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THE SIDE OF A MOTHER THAT IS BARELY APPRECIATED!

My name is Prossy Buyondo. I am a mother of 5 children.

A few weeks back, I experienced instability in my domestic staff deployment. Suddenly, the helper got sick and went to her home for rest and care, daddy was away on a trip in a far country, and therefore, I was left home alone with our five children. My life was put on hold and unwanted curfew was installed. I could only step out for a few hours; that is after preparing lunch and I needed to return early in time to make dinner.

Some of our children were on holiday while the others were still in school meaning that their sleeping and waking schedules were different. I woke up as early as 6 am to prepare for those going to school and would often stay up late, sometimes up to midnight to wait on those who were on holiday. They needed to enjoy the freedoms they did not have in boarding school. This meant cutting on my sleeping hours.

For one full month, I hardly serviced my role as the Marriage Anchor and put certain aspects of my personal life on hold. I cancelled most meetings because of the unfavorable timing. I couldn't attend evening fellowships. I could hardly attend to the phone calls from people in need of counseling. Even my night prayer routine suffered a blow - there was hardly enough time!

I was constantly exhausted with my back and feet in pain, nursing sleep deficits that never got fully serviced, night in, night out. To add insult to injury, some of the children got unwell and I had to wear my nursing hat as well.

Then I remembered the time my life was first put on hold due to motherhood. It was May of 2007. I got pregnant with our first son. Within the first 3 weeks of that pregnancy, a heavy morning sickness started. It was tough. I was forced to resign from my first job as a young woman.

The 4 pregnancies that ensued were all marred with the same morning sickness that would always render me bedridden, till delivery morning. My friends and Church members knew this. If I disappeared from the scene of events, the mystery was simply one - another pregnancy! This happened repetitively till our last pregnancy in 2016. We shall not mention the exclusive breastfeeding for the first 6 months for every baby. This also came with its own curfew.

Literally, I couldn't sustain any meaningful career until 6 years ago when our last born made 2 years. That is when my life began. 10 years after I conceived the first pregnancy!

My concern today is that some ignorant husband and father will underestimate a wife and mother that puts her career and social life on hold such that they can both raise a family. She is not appreciated and respected simply because she is just a housewife who apparently brings nothing to the table!

Oh, dear mothers! We deserve more credit than we are often rendered! Yes, we were built for this responsibility. However, the father should stop taking our contribution for granted! The price we pay, the value we add onto the family, and the time lost can never be regained or paid.

The price paid by some mothers out there is too traumatizing for comprehension!

Fathers! Husbands! Learn to recognize and appreciate the value of that woman who was designed by God to lay down her life, so you can have heirs. Just because you do sole provision doesn't mean her contribution is inconsequential!

Happy Mother's Day to every nurturer of life! You are appreciated, valued and celebrated!

NB: A Special thank you to the father of my children who ensures I am fully supported in my motherhood office!

Prossy Buyondo
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11 months ago | [YT] | 13

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11 months ago | [YT] | 10

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THE MISUNDERSTANDING

Did you know that couples often give up on one another due to differences in their upbringing?

Often, one's family background and how they were raised influences their behaviour. Everything one does today can be traced back to childhood exposure.

Therefore, it is wise for you to know what to expect from, say people of different generations. For example a Gen-Z baddie and a millennial want different things.

Do not expect a lady who was raised with domestic help doing all the chores, who was never taught to do the housework to do it when they're married!

Or you should know what to expect from a person who loves to share their entire life journey on social media and one who is more reserved and conservative.

A child that has been pampered and never lacked anything may find it harder to understand the concept of you not providing something they want. A person who has worked hard and has overcome challenges as a child is more likely to remain steadfast, no matter the storm of the relationship.

A man who was raised by a single mother, lacking any male demonstration of how to be husband and father, will most likely not know how that is done. Because children learn by observation not hearing what you say.

Therefore, take a minute and scan through your partner's upbringing. The answers you seek lie therein.

For more of these conversations; register TODAY for The Garden of Eden Affair Conference, scheduled for Sunday 24th November 2024, at Silver Springs Hotel Bugolobi.

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1 year ago | [YT] | 29

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FALLING IN LOVE WITH THE IDEA (Part Two)

THE PERSON

Have you ever met someone who seems perfect on paper, someone you envision marrying? The honeymoon phase is filled with excitement, but what happens when reality sets in? Sometimes, people fall in love with the IDEA of being with you, not the REAL YOU!

They spend the dating period enjoying the surface, neglecting to invest in understanding the depths of who you are and the sacrifices it takes to be your partner. Once married, the initial thrill fades, and they realize the path you're on comes with a price tag – a price they weren't prepared to pay. They may then create conflict, citing incompatibility and self-absorption.

But what if it's not about you being self-centered? Maybe your path, your dreams, and ambitions simply require a partner willing to walk alongside you, embracing both the joys and challenges. A partner who understands the "tuition" of being your spouse.

Are You Ready for Compatibility?

If you're fortunate enough to be dating or married to someone with a grand vision, someone with a significant path ahead, be prepared to invest in the relationship. True compatibility takes effort, understanding, and a willingness to grow together.

Join Us at The Garden of Eden Affair Conference!

Learn more about fostering compatibility in relationships at the upcoming #TheGardenOfEdenAffairConference on Saturday, November 2nd, at Silver Springs Bugolobi. This event is open to everyone, singles and married couples alike!

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1 year ago | [YT] | 13

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FALLING IN LOVE WITH THE IDEA

PART ONE;
The Commitment of Marriage

We often find ourselves drawn to the idealized image of marriage, but not the realities and responsibilities that come with it.

From a young age, many of us envision ourselves walking down the aisle, starting families, and living happily ever after. However, there's a crucial element often missing: open discussions about what marriage truly entails. We rarely learn about the adjustments required, the freedoms that may shift, or the importance of compromise.

Entering a marriage can be like inviting someone into your established routine. Suddenly, your once-individual world expands to include another person's dreams and aspirations. This can feel overwhelming if we haven't prepared for the beautiful complexities of building a life together.

Remember the age-old saying, "Two become one"? In a healthy marriage, both partners actively participate in shaping their shared future. They learn to navigate challenges by finding common ground, not by viewing differences as problems that are simply branded as Incompatibility!

Explore the topic of "Compatibility in Relationships" at the #TheGardenOfEdenAffairConference. This event aims to equip couples with tools to build stronger, more fulfilling partnerships.

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1 year ago | [YT] | 26

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The Power of Honoring Your Marriage

At the heart of human existence lies a partnership ordained by God—the union of a man and a woman. It's a partnership often undervalued, its potential for greatness overlooked. When one-half of this equation stumbles, the entire dream is compromised.

God's grand design for humanity commenced with marriage. This unified force was intended to reign over the earth, carrying out a divine mission as God's representative. Yet, a single act of disobedience shattered this perfect harmony. Eve's choice, influenced by external forces, pulled Adam into a shared downfall. Their dominion over the earth was lost, replaced by a life marked by toil and struggle.

The combined power of a husband and wife is a formidable force. United in purpose, they wield authority over their world. However, a weakened partnership becomes an easy target.

The enemy's strategy is as old as time: divide and conquer. By infiltrating one partner through cheating, disrespect or selfishness; discord ensues, and the couple's dominion is jeopardized.

A thriving marriage is not merely a personal benefit but a catalyst for achieving God's purpose. Scripture reveals that a dissatisfied partner can hinder your progress.

A fractured union can create a sense of exile, forcing individuals to fight for survival rather than supporting and complementing each other to grow.

To align with God's plan for your life, honour the sanctity of your marriage. Whether you're contemplating marriage or already committed, uphold its core principles.

Every decision within a marriage has consequences. By choosing to honour your vows, you're selecting a path of life, blessing, and dominion. A thriving marriage is more than a personal achievement; it's a strategic advantage in fulfilling your God-given purpose. It's a cornerstone for building a legacy that extends far beyond your lifetime.

Don't be selfish by delighting in self gratification without considering the consequences of your actions to your partner. Remember you are a team, sharing mutually the gains and losses of life.

This message is to those who seek to serve God's purpose for their lives excellently. If you really desire to fulfil God's commission on your life, and you want to get married or are already married, respect the tenets of this institution.

Remain faithful, trustworthy, and respectful, and serve each other's needs so that you give the devil no foothold to come in and wreck your world, resulting in a disconnection from the favour that comes with the marriage institution.

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1 year ago | [YT] | 22

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*THE MYSTERY OF SEXUAL INTIMACY*

Sex was designed by the Creator to be that place of absolute abandon. An experience of surrendering yourself wholly, withholding nothing.

It's not a place of hypocrisy, deceit, and conditions. Selfishness, pride, and prejudice ought to remain out. No manipulation or coercion should be accepted there.

It was designed to happen between two consenting people, in a committed relationship where there's no worry of the negative consequences. Your heart, mind, spirit, and body, have got to all be in the game.

Have you noticed the times your husband was flowing so well in foreplay, everything extremely hot and sweet; until he suddenly stopped to reach for a condom from the drawers and everything short-circuited?

Or the times you were busy approaching the climax and a baby woke up and cried. What about when you suddenly remember something nasty they did to you; or suddenly someone notices your big stomach and the disconnection happens?

The secret to experiencing transcendent intimacy is to first of all get married. That way, you are not worried about "pulling out" and the consequences thereof. Then focus on approaching each other with gratitude and appreciation of who this person is to you. This should trigger a smile from within.

Leave all your worries, fears, inadequacies, quarrels, and lack behind. Take every bite with pleasure for that moment. Close out everything around you and focus on giving each other everything you've got. Don't hold back on anything. Pour your strength, passion, and potential into every stroke.

Open your spirit up and let him or her in. Let them explore every chamber of you without reservations. Leave every shame behind. Then speak well of one another. Compliment. Praise. Exhort. That is why it is important to have forgiveness and let go of all anger before the act.

It's just like worshipping God. You must come from a place of not guilty. Liberated and knowing that you are welcome in His presence no matter what you haven't done right. Acknowledge that you belong to Him and He belongs to you. Approach the throne with confidence knowing that He longs for you as much as you are longing for Him.

[The fig tree forms its early fruit; the blossoming vines spread their fragrance. Arise, come, my darling; my beautiful one, come with me.” My dove in the clefts of the rock, in the hiding places on the mountainside, show me your face, let me hear your voice; for your voice is sweet, and your face is lovely]. Song of Solomon 2:13-14. NIV.

Therefore, you approach with excitement and anticipation of how His presence will make you feel with you in His arms. You come expecting to enjoy the sounds and perfumes of your rhythm, as you express your feelings for one another.

That is the place that gives a satisfying sexual encounter which will leave you refurbished. Suddenly, all your cares and worries of life will dissipate. You will enter the realm of abundance but most importantly, the assurance of your love for each other.

This is the reason for having continuous sex in a marriage relationship. Just like continuous worship experiences with God. Both experiences are meant to usher you into a place of tasting each other's love and trust. Such that, no matter what happens, you are assured that they will never leave you or forsake you.

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1 year ago | [YT] | 27

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SACRED MARRIAGE

The idea of a fairytale "happily ever after" can cloud the right attitude one should possess in a marriage. We enter, often with unrealistic expectations, focused solely on pleasing our partner. But what if the key lies not in outward attempts to fulfill these expectations, but in a deeper understanding of our individual posture within the divine plan?

Imagine entering marriage not with a checklist, but with open hearts and a shared dedication to serving God. This requires recognizing that He has unique expectations for each of us within the marriage bond. Fulfilling these, not the often-shifting desires of our partner, becomes the true focus.

Colossians 3:23-24 - beautifully guides us: "Whatever you do [whatever your task may be], work from the soul [that is, put in your very best effort], as [something done] for the Lord and not for men, knowing [with all certainty] that it is from the Lord [not from men] that you will receive the inheritance which is your [greatest] reward. It is the Lord Christ whom you [actually] serve.

This verse shifts the perspective. Our actions, even within marriage, become expressions of our devotion to God. Each act of love, forgiveness, and understanding becomes a sacred offering, not a means to appease a human desire.

Ephesians 5:22;25 further clarifies this divine calling: "Wives, submit to your own husbands as to the Lord, for the husband is the head of the wife as even Christ is the head of the Church... Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her..."

Here, submission and love are not about power dynamics, but about mirroring Christ's ultimate sacrifice for His church. We are called to treat our spouses with the same respect, devotion, and unwavering love that Christ demonstrates.

The Key Question:

Would you do unto the Lord what you are doing to your spouse?

This simple question becomes a powerful compass. Imagine treating your spouse with the same respect, kindness, and understanding you would offer Christ Himself. Instead of anger and resentment, imagine choosing forgiveness and patience, knowing you ultimately answer to a higher power.

Instead of comparing your partner to unrealistic standards on social media, you treat them as God's priceless creation, worthy of your love and acceptance just as they are, even as God values them.

Foreplay becomes an expression of reverence and care, making sex an act of worship. We honor God's image in our spouse, cherishing their unique qualities and appreciating their physical form as a gift from the Divine.

Anger melts into understanding. We choose our words carefully, knowing we wouldn't dare speak disrespectfully to God.

Faithfulness becomes an act of devotion. We recognize the sacred nature of our vows, knowing we ultimately commit ourselves to God through our commitment to our spouse.

Resources are shared with a higher purpose in mind. We invest in our marriage not just for personal happiness, but to create a haven that reflects God's excellence and generosity.

In this transformed mindset, we find true fulfillment and satisfaction. We discover joy not in fleeting trends and external validation, but in the deep, spiritual connection that mirrors our relationship with God.

Let us embrace this "divine compass" in marriage, allowing it to guide our every action. Let our unions become testaments to His glory, for pleasing Him is truly all that matters.

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2 years ago | [YT] | 22

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MERRY CHRISTMAS!

From The Marriage Anchor

The God Who Keeps His Promise

I wish you a joyous Merry Christmas 2023! This season of heightened festivities is a culmination of feasting, gatherings, gift-giving, and, most importantly, spiritual renewal.

Yet, amidst the revelry, let's remember the true reason for the season: *the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ.* As I pondered His birth, I was awestruck by the power of God, particularly His faithfulness in keeping promises.

The first mention of this Savior comes in Genesis 3:15: "And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and her offspring; He shall crush your head, and you shall bruise his heel." (AMP).

This was God's declaration to the serpent after Eve's transgression. He promised a descendant of Eve – the Seed – who would ultimately defeat the serpent.

Centuries later, that promise materialized through the birth of Jesus. Consider how many attempts the enemy made to thwart God's plan, yet the Seed of the Woman persevered. Jesus was born, lived, died, rose again, and triumphantly crushed the serpent's head, fulfilling God's promise once and for all!

Perhaps you, too, have received a promise from God. As we celebrate Christmas, I pray you find solace in the knowledge that if God kept His promise of a Savior, He surely will keep His promises to you! No matter the obstacles, remember why Jesus came and why you believe in His resurrection.

Hold onto your faith, resist doubt, and never give up on God's promises. He hasn't forgotten you!

May 2024 be a year of Restoration and Abundance, where you reclaim everything the "locusts" (challenges) of 2023 took away.

Merry Christmas!

The Marriage Anchor

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