Life With The Singhs

Hey fam fam!🌸

I’m about to share a little encouragement with y’all today. This isn’t just for the ladies. It’s for the men too.

So stay with me all the way to the end because I truly believe this message is going to bless your day.

Prepare for God’s blessings.

I am 47 and pregnant. How did this journey start?

I know some of y’all are like, “Girl, how did you get your body ready for pregnancy at the age of 47?”

One thing I always wanted to say is, your girl over here was not actively trying to get pregnant at 47… or so I thought. But God had other plans.

I was about 30 pounds overweight. I was simply trying to get my health back together. I was dealing with high blood pressure. When I went to the doctor and they took my blood pressure, it was 165/101. The nurse looked at me and said, “You are going to damage your kidneys.”

That was the moment that started my health journey.

I lost 30 pounds, got my blood pressure under control, and then your girl right here got pregnant again by the grace of God because I trust God.

I knew my husband wanted to have another one, and the only words I said to God were, “I’m ready.”

And here we are, almost 22 weeks pregnant.

If you are wanting a miracle from God, I love something I once heard a lady say. She said, “If you’re praying for a husband, prepare yourself for your husband.”

Girl, you’ve got to get ready for the blessings God is about to give you.

And that goes for your body too. You’ve got to make sure your body is ready to carry that baby because our bodies are designed in a certain way and need to be at their best to carry a baby to full term.

I’ll give you another story.

When I was pregnant with one of my daughters, who’s now 19, we needed a bigger place. So I started packing boxes. Y’all, I had boxes sitting by the front door. My husband looked at me like, “Where are we going?”

I said, “I don’t know, but when God shows me where we’re supposed to move, we’re going to be ready.”

Before she was born, God blessed us with a townhouse. We honestly should never have gotten that townhouse because of the waiting list, but somehow that waiting list was pushed aside for us.

Let me tell you something. If God is telling you to prepare for something, prepare for it.

Now, I want you to hear my heart. This message isn’t just for those who are praying for a baby. It’s for anyone who’s believing God for a blessing in their life.

Whatever you’re waiting on God for, prepare yourself for it. Don’t wait until it gets here to get ready. Prepare your heart. Prepare your mind. Prepare your life.

Our preparation is an act of faith, and God honors that.

“Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us.” Ephesians 3:20

Yall have a blessed day. Love you all.

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Momma Singh

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Y’all, I am a believer in prayer. I believe that God hears our prayers, and I believe He answers according to His will because He is a good God.

🌸Welcome Fam Fam🌸

God showed me something recently that I wanted to share with you. I have friends, family, and people who love me and pray for me, and I am thankful for every one of them. There is beauty in having people surround you with prayer and stand in agreement with you.

But sometimes, not everyone will have the same faith, the same understanding, or the same expectation that you have regarding a situation. That doesn’t make them wrong. We all grow in different areas at different times.

For years, I struggled in the area of believing God for financial breakthrough. I could believe God for healing and miracles, but when it came to finances, there was a block in my thinking. God had to teach me and set me free in that area.

As I was praying, I felt the Lord remind me why He teaches us to pray for ourselves.

Jesus said:

“This, then, is how you should pray…”
Matthew 6:9

There are going to be seasons when you cannot find someone who believes exactly what you are believing for. There may be times when nobody around you understands what God has placed in your heart.

That is when you learn to pray.

That is when you learn to get on your knees.

That is when you learn to seek God for yourself.

Now hear me clearly, I absolutely believe in having people pray with you and stand in agreement with you. The Bible says:

“If two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven.”
Matthew 18:19

But there are moments in life when your greatest encouragement comes from knowing that you can go directly to God yourself.

You don’t need a special appointment.

You don’t need a middleman.

Through Jesus, you can come boldly before God.

“Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.”
Hebrews 4:16

And Jesus gives this invitation:

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
Matthew 11:28

So today I want to encourage you to open up your mouth and pray to God! God is not waiting on others to agree in prayer with you, He waiting for you, to pray in faith, asking for what you need!

Open your mouth and pray.

God hears you.

God sees you.

God knows exactly where you are.

Keep praying. Keep believing. Keep trusting Him.

The same God who hears a crowd hears a single voice crying out to Him in faith.

❤️🙏

Momma Singh

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🌸 Today I’m officially 21 weeks pregnant! 🌸

Hey Fam Fam!!!

I am so excited to be 21 weeks pregnant. It feels like this pregnancy is moving right along. We’re not quite there yet, but we’re getting closer every single day. 🤰

Baby is due at the end of October. Because of my age, my doctors aren’t planning to let me go past 39 weeks, but for now baby is doing great. Lots of kicks, lots of movement, and plenty of wiggles. My belly bump seems to be growing bigger by the day. 💕

Sleep is definitely becoming more of a challenge, so I think I’m going to order one of those pregnancy pillows and see if it helps me get some better rest at night.

As always, I want to leave you with a little encouragement.

The Bible says, “Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.” Psalm 30:5 ✝️

Every sunrise is a reminder that God has given us a brand new day. A fresh start. New opportunities. New blessings. 🌅 A new day to continue your journey to conceive, a new day to love on the children you already have, a new day to grow with your family, and a new day to simply enjoy the gift of life.

I’m out here poolside with my two younger kids. The grown kids aren’t nearly as interested in hanging out at the pool with the younger ones these days. Must be all that splashing they be doing. 😂

But me? I’m enjoying every minute of it and soaking up these moments while I can.

So if yesterday wasn’t your best day, remember that today is a new day. A new day that may bring new challenges, but also new joys.

I hope you enjoy your day.

As always, I’ll see you guys when I see you.

#LifeWithTheSinghs

Momma Singh

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47 and pregnant, y’all, and if you know anything about me, you know I’m going to share it all: cooking, faith, my beautiful family, and life as a Momma of soon-to-be nine. ❤️

So if you’re new here, just brace yourself. Some of these family pictures are going to have you giggling! 😂

But today, I wanted to share a little encouragement.

I recently read a post that reminded me how difficult it can be for those who have experienced pregnancy loss. I have experienced loss myself, so I understand that longing for a child and the questions that can follow.

One thing I know is this: if God has given you a promise, keep following His direction. That path may look different for each person. It may be through adoption, foster care, IVF, or natural conception. Whatever journey God is leading you on, trust Him and keep walking in faith.

And for those who are wondering, “Does God still hear my prayers after loss?” the answer is yes. He does.

The Bible tells us that He is close to the brokenhearted and comforts those who mourn.

I think about Elijah when he prayed for rain. After God promised to send rain, Elijah prayed earnestly and sent his servant to look toward the sea. The servant came back and said there was nothing there. Elijah told him to go back again and again. On the seventh time, the servant reported seeing a small cloud, about the size of a man’s hand, rising from the sea.

That small cloud was enough.

Elijah knew that God was doing exactly what He had promised and that the answer was on the way.

1 Kings 18:41-46

Now, I want to say this: this message is not only for those who are believing God for a child. This message is for anyone who is trusting God for a promise, a breakthrough, healing, restoration, provision, a new opportunity, or direction for their life. Whatever you are praying and believing God for, don’t give up hope. Keep trusting Him, even when all you can see is a cloud the size of a man’s hand. Sometimes the smallest sign is a reminder that God is still working behind the scenes.

Sometimes God gives us little reminders to keep believing. A word of encouragement. A scripture. A conversation. A moment of peace. Not because those things are the answer themselves, but because they remind us that God is working even when we cannot yet see the full picture.

So if you’re holding onto hope today, keep your eyes on God. Keep believing. Keep trusting. Don’t let the voices of doubt drown out the promises God has spoken over your life.

God has the final say.

I love y’all. Have a blessed day, and remember to keep the faith. ❤️

#LifeWithTheSinghs

Momma Singh

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Hey Fam Fam,

A little update on me! This Tuesday, I find out the gender of this baby! Me and the hubs are so excited to finally share with y’all whether we’re having a boy or a girl.

Besides that, your girl has been busy over here working on content, working on a sponsorship, keeping up with life, and just continuing to move forward. God is doing some amazing things, and I am so grateful for every blessing along the way.

Now let’s jump into some encouragement.

The Bible tells us that life and death are in the power of the tongue. So what are you speaking over your situation? What promises has God given you that you may have stopped believing? What dreams have you allowed doubt and discouragement to silence?

Today, I want to encourage you to open your mouth and speak life. Speak God’s promises over yourself every single day. Remember, God is not a man that He should lie. If He has spoken a promise over your life, He is faithful to fulfill it.

Don’t allow doubt, fear, or negative thoughts to convince you to stop believing what God has said. Stand on His Word and keep declaring His promises.

As Scripture says:

“So shall My word be that goes forth from My mouth; It shall not return to Me void, But it shall accomplish what I please, And it shall prosper in the thing for which I sent it.”
Isaiah 55:11 (NKJV)

Have a blessed and wonderful day. Remember to speak life over your life and trust God with the rest.

Blessings,

Momma Singh

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Hey fam fam, and happy Thursday Yall!🌸

Y’all, I’m finally getting back into the swing of things. First trimester is over, we’re officially in the second trimester, and your girl has her mojo back! My energy is back, my motivation is back, and that extra boost is back. So listen, y’all are about to get sick of me dropping content because I’m about to show up and show off in these YouTube streets! 😂

But as always, I want to leave you with a little encouragement.

God knows the plans He has for your life. The things we go through aren’t wasted. They can build our faith, strengthen us, and teach us to trust Him more. He is a God who is able to keep us, guide us, protect us, and give us the wisdom we need for every season.

Now, I’m not saying every situation is something God caused. Sometimes we reap the consequences of our own choices because what we sow is what we reap. But let’s make this a season of sowing good seeds, trusting God through the waiting, and believing for a good harvest in His timing.

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11

I hope you all have an amazing day! And of course, I’m about to drop some photos of my little furbaby. ❤️

#LifeWithTheSinghs

Momma Singh

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Hey Fam Fam 🌸🌸🌸💖

✨ Today, I turned 19 weeks pregnant and doing it all at age 47! 🙌🏽✨

I’m counting down, just 8 more days until my ultrasound, and I’ll find out if we’re having a baby girl or a baby boy. Y’all, I am so super excited and so grateful. Every kick, every movement that this baby makes in my womb is such a joy.

So let’s jump right into some encouragement.


God has been laying forgiveness on my heart lately. I know this can be a tough subject because sometimes people think forgiveness means allowing someone to continue hurting you. That’s not what forgiveness is.

Picture forgiveness like this…

You have a big old trash bag full of stinky, rotten food and dirty diapers that you’re dragging around everywhere you go. Every now and then, you open that trash bag and pull out that big, stinky, nasty rotten food and look at it. That’s what happens when we replay the things people have done to us. We pull it back out, we look at it, we remember the hurt, we remember the anger, and we remember the things that harmed us. Then it ruins our whole day. Not only does it ruin our day, but that filth gets on us as well.

The truth is, unforgiveness can become a stumbling block in our walk with God and can even affect our prayers. It can taint our hearts.

That’s why God tells us to forgive. Not because what happened was okay, but because He doesn’t want us carrying that burden around, and He doesn’t want our hearts to become hardened.

Instead of dragging that trash around, we are to put it outside and allow the trash man to come and take it away. In the same way, we surrender those hurts to God. We allow Him to heal our hearts, forgive us, fight our battles, and help us move forward in peace. 🙏🏽💖

But I want to stress this!!

Forgiveness does not mean allowing people to continue to hurt you, harm you, or do wrong to you. No. You put up healthy boundaries, and you guard your heart. But you no longer hold on to the hate, the anger, and the bitterness that can take root inside of you.

Forgiveness brings healing to your heart. It allows God to move in your life. It allows God to open doors in your life and work through you the way He wants to work through you. Because unforgiveness, all it does is harden the heart.

If God has laid it on your heart to deal with unforgiveness, surrender it over to Him. Ask Him to help you forgive, allow Him to heal your heart, and replace the sorrow with joy.

As Ephesians 4:32 says:
“And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.”

#LifeWithTheSinghs

Momma Singh ( don’t mind the fuzz on my shirt 🫢🤣)

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Hey fam fam!

If you were in the live today, I missed you all and truly enjoyed our conversation. As always, you are such a supportive and awesome group of people, and I appreciate every one of you.

For those who missed the chat, we talked about having children later in life and genetic testing. And I want to leave y’all with this:

In this life, you have to choose whose report you’re going to believe. I choose to believe the good report that God has spoken over me. As it says in Scripture, “You shall be the head and not the tail, above and not beneath.”

I also believe that God has good things in store for us as we continue walking this journey in faith. As Jeremiah 29:11 says:

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

Love y’all, and I’ll see you in these YouTube and Facebook streets!

#LifeWithTheSinghs

Momma Singh

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Hey Fam Fam!!! Happy Sunday ☺️

Picture of my cat representing how my first trimester went!🤦‍♀️😭🤣

Y’all, this morning I am still in my 18 weeks of pregnancy, and on Monday I’ll be 19 weeks. It’s getting so close!

On June 16th, I will find out if this baby is a girl or a boy. I still don’t know if I want to do a gender reveal or if I just want them to write it on a piece of paper and hand it to me. I don’t know, y’all. Your girl is excited! I honestly don’t know if I can wait. I just want to know!

But it’s going by so quickly, and I thank God that I can share this journey with you guys because this pregnancy, I give God all the glory and all the honor.

And I hope that me sharing this journey is encouraging not only those who are seeking God for another child, but also encouraging those in their faith walk with Christ. Whatever you’re going through, not just pregnancy related, I pray this journey reignites a fire in you to believe that He is the God who He said He is.

I love what Moses asked in the Old Testament. He said, “Who should I say sent me?”

And God said, “Tell them I AM sent you.”

That means:

“I AM your provider.”

“I AM your healer.”

“I AM your peace.”

“I AM your strength.”

“I AM your God.”

And here’s our encouragement for today.

Jesus turned water into wine.

Jesus called Lazarus out of the grave after he had been dead for four days.

Jesus told Peter, “Come,” and Peter walked on water.

God blessed Elizabeth in her older age with her very first child.

Jesus healed the woman with the issue of blood after twelve years of suffering.

Y’all see where I am going with this !!!🙌🏽

I don’t care what the report says.

I don’t care what the statistics say.

I don’t care if somebody says your chances are declining.

The thing that moves God’s hand is faith.

Faith in Him and obedience to His direction.

I know there are people here believing God for a baby naturally, or through IVF, surrogacy, adoption, or whatever path God may lead them down.

My encouragement is simple:

Whatever God tells you to do, do it!!

Because when Jesus turned the water into wine, His mother told the servants, “Whatever He tells you to do, do it.”

That’s what I’m standing on today.

Whatever God tells you to do, do it.

Trust Him.

Follow His direction.

Believe His report over every other report.

And if you’re struggling, pray this simple prayer:

“Lord, I believe; but when I struggle, help my unbelief.”(Mark 9:24)

Sometimes faith means shutting out the noise, turning down the opinions, and simply saying:

“God, I choose to believe You.”

If you can believe, all things are possible to him who believes.” (Mark 9:23)

The same God who worked miracles then is still working miracles today.

Momma Singh

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🌸 This message is for everyone today, whether you’re expecting a baby, loving on grandbabies, raising teenagers, walking through a difficult season, or simply needing a little encouragement.

✨ Women in Our 40s and Beyond: Unashamed & Unbothered ✨

I am currently in my 18th week of pregnancy and 47 years YOUNG 🤣🤣☺️, and if I know one thing about this pregnancy, it’s that this baby loves protein! 😂

Yesterday I had a chicken salad with some Spicy Doritos on the side. Don’t judge me on this one! Your girl is trying to keep that sodium in check because we want to keep that blood pressure behaving, but every now and then I have to have a little snack. 😆

Baby is doing well, and so am I.

Now let’s jump into some encouragement.

You guys know I love sharing stories about faith and things God has walked me through.

Today, I want to share a story involving one of my sons, Jacob, who is now 14 years old.

Jacob was born weighing 5 pounds, 5 ounces, and we brought him home at only 4 pounds, 13 ounces. He was the smallest of all my children.

Prior to that, I remember sitting in the doctor’s office waiting for the doctor to come in when I clearly heard these words in my spirit:

“Whose report will you believe?”

I remember thinking, “Lord, why are You asking me that? I’m going to believe You.”

A few moments later, the doctor came in and explained that Jacob had growth restrictions and that most of the blood flow was going to his head.

Yet when I walked out of that office, I had complete peace about it.

I didn’t understand everything that was going on, but God had already prepared my heart. When He asked me, “Whose report will you believe?” and I told Him, “Lord, I choose to believe You,” something settled deep within me. It was as if God gave me His peace right then and there. I can’t explain it any other way. Before the news came, God had already prepared my heart.

The Bible tells us to be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let our requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard our hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7

When we surrender every care to Him, He takes those cares and gives us His peace.

A few months later, I went in for another scan. The ultrasound technician kept looking at me and finally asked:

“Are you having any pain?”

“No.”

“Any discomfort?”

“No.”

She looked at me and said, “We’re going to have to admit you today because your baby needs to come today.”

Come to find out, a portion of the placenta had started to detach, and they felt it was best to go ahead and induce labor.

She kept looking at me because I wasn’t having any pain at all.

Talk about God!!!

That day, those words came back to me:

“Whose report will you believe?”

There are going to be things in life that come against you. There will be situations you don’t understand. There will be circumstances that try to shake your faith.

I think about the story in the Bible of the centurion who came to Jesus on behalf of his servant.

His servant was sick, and when Jesus offered to come to his house, the centurion said:

“Lord, I am not worthy that You should come under my roof. But only speak a word, and my servant will be healed.”

The centurion understood authority. He knew that if Jesus spoke it, it was already done.

Jesus was amazed at his faith.

The centurion believed the report of the Lord before he ever saw the result.

That’s the kind of faith God wants us to have.

A faith that says:

“Lord, if You said it, I believe it.”

A faith that trusts God’s Word even when circumstances haven’t caught up yet.

A faith that chooses God’s report over every other report.

When we surrender every situation to Him and choose to trust His Word, He will sustain us through whatever we face.

God sustained Jacob, and today he is a healthy 14year old young man.

Even though he was the smallest of all my children at birth, he is estimated to be around 6’3” when fully grown. I’m almost 5’8”, and he’s already taller than me! 😳😂

So today I want to leave you with this question:

Whose report will you believe?
“Who has believed our report? And to whom has the arm of the Lord been revealed?”
Isaiah 53:1 (NKJV)

Keep the faith. Hold on to God’s promises. Trust Him even when you don’t understand the process.

Hope you all have a blessed day! ❤️

Love y’all,

Momma Singh

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