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Has technology made relationships better or worse?


Today at 11AM we're talking about staying faithful in a technological age and the boundaries you and your partner should discuss!

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We’re breaking down The Divine Feminine and The Sacred Masculine:
modern relationships, dating culture, emotional intelligence, parenting challenges, and the red flags too many people ignore.

Honest conversation, real-life lessons, and practical insight you can actually use.

#Relationships #DatingAdvice #RealTalk #EmotionalGrowth #divinefeminine #sacredmasculine

5 days ago | [YT] | 4

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🚨 This Conversation Might Change How You See Relationships 🚨
We dive into modern dating culture, ignored red flags, emotional intelligence, parenting dynamics, and the communication mistakes that quietly destroy relationships. Honest, real, and uncomfortable in the best way.

Watch the full episode and tell us what part hit the hardest.

#Relationships #DatingAdvice #RealTalk #EmotionalIntelligence #Podcast

1 week ago | [YT] | 12

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Today we react to one our first videos!

How much have we changed? What has stayed the same? Let's find out together!

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So many men quit because they stop seeing a way through. The tunnel closes in, the light shuts off, and it starts to feel like the dark is all there is. Not because they’re weak, not because they “don’t care,” but because they’re exhausted. Bone-deep tired. Tired of fighting, tired of holding the line, tired of feeling alone in a war that never seems to end. When a man says he is tired. He doesn't mean he needs sleep. It's crazy how people don’t understand this.


Most men don’t tap out because they hate their families or their lives. They tap out because they don’t believe they can keep protecting what they love. They’re carrying pressure they don’t know how to put into words. Money, safety, leadership, sex, emotional stability, direction, being a rock, never breaking down. Men walk around with their hearts bleeding under a calm face, and the world keeps yelling “man up” while never actually standing beside them. That’s how you lose a man from the inside out.


This is where our women matter more than they’ll ever fully understand. A man can fight the whole world if he believes his woman is with him. Not just physically there, but with him. On his side. In his corner. When a woman believes in her man, when she respects him, when she looks at him like he’s worth fighting for, that belief becomes armor. Her support strengthens his spine. Her softness becomes his safe place to fall apart for a minute so he can stand back up taller, and too many women fail to give that man that space. Forcing him to become a shell of a human. Internally fighting for his life. For his soul. Only to be told to suck it up, or have his weakness used against him.


Men quit when they feel like there’s no safe place to collapse. When every space is another arena we have to perform in. Work wants more. The world wants more. Sometimes home wants more. But no one says, “You’re allowed to be human here. I’ve got you.” A man who never gets to put his shield down eventually believes he IS the shield. When it cracks, he thinks he’s useless. That’s when men start disappearing into addictions, into silence, into isolation, into the kind of thoughts that end lives. We can not wear our armor all the time. It has to be taken off, tended to. Repaired. So that we can put it back on and keep fighting. Our mind is the same way.


A lot of men take their lives because they genuinely think their family would be better off without them. Let that sink in. It’s not that they don’t love their people. It’s that the shame, the failure, the constant feeling of “I’m not enough” becomes so loud that death feels like relief. They’re tired of being the villain in their own story. Tired of disappointing, tired of hearing what they’re not doing, tired of never feeling like they measure up. They don’t want to die, they just want the pain to stop and they don’t see any other way. This comes from battling alone. We need support.



This is why our women are so fucking important. When a man comes home from war, he needs more than food and sleep. He needs to know his sacrifice is seen. He needs to know she still respects him even when he’s limping, even when he’s discouraged, even when he’s not winning. He needs her to hold his shield sometimes. To stand watch while he closes his eyes. To say, “I’ve got you, rest,” instead of “Why aren’t you doing more?”


His woman can be the difference between “I can’t do this anymore” and “I’ll go one more round.” When she reaches for him instead of rejecting him, when she speaks life instead of contempt, when she chooses curiosity instead of constant criticism, she gives him a reason to stay in the fight. Her gratitude reminds him his suffering has meaning. Her faith in him reminds him his story isn’t finished. Her presence tells him he’s still worth choosing, even when he feels like a failure.


Men don’t need perfection from their women. They don’t need a cheerleader 24/7. They need a partner in the trenches. Someone who will say, “You’re not alone. Put your head on my chest. Hand me your shield. I’ll guard you tonight.” That moment, that choice, can literally save a life. Because once he knows there is at least one place on this earth where he doesn’t have to pretend to be invincible, he can breathe. And when a man can breathe, he can heal. When he can heal, he can fight again.

If you’re a woman reading this, understand that you are not “just” anything. You are the one that can turn his battle into a mission instead of a prison. You are the one who can help him remember who he is when the world has beaten the fight out of him. Your respect, your belief, your willingness to stand over him while he sleeps and say, “Nothing’s getting to you on my watch,” can be the reason he wakes up tomorrow and keeps going.


And if you’re a man reading this and you’re on the edge, I’ll say this plainly. You’re not weak for being tired. You’re not broken for needing help. You’re not a burden for wanting someone to stand guard while you lay your head down for a bit. You staying here matters. Your presence matters. Your family doesn’t need a perfect man, they need a living one who’s willing to keep trying and willing to let someone, especially his woman, hold the shield once in a while.



If you have no one. You need community. Get a journal. There is power in the written word. A way to get it out of your head and onto something you can hold. Something you can revisit later without a jumble of thoughts. Start untangling all the shit you are holding onto. Reclaim order in your mind. Stay strong. I believe in you.

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If you’ve ever navigated young marriage, strict upbringings, money stress, pregnancy fears, homestead chaos, or the struggle of growing into the person you want to be… this conversation is going to hit home.

We dive deep into real relationship pressure, emotional growth, partnership dynamics, and the hard lessons that shape stronger families.

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Everybody screams that they want passion and closeness, but most of you will not do the simple, boring shit that actually creates it. Intimacy is not just sex or some rare deep talk when the marriage is already on fire. It is putting your phone down when they walk in the room. It is how you say their name. It is choosing to stay locked in when their story is longer than your attention span. If you cannot even give that, you are not starving for connection, you are protecting your comfort. You are being selfish and then acting confused when your relationship feels dead. You want fire while you move like a roommate.

You do not need a massive date night every week to have a connected marriage. Those are extra. They are icing on the cake. The foundation is stupidly small, repeatable bids for connection. A hand on their shoulder when you pass in the kitchen. A real hug that actually lands, not a one second tap and pull away. A real pat on the back that lingers for a second. Eye contact that does not immediately break. Gratitude spoken out loud instead of assumed. Curiosity instead of lazy assumptions and silent resentment. Those tiny choices are you saying, all day long, “you matter here.” And when you withhold them, you are saying, “you do not.”

Some of you will pour charm and energy into strangers at work, into clients, followers, your friends, and then walk through your front door and turn into a quiet ghost. Your partner gets the scraps while everyone else gets the best of you. Then you sit there wondering why it feels awkward, tense, flat at home. It is not a mystery. You trained your nervous system to come home and shut off. You taught your marriage that your phone, your work, your comfort are higher on the list than your person.

Others of you are obsessed with keeping score. You wait them out. You withhold affection to prove a point. You “test” them instead of leading. You punish with silence, sarcasm, or scrolling. You escape into porn, fantasy, or emotional affairs and then tell yourself, “Well if they would just…” No. You are starving your marriage and then blaming it for being thin. You cannot neglect a garden for years and then get mad there are no roses.

If your relationship feels distant, stop waiting for some dramatic reset to magically change everything. That fantasy is part of the problem. You want a movie moment to fix what your daily habits keep breaking. Create one new habit you can repeat until it becomes part of you, then create another. Build who you want to be. Be the one who reaches out first. Be the one who softens first. Be the one who speaks life first instead of sarcasm and criticism. Do it even when it feels fake or forced. Especially then. Awkward is the toll you pay to repair the bridge you burned in your marriage. You have to work for the marriage you actually want. Most people will read this, nod along, and change nothing. Life is not going to change for you. You have to change it.

You are responsible for your life. Period. God, the universe, fate, none of them are going to drag you into the life you say you want. Opportunity might open a door, but it will not shove your ass through it. If you are too busy distracting yourself to actually experience your own life, you will walk right past what you say you are praying for. “Meant to be” does not mean guaranteed. It means the chance showed up. What you did with it is on you. Fuck fate. You are not predestined for shit. Your life, your marriage, your body, your character, your legacy, it is all on you and it has been the whole time.

At some point you either keep clinging to your stories or you grow the spine to own your choices. There is no in between. You can blame timing, trauma, parents, partners, the economy, whatever you want, but your output is still yours. The moment you stop looking for a rescue and start acting like the whole thing is your responsibility is the moment your life actually starts to change.

Fix your fucking life. No one is coming to save you.

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Today's episode is about some of the apps that are out there that enable and try to detect cheating! It's a very dark time that we are in! Check it out today at 11AM EST!

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Conflict is not the problem, your style is. Some of you grew up on screaming matches or cold silence, and now you repeat it and hide behind “that is just how I am.” You blow up, or you shut down, then act confused that your marriage feels like a minefield and your kids read the room every time you shift your tone. You are not cursed, you are patterned, and you are choosing to keep the pattern alive.

Your tone is not a small thing. The words, the volume, the eye rolls, the hard face, the sarcasm, every bit of that gets recorded in your partner’s and kids’ nervous systems. Their bodies are tracking you more than your words. They learn what love feels like from how **you** handle being tired, annoyed, rejected, or disappointed, not from what you post, not from your “family values” speech. If that does not sober you up, you are not paying attention.

“I just have a temper” is coward talk. “I need space, so I shut down” is coward talk. Yelling and disappearing are the same root problem, you make the home about your comfort instead of everyone’s safety. You either dominate the room or you abandon it. Both teach the people you say you love that their emotions are not safe with you. You will snap sometimes, you will say stupid shit, you will roll your eyes or slam a door. That is human, we will slip sometimes. The real damage starts when you refuse to repair, when you care more about being right than being responsible for your impact.

Strong families are not the ones who never fight, that is fantasy. Strong families are the ones who can go a few rounds and still stay on the same team. They cool off without disappearing for days. They come back, own their part without the word “but,” and bring humility and affection back into the room. They apologize in front of their kids. They show with their actions, “In this house we may hurt make mistakes, but we do not hide, we repair.” That is how safety is built. Eventually the goal is to never lose control, to talk about problems. To remain grounded.

If your kids flinch when your voice jumps, if your partner braces the second your tone shifts, that is on you. You are writing the blueprint for what love will feel like in their adult relationships. Your house should not feel like emotional Russian roulette. Study your patterns, the yelling, the sarcasm, the withdrawal, the way you go cold, and change them on purpose. Not someday, not when they “deserve it,” now.

Today’s challenge: Think about your last argument. No filters, no spin. Own one thing you did that was unhelpful or harmful. Say it out loud to your partner with no “but,” no defense, no list of what they did wrong. Just own it, full stop.

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