Honestly, I didnāt expect the color to turn out this bright ā but somehow I kinda love it! š After the first wash though, I noticed it keeps shifting into a super vibrant orange š ⦠which wasnāt really what I had in mind. Iām thinking of going one shade darker to make it look a bit more natural. For the pros out there: I used 88/43 Wella Koleston for this shade. ChatGPT suggested 7/31 to balance it out ā adding more brown and toning down the brightness with the ash. Does that sound like a solid plan? Iām still torn, because I honestly do like the lighter look ā just not the neon orange vibe I ended up with. 𤪠What do you think?
What Iāve really noticed since cutting my hair short: I get more attention ā but a different kind. The kind that feels less sexualized, more like respect.
Once I realized that, it hit me: those old sayings like āwhen youāre happy with yourself, you radiateā ā theyāre true. Iām not searching, Iām not needing, I feel complete within myself. Self-contained, thatās what itās called, right? And it works. We humans communicate this subconsciously ā and we pick it up from others subconsciously too.
Most people project neediness. Thatās why it stands out so much when someone doesnāt. My recent experiences are pretty clear on that. And yes, I can trust my perception. Iām a woman, old enough to know: weāre conditioned from early on to sense how our environment perceives us.
Still, I find it fascinating. Because in the end, it all goes back to a simple pattern: love yourself, and youāll be loved. Easy, simple. BUUUUUUT: how much in todayās world is designed to distract us from exactly that state is honestly wild.
Anyway ā thatās my little take on what Iāve noticed since wearing a short haircut.
Mars Log ā Summer 2025 I really needed some distance from Earth ā so this year I flew to Mars for my summer vacation. And against all expectations, there is actually water here. Extremely salty, so that stones float on the surface ā I even managed to sit on one. What impressed me the most was the extraordinary silence. Unfortunately, I didnāt meet any other living beings. But that distance was exactly what I needed to look at my life on Earth from afar.
My latest haircut pics feel like a flashback to early 2000s energy. That early 2000s feeling when technology still felt sexy, but not overwhelming. somewhere between iMac ads, lipgloss, and club lighting.
I did it ā grabbed the scissors and gave myself a new look. No salon, no perfection. Just intuition and the guts to switch things up. āļøāØ
I let my community name the cut ā and I love what they came up with: The Himulet. A mix of Hime Cut and Mullet ā and honestly, the name nails it. The look kinda reminds me of a medieval warrior with a modern twist. š”ļøš¤
Is the cut perfect? Nope. But thatās not the point. Itās about experimenting, expressing yourself ā and knowing you can always change it again.
The name The Himulet instantly reminded me of that one painting of Jeanne dāArc by Albert Lynch ā the soft strength, the medieval edge, the armor-like presence. Thereās something about this cut that feels like a modern echo of that energy.
Everyoneās mad about Namra ā the Naruto-inspired oc character fully generated by AI. And honestly? I get the hate. I really do. Itās controversial in the creative world for a reason.
But hereās the thing: AI-generated art doesnāt belong to anyone. That means you donāt have to credit it. That means I can take it, make it my own, and build my look from it. Because on the photos, itās me. My body, my face, my presence. And that canāt be taken away. And thatās exactly how we can own it. AI art belongs to no one ā so it belongs to all of us.
For those of you who read all the way to the end ā Where would you place me? I know what Iām doing here kind of leans into cosplay⦠but itās not quite that either. Thereās this fine line between cosplay and⦠something else. What do you call that little in-between? Would love your thoughts.
I have carried enough. I have stayed silent enough. I have lost, forgiven, understood, and waited enough. I was strong when no one noticed. I stayed when others walked away. I was healing, even when no one held my wounds.
Now itās my turn. Itās my turn to be carriedā By people, by possibilities, by life itself. Itās my turn to be protected, without having to justify myself. Itās my turn to arrive, without having to bend or shrink.
Itās my turn to win. Not because Iām betterā But because I didnāt give up.
Itās my turn to be rewarded. For my clarity. For my soul. For my heart that still loves, despite all it has seen. For my courage to keep going anyway. For my lightāone that no one is allowed to dim anymore.
I know this isnāt just about me. This truth lives in millions of women. This is my way of honoring that shared strengthā Of celebrating our invisible thread. You are never alone. They just want you to believe you are. #hairstyles#himecut#feminism#womensupportwomen
Sara Urb
May our voices never be unheard again
#hairstyles #halloween #halloweenmakeuplook #witch
2 months ago | [YT] | 46
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Ever since I cut my hair short (and went for this bright orange color š ), Iāve been in the mood to go a little extra with my makeup ā more on the editorial side.
And honestly, whoās a better inspiration than Britney? š©µ
āToxicā was definitely my moodboard ā but mostly the visual part: the glitter, the blue flight attendant outfit⦠you know exactly what I mean. āļøāØ
#hairstyles #haircut #microbangs #himecut
2 months ago | [YT] | 59
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Honestly, I didnāt expect the color to turn out this bright ā but somehow I kinda love it! š After the first wash though, I noticed it keeps shifting into a super vibrant orange š ⦠which wasnāt really what I had in mind. Iām thinking of going one shade darker to make it look a bit more natural. For the pros out there: I used 88/43 Wella Koleston for this shade. ChatGPT suggested 7/31 to balance it out ā adding more brown and toning down the brightness with the ash. Does that sound like a solid plan? Iām still torn, because I honestly do like the lighter look ā just not the neon orange vibe I ended up with. 𤪠What do you think?
#hairstyles #haircolour #copperhair #orangehair
3 months ago | [YT] | 74
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Sara Urb
The Paradox of Attraction
What Iāve really noticed since cutting my hair short: I get more attention ā but a different kind. The kind that feels less sexualized, more like respect.
Once I realized that, it hit me: those old sayings like āwhen youāre happy with yourself, you radiateā ā theyāre true.
Iām not searching, Iām not needing, I feel complete within myself. Self-contained, thatās what itās called, right? And it works. We humans communicate this subconsciously ā and we pick it up from others subconsciously too.
Most people project neediness. Thatās why it stands out so much when someone doesnāt. My recent experiences are pretty clear on that. And yes, I can trust my perception. Iām a woman, old enough to know: weāre conditioned from early on to sense how our environment perceives us.
Still, I find it fascinating. Because in the end, it all goes back to a simple pattern: love yourself, and youāll be loved. Easy, simple. BUUUUUUT: how much in todayās world is designed to distract us from exactly that state is honestly wild.
Anyway ā thatās my little take on what Iāve noticed since wearing a short haircut.
#hairstyles #pixiecut #shorthair
3 months ago | [YT] | 56
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Sara Urb
Mars Log ā Summer 2025
I really needed some distance from Earth ā so this year I flew to Mars for my summer vacation.
And against all expectations, there is actually water here. Extremely salty, so that stones float on the surface ā I even managed to sit on one.
What impressed me the most was the extraordinary silence.
Unfortunately, I didnāt meet any other living beings.
But that distance was exactly what I needed to look at my life on Earth from afar.
4 months ago | [YT] | 38
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Sara Urb
My latest haircut pics feel like a flashback to early 2000s energy. That early 2000s feeling when technology still felt sexy, but not overwhelming.
somewhere between iMac ads, lipgloss, and club lighting.
#hairstyles #y2khair #bobhaircut #himecut #microbangs #y2kaesthetic
4 months ago | [YT] | 89
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Sara Urb
Back as a redhead āØš«¶š» #hairstyles #redhair #bobhair #bangs
5 months ago | [YT] | 61
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I did it ā grabbed the scissors and gave myself a new look. No salon, no perfection. Just intuition and the guts to switch things up. āļøāØ
I let my community name the cut ā and I love what they came up with: The Himulet. A mix of Hime Cut and Mullet ā and honestly, the name nails it. The look kinda reminds me of a medieval warrior with a modern twist. š”ļøš¤
Is the cut perfect? Nope. But thatās not the point. Itās about experimenting, expressing yourself ā and knowing you can always change it again.
The name The Himulet instantly reminded me of that one painting of Jeanne dāArc by Albert Lynch ā the soft strength, the medieval edge, the armor-like presence. Thereās something about this cut that feels like a modern echo of that energy.
#hairsytles #himecut #mullet #himulet #haircut #shorthair
6 months ago | [YT] | 69
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Sara Urb
Everyoneās mad about Namra ā the Naruto-inspired oc character fully generated by AI. And honestly? I get the hate. I really do. Itās controversial in the creative world for a reason.
But hereās the thing:
AI-generated art doesnāt belong to anyone. That means you donāt have to credit it. That means I can take it, make it my own, and build my look from it.
Because on the photos, itās me. My body, my face, my presence.
And that canāt be taken away.
And thatās exactly how we can own it.
AI art belongs to no one ā so it belongs to all of us.
For those of you who read all the way to the end ā
Where would you place me? I know what Iām doing here kind of leans into cosplay⦠but itās not quite that either.
Thereās this fine line between cosplay and⦠something else.
What do you call that little in-between?
Would love your thoughts.
#aiart #namra #hairstyles #himecut #animestyle #naruto #occharacter
7 months ago | [YT] | 43
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Sara Urb
I have carried enough.
I have stayed silent enough.
I have lost, forgiven, understood, and waited enough.
I was strong when no one noticed.
I stayed when others walked away.
I was healing, even when no one held my wounds.
Now itās my turn.
Itās my turn to be carriedā
By people, by possibilities, by life itself.
Itās my turn to be protected, without having to justify myself.
Itās my turn to arrive, without having to bend or shrink.
Itās my turn to win.
Not because Iām betterā
But because I didnāt give up.
Itās my turn to be rewarded.
For my clarity. For my soul. For my heart that still loves, despite all it has seen.
For my courage to keep going anyway.
For my lightāone that no one is allowed to dim anymore.
I know this isnāt just about me.
This truth lives in millions of women.
This is my way of honoring that shared strengthā
Of celebrating our invisible thread.
You are never alone.
They just want you to believe you are.
#hairstyles #himecut #feminism #womensupportwomen
8 months ago | [YT] | 61
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