Put The Shovel Down

Don’t wait until addiction causes you (or a loved one) to “hit bottom”. Addiction is highly predictable and can be outsmarted, which means you're NOT POWERLESS!

Subscribers of this channel are empowered to take back their lives and loved ones back from addiction.

Hello 👋🏻, my name is Amber. I've been dealing with addiction my whole life! I grew up in an addicted family and later became a Master Addiction Counselor. So, I understand addiction from both perspectives.

The conflict and chaos between people with addiction and their loved ones is the power source for addiction. Stop wasting your energy on power struggles, resentment, and self-pity, and you'll be able to beat addiction once and for all.

Don't believe me?!?

Stick around, and I'll prove it to you!





Put The Shovel Down

Tonight’s the night! 🚨
The Motivation Unlocked Challenge kicks off TONIGHT — your last chance to join before doors close.
If your partner’s drinking is creating chaos at home, this 5-day live event can change everything.

👀Have you joined yet?
👉 Grab your spot now: www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/motivation-unlock…

1 week ago | [YT] | 10

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If you’ve been walking on eggshells in your own home… this is your sign.
Two more days until we start the Motivation Unlocked Challenge! 🗓️
🖐️ live coaching days designed for people with functional alcoholic partners in denial.

I’ll show you how to:
• stop the constant tension
• get out of survival mode
• interrupt their denial
• create REAL movement (without a single argument)

You don’t have to keep doing this alone.
Join us before we begin → www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/motivation-unlock…

1 week ago | [YT] | 16

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‼️We’re opening another round of Motivation Unlocked! 🔐

If your partner is a functional alcoholic in denial, these 5 live coaching days can change everything. 🙌

🗓️⏳Join before Nov 12th → www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/motivation-unlock…

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 3

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You don’t have to wait for “rock bottom.”
I joined Dr. Debi Silber (episode 446 on From Betrayal to Breakthrough) to talk about addiction + betrayal—and why partners get cast as the villain (and how to reverse that).
We cover the exact tone, timing, and words that lower defenses and raise insight—without enabling.
▶️ Watch/listen: thepbtinstitute.com/446-addiction-and-betrayal-bre…
#PutTheShovelDown #FamilyRecovery #AddictionHelp #BetrayalTrauma #FromBetrayaltoBreakthrough

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 17

Put The Shovel Down

You don’t have to wait for “rock bottom.”
I joined Dr. Debi Silber (episode 446 on From Betrayal to Breakthrough) to talk about addiction + betrayal—and why partners get cast as the villain (and how to reverse that).
We cover the exact tone, timing, and words that lower defenses and raise insight—without enabling.
▶️ Watch/listen: thepbtinstitute.com/446-addiction-and-betrayal-bre…
#PutTheShovelDown #FamilyRecovery #AddictionHelp #BetrayalTrauma #FromBetrayaltoBreakthrough

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 19

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We start TODAY! 🎯
Come learn how to help your partner see the truth about their drinking, without pushing them away. I'll go live soon!
Join now → www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/motivation-unlock…

1 month ago | [YT] | 8

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Tomorrow’s the day! 🎉
Motivation Unlocked starts Monday — and I’ll be live coaching you through how to finally reach your partner (even if they’re in denial).
Join now → www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/motivation-unlock…

1 month ago | [YT] | 7

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🚨 The Motivation Unlocked Challenge kicks off in ONE week! ⏰

If your partner’s still in denial about their drinking, I’ll show you how to help them move from defensive to decision — starting next week.

🎟️ Save your seat → www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/motivation-unlock…

1 month ago | [YT] | 10

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✨ Part 2 is here! ✨
Dan’s story doesn’t stop at the pain—this is where the turning point begins. In this next chapter, he opens up about the hardest conversations, the moments of hope that almost slipped away, and what it really took for his brother to fight his way back from the edge.

This isn’t just about addiction, it’s about family, resilience, and the power of not giving up. 💙

👉 Watch Part 2 now and see how the story unfolds. https://youtu.be/6J47pgsDzlE

2 months ago | [YT] | 12