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Stop Being the “Bad Common Denominator” in All Your Relationships ✨

Sometimes the hardest truth to face… is the one staring back at us in the mirror. When every friendship, partnership, or situationship seems to fall apart the same way, it’s easy to blame circumstance, timing, or somebody else’s flaws. But real growth begins when you’re brave enough to ask:

“What part am I playing in this pattern?”

And hear me clearly—
This isn’t about beating yourself up.
This is about elevating yourself.

Here’s the beauty:
If you are the Common Denominator, then you also hold the Power to Change Everything

Growth starts with three steps:

💛 Self-awareness – Be honest about your habits, triggers, and reactions. You can’t fix what you won’t acknowledge.

💛 Accountability – Stop explaining away red flags in your own behavior. Own it, learn from it, and stand on the lesson.

💛 Rebuilding with intention – Set boundaries, practice empathy, Communicate with Clarity, and show up the way you expect others to show up for you.

Because healing isn’t about becoming perfect—it’s about Becoming Better.

And the moment you choose to Stop Pointing Fingers and Start Pointing Inward, You Unlock a Version of Yourself that is Wiser, Softer, Stronger, and Ready for Healthier Love and Deeper Connections.

You are not the villain in Your Story.
You are the Author.
And Today… You Can Write a New Chapter.

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I seen this and if you know me… I Share because we never know Who May Need to Read It.

A woman will pour her heart out for months… sometimes years… trying to save a relationship that’s already draining the life out of her. She’ll communicate, she’ll cry, she’ll explain the same thing a hundred different ways, hoping that this time he’ll finally hear her. She’ll beg him to show up, to try, to care, to meet her halfway. And every time he shrugs it off, every time he says “you’re overreacting,” every time he promises and then goes right back to doing nothing… a little piece of her dies.

And then one day...quietly, calmly...she shuts down. Not because she stopped loving him, but because she stopped believing he would ever change. When a woman is done, she’s done long before she ever walks out the door. By the time she leaves physically, she already left emotionally months ago.

But here’s the part that always gets twisted:
The moment she finally walks away, that’s when he suddenly wakes up. That’s when he wants to “fix things.” That’s when he decides he’s ready to love her the way she’s been begging for. Not because he changed… but because he’s losing the one person who kept choosing him even when he gave her nothing to work with.

And then he has the nerve...the boldness...to go around telling everybody, “I tried… she didn’t care… she left me.” Conveniently forgetting the fact that she spent six months repeating herself, six months fighting alone, six months holding the relationship together with prayers and hope while he was coasting like everything was fine.

They never talk about the part where she begged him to see her.
They never mention the nights she cried beside him while he slept peacefully.
They never admit that she didn’t give up… she just ran out of things to hold on to.

A woman doesn’t leave because she stopped caring.
She leaves because she finally realized he never cared enough to stay.

I am that woman 🥹

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I 🖤🖤 a Great Message and reminder


He is the head. She is the backbone. Together they form the body — their union, their children, their legacy. But here’s what many don’t understand: if the head doesn’t protect the backbone, the entire body collapses. The man is the vision, but the woman is the structure that holds it up. She carries the weight, the balance, and the pulse of the home. And though she’s strong, she’s also delicate — not weak, but sacred. If she’s not loved, respected, and covered, the whole system goes numb.

That’s why the old saying “Happy Wife, happy Life” holds truth — but it’s incomplete. Because a happy wife without a happy husband is still a broken house. Real harmony comes from a happy couple — two people emotionally fed, spiritually aligned, and moving in purpose together. The woman must protect her man’s peace just as he protects her heart. A man clouded by stress can’t lead clearly; a woman starved of love can’t nurture freely.

As a couple, you must guard what you’ve built. Keep outsiders from whispering into your union. Pride and ego destroy more homes than infidelity ever could. She must learn him, and he must study her. Because love without understanding is just attraction on borrowed time.

And watch who you let into your circle. Some people aren’t cheering for your relationship — they’re waiting for it to fall. Not everyone who smiles at you is loyal to you. Protect your kingdom. Real queens don’t compete with chaos; they build stability beside a king who leads with God’s hand. Princesses need validation — but queens, they create legacy.

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Some of yall was never raised on “ treat others how you want to be treated” and it shows.

People be hurting they self, thinkin they hurtin you 💯

#lifelessons #healingopenly #movingforward

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First imma treat you how I wanna be treated. Then imma treat you how you treat me.

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Make today a Great Day on Purpose

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Sometimes all it takes is an Apology, Accountability, Honesty and Consistency!
Happy Thursday! Have a great day on purpose! ❤️

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Thankful Thursday - As Long As I Got God I Will Always Be Grateful For Every Trial And Tribulation - Because in the End God Wins 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

How do you praise God when you don’t understand what’s happening in your life or in this world right now? How do you keep your head above water—when you feel like you’re sinking fast? When you feel like God is silent, how do you keep your eyes on Jesus when they are full of tears?

The situations that stretch your faith the most will be those times when life is falling apart and all hope is lost and God is nowhere to be found. This is when you....CRY OUT!! Pour out your heart and tell God exactly how you feel.

God is ALWAYS present, even when you are unaware of Him! His presence is too profound to be measured by mere emotion. Yes, He wants you to sense his presence, but He is more concerned that you trust Him—more than you can feel Him. FAITH, not feelings pleases God. He WILL definitely come see about you.🧚🏾

We have to pray without ceasing for our circumstances and our country.
As my grandmother used to say...
”It’s gonna be all right, by-and-by!” 🙌🏾

3 months ago | [YT] | 2

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Not Every Battery Fits Every Light

Sometimes, we pour our attention, affection, compassion, or direction into others, hoping to recharge them. But not every person uses that energy to shine brighter—some may even dim your own light with the same battery you gave them. Be kind, but protect your own glow.

#relearning #ProtectYourLight #RechargeWisely #GuardYourEnergy #PositiveVibesOnly #EmotionalBoundaries #EnergyExchange #ShineBright #ChooseWisely #SelfCare #LightGivers

4 months ago | [YT] | 11

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Truthful Tuesday

This message was written by a Man. I read, I like, so I Share as someone may need it 🖤🥰


“When He Betrays You, It’s Often His Wounds Speaking”


When a man commits adultery, it’s rarely just about sex or temptation.

It’s a siren going off, a signal that something deep within him is broken or undeveloped.

It’s a sign he needs to heal the boy and awaken the man.

Here’s why:

1. The Boy Is Still Running the Show

The boy inside him might be wounded, neglected, or insecure.

He learned to hide, lie, perform, or chase validation because somewhere along the line, he believed he wasn’t enough.

Adultery becomes the escape, the numbing, the thrill, the fantasy. It’s the boy screaming for attention, safety, or significance.

But boys don’t lead well.
Boys don’t own their mistakes.
Boys don’t protect what matters most.

2. The Man Hasn’t Fully Shown Up Yet

A real man doesn’t need to escape.
He feels the pull, but chooses presence.

He wrestles with ego, but chooses honesty.
He carries pain, but chooses to process it. not project it.

The man leads.
The man owns.
The man builds instead of destroys.

Adultery shows that part of him is still asleep. Still undeveloped. Still stuck.

3. Healing Is Not Just About Saving the Marriage, It’s About Saving Himself

The goal isn’t just to stop the affair.
It’s to face the part of himself that led him there.

To ask the hard questions:
•Why did I need this?
•What was I avoiding?
•Who am I becoming if I keep living like this?

Because when a man heals the boy, he no longer needs validation through destruction.

And when he awakens the man, he becomes a husband, a father, and a leader worth following.

Adultery is not the end.
But it is a crossroads.
He either keeps drifting… or finally wakes up and becomes the man his family needs.

If you’re ready to stop running and start rebuilding, it starts with honesty, ownership, and inner work.

That’s where healing begins.
That’s how men rise.

#HealingAfterBetrayal
#ItsNotYourFault
#UnderstandingInfidelity
#BetrayalTrauma
#WomenWhoRise
#FromBrokenToHealing
#TruthOverPain
#WoundedMenWoundOthers
#ProtectYourPeace
#EmotionalHealingForHer
#BoundariesAndHealing
#ClarityIsPower
#Relearning
#TruthfulTuesday

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