun-loving friends. They were Abhi’s friends first, but they welcomed me as their own, never making me feel like an outsider.

Kislay always made sure I didn’t feel left out—especially when conversations switched to Hindi. He became my human translator without me ever asking. Just simple acts of kindness, done quietly and consistently.

Then came 2020.

When we found out I was pregnant, the world had just shut down because of COVID. Traveling was difficult, autos and cabs were risky, and everything felt uncertain. Kislay was one of the first few people who knew about my pregnancy. On my very first ultrasound checkup, he was the one who drove us to the hospital—along with our other couple friend who was also pregnant at the same time.

So yes, even before Mishka was born, he was already there for her.
He was there when I arrived in India, and he was there before my daughter came into this world. In many ways, he is Mishka’s godfather.

Kislay, thank you for being a friend and a brother—not just to Abhi, but to me as well. You are truly one of the kindest people I’ve met in India. I wish you nothing but happiness and love as you begin this new chapter of your life 🤍

#lifeinindia

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