2 Be Better

New video up.

https://youtu.be/JJnvA9CEzEo

15 hours ago | [YT] | 3

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Most men don’t fail their marriage all at once.
They fail it quietly.

This episode breaks down integrity, emotional control, accountability, and what real leadership in the home actually looks like. No motivation fluff. Just hard conversations most people avoid.

If you’re serious about growth, this one’s for you.
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1 day ago | [YT] | 4

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Throwing this out there.
trovatrip.com/trip/asia/bali/indonesia-with-chris-…

trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-chris…

These trips still have spots available. They are the only ones we are doing this year. For those of you who missed the 2024 and 2025 trips. Dont miss these. Also Bali is fairly cheap.

5 days ago | [YT] | 7

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This episode goes where most conversations stop.

Postpartum struggles, resentment, intimacy, communication breakdowns — and the hard truths couples avoid because they’re uncomfortable.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected but didn’t know how to explain it… this one’s for you.

Watch the full episode now and tell us what part hit the hardest 👇

5 days ago | [YT] | 9

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What does it actually mean to be a good man in today’s world?

This episode breaks down:
✔ Leadership without tyranny
✔ Marriage over ego
✔ Discipline over motivation
✔ The small choices that shape your family

👇 Comment below:
What’s one non-negotiable every man should live by?

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1 week ago | [YT] | 5

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You don’t get the life you want by accident. You get it by living with intent and then realizing that every decision matters.

Most people don’t hate their lives, they just never really chose it. They wake up, react, comply, scroll, cope, and repeat. Years go by and they call it normal. That’s not a bad life, it’s just an unused one. You don’t drift into fulfillment. You drift into comfort, distraction, and quiet dissatisfaction.

Living the life you want means taking responsibility for what your days look like. It means accepting that no one is coming to hand you meaning, clarity, or direction. If your life feels small, heavy, or hollow, it’s not because you were dealt the wrong cards. It’s because you’ve been avoiding the weight of choosing. Choice is uncomfortable. It requires tradeoffs. It demands that you disappoint versions of yourself that were built around fear.

The life you want has standards. It has boundaries. It has effort attached to it. It asks you to be fucking present in the moment. Honest instead of polite. Courageous instead of convenient. It asks you to say no to things that drain you and yes to things that demand more from you. That includes conversations you’ve been avoiding, habits you keep excusing, and truths you already know but haven’t owned.

Quality of life is created in the small, daily decisions. How you speak to your spouse. How you take care of your body. How you spend your attention. How often you choose growth over comfort. You don’t build a life you love through big dramatic moves alone. You build it by stacking intentional days until your identity catches up with your actions.

You’re allowed to want more. More depth. More meaning. More alignment. But wanting it doesn’t matter if you won’t live in a way that supports it. The life you want is available, but it costs honesty, discipline, and the willingness to stop wasting time pretending you’ll get serious later.

You’re alive. That’s not the goal. Living is.

1 week ago | [YT] | 118

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This retreat took more out of us than we expected.
Not because it was bad — but because it was real.

We’re talking emotional exhaustion, accountability, repair after betrayal, and what healing actually looks like when you stop pretending it’s pretty.

If you’ve ever wondered why growth feels heavy before it feels freeing… this episode is for you.
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1 week ago | [YT] | 11

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Boundaries aren’t about control — they’re about connection.
This episode dives deep into emotional regulation, relationships, and breaking unhealthy patterns that keep us stuck.
If you’ve ever struggled to say no without guilt… this one’s for you.

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 7

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Not every red flag is loud.
Sometimes it’s emotional cheating, gaslighting, or being told you’re “too sensitive.”
This episode goes deep into trust, trauma bonding, and when it’s time to stop ignoring what you see.

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 14

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Being a good man isn’t about rules or appearances.
It’s about ownership, discipline, and how you show up when no one’s watching.
This video breaks down the 10 commitments that actually matter.

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 9