Stop Trying to "Fix" Yourself. The Self-Help Industry is Broken.
You've been sold a lie: that you're not productive enough, not disciplined enough, just... not enough. So you consume more content, buy more courses, and feel more guilty.
What if the problem isn't you, but the terrible advice you're consuming?
I'm Kaustav. After 14 years in corporate leadership, I saw the data: the "hustle culture" they're selling you is designed to create burnout, not success.
This channel is the antidote to the self-help poison.
We don't add more noise. We help you unsubscribe from the toxic myths so you can:
Ignore the 5 AM gurus.
Embrace strategic laziness.
Build a life that doesn't require a "escape plan."
This isn't motivational content. It's a de-programming session.
If you're tired of being told you need to transform, and you're ready to start building intelligently, you're in the right place.
Hit subscribe. Or don't. It's okay to be normal.
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I WISH SOMEONE HAD GIVEN ME THIS SOONER. 🎯
That sinking feeling when a "Got a minute?" text appears... or when a big idea gets met with "But what about the details?" 😮💨
Sound familiar?
For years, I thought these communication fails were just a part of life. Then I created a simple "Cheat Sheet" for myself—just 3 questions—that changed everything.
It helped me:
Stop feeling misunderstood at work.
Prevent unnecessary arguments in my relationships.
Finally feel in control of my conversations.
My new video is live, and I'm breaking down this entire framework for you. This is the missing piece no one taught us.
👉 Watch here: The Communication Cheat Sheet No One Gave You
https://youtu.be/lh3HdwKpz4c
But before you do... I'm genuinely curious:
What's ONE communication habit that always throws you off? (e.g., vague texts, unsolicited criticism, long voice notes...)
Tell me in the comments below! Let's get real about this.
GRATITUDE & REGARDS
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Ever leave a convo feeling totally drained? 😩 Or get feedback that just lands wrong?
- This cycle repeats when people have to GUESS how to treat you. The fix? Give them a cheat sheet! 📝
- My new video shows you exactly how to create one and save your social battery. 💡
Save this post! The video drops soon.
#CommunicationHacks #PeoplePleasing #SocialAnxiety #GenZ #MentalHealth #SelfCare #Boundaries #WorkplaceCommunication #FriendshipAdvice #KNotes #unfoldlearning #Growthmindset #personaldevelopmen
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Learning Postcard from Paris: YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN DECIDE HOW YOU WILL LIVE YOUR LIFE...
Paris can be a sensory overload triggering my anxiety about keeping up. But I learned to find pockets of calm amidst the beautiful chaos.
It's a practice, not a destination - You don't need to control the external world to find inner peace!
What do you think?
#Paris #anxiety #innerpeace #growthmindset #unfoldlearning
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📢 NEW VIDEO ALERT! 📢
Ready to ditch the grind and build self-discipline that actually sticks? 💪
Episode 23 Part 2 of the UnfoldLearning Podcast is LIVE! 🔥 Learn how to create sustainable habits that flow effortlessly into your life (no willpower needed!).
➡️ Watch "How to Build Sustainable Self-Discipline Habits - Ditch The Grind, Embrace The Flow" now: https://youtu.be/ZlpMALhOAz8?si=zSbpI...
Let me know in the comments - what's one tiny habit you're going to start with after watching? 👇
#selfdiscipline #habits #growthmindset #personaldevelopment #newvideo #unfoldlearning
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🚫💼 "Why I Stopped Caring What My Boss Thinks (And You Should Too)" | The Secret to Surviving Toxic Work Culture
🔥 Overwhelmed by office politics? Exhausted from bottling up emotions at work? In this week’s newsletter, I’m breaking down the hard truths no one tells you about navigating toxic workplaces—and how to protect your peace without losing your edge.
👉 READ NOW to learn:
✅ Why “detaching” is the ultimate career power move.
✅ How to stop overthinking and start outperforming.
✅ The 3 rules I live by to keep work from consuming my life.
Spoiler: It’s not about working harder. It’s about working smarter.
📩 Subscribe to my newsletter for weekly raw, relatable advice on breaking stereotypes and thriving on your own terms. No fluff. Just real talk.
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Hey there growth seekers! 👋
Welcome to my 2025 reading journey! I'm kicking off the year with this amazing stack of books 📚 and I'm SO excited to dive in.
This isn't just about checking books off a list, is it? For me, reading is about the process - slowing down, absorbing new ideas, challenging my perspectives, and constantly learning and growing. It's about valuing the journey of understanding, not just the destination of finishing the book.
In this post/video, I'm sharing my starting stack for 2025 and asking YOU: What books are you planning to read to fuel your growth and learning this year?
Let me know -
- Your top book recommendation for 2025!
- What are you hoping to learn or gain from reading this year?
- Tag a friend who loves to read and learn!
Happy Reading!
#BookReading #2025ReadingList #ReadingJourney #LifelongLearning #GrowthMindset #BookTube #BookRecommendations #ProcessOfLearning #KnowledgeJourney #ReadingCommunity #NewYearReads #PersonalDevelopmentBooks #BestBooks2025 #Bookish #unfoldlearning
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DO YOU RELATE TO THIS? -- Is "good" really the goal? Or are you sometimes left wondering... is this all there is? Even when life looks great from the outside, that nagging feeling of "something missing" can creep in.
In my new newsletter, "That Feeling When 'Good' Isn't Quite 'Enough'," I'm getting honest about this feeling of restlessness and the quiet pursuit of something deeper than just ticking off boxes.
Have you ever felt this way? Join the conversation! Read the full newsletter to explore:
LINK IS HERE: open.substack.com/pub/unfoldlearningwithkaustav/p/…
The paradox of success and still feeling unfulfilled
- Why this feeling might be normal, especially in your 30s (or any age!)
- First steps towards navigating this and finding more meaning
➡️ Click the link below to read the full newsletter and share your thoughts in the comments!
open.substack.com/pub/unfoldlearningwithkaustav/p/…
#IsThisAllThereIs #SomethingMissing #Purpose #MeaningOfLife #Fulfillment #PersonalGrowth #SelfHelp #Motivation #Inspiration #LifeQuestions #Midlife #30s #Mindfulness #Wellbeing #Newsletter #NewNewsletter #unfoldlearning
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An intentional moment to Look Back to Look Forward...| Unfoldlearning with Kaustav | My Newsletter!
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Why Your Resolutions Fail by February?
Discover why most resolutions don’t stick and how starting with reflection can transform your year.
Watch the full episode on the Unfoldlearning Podcast for practical insights.
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Ever feel like you're craving more genuine connection? Well, that has been my intent for long and with the new year, I have committed to outline my thoughts and experiences with my weekly newsletter. Yes, I am going to be in pursuit to foster relationships with you all with my writing.
In my weekly newsletter, I open up about my own journey – the ups, the downs, and everything in between. Expect personal reflections, valuable learnings, and a space for us to connect.
Subscribe and let's build a community: substack.com/@unfoldlearning
#authenticity #growth #weeklyinsights
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