Pink Girl Teaches | Narc Abuse Recovery

Rock bottom wasn’t a moment for me, it was a season. A long one, the kind you don’t post about because you’re just trying to survive it. I thought it would choke the life out of me.

The sorrow was heavy, the despair was overwhelming. Every day felt like I was buried under the weight of disappointment, loss, unanswered prayers, and a version of myself I didn’t recognize anymore. I didn’t just want the season to end, I wanted to escape it.

But what I didn’t know then is this: that was the exact place where my relationship with God took root, not on the mountaintop, not when things were clear and not when prayers were answered quickly. But underground, covered and hidden.

See, roots don’t grow upward first, they grow down. Deep into the dark. Into the soil where pressure is real and resistance is constant. And the deeper the root, the stronger the plant’s ability to stand when storms come and storms will come because life… life will life.

This is why shallow faith collapses when hardship hits. When belief hasn’t been tested, when trust hasn’t been stretched, when dependence on God hasn’t been forged in the dark, everything looks strong until the winds pick up.

Jesus explains this principle clearly in Matthew 13:24-30, when He teaches about the wheat and the tares growing together. The field looks messy. Confusing. Undistinguishable at first glance. But the wisdom is in the waiting. The farmer doesn’t rush the process because uprooting too early risks destroying what’s still being established.

And that’s what God was doing with me, what felt like delay was actually protection. What felt like burial was actually planting. What felt like abandonment was actually intentional placement. Some seasons are covered on purpose, you’re not being punished. You’re being rooted.

God knows that if He pulls you out too soon, if you rush past the grief, the pruning, the surrender, you won’t be able to withstand what’s coming next. Depth is required for durability. So if you’re reading this and you feel stuck in a season you want to skip… If everything in you is screaming, “God, hurry this up”… If you feel buried instead of blessed…..

Pause.

This may be the very soil where your faith is being established. Where your discernment is sharpening. Where your dependence on God is becoming unshakable.

Don’t rush covered seasons, don’t despise the dark. Don’t compare your underground work to someone else’s harvest. Growth is happening, even when you can’t see it yet and one day, when the storms come (because they will), you’ll realize: the season you thought would break you is the reason you didn’t break at all.

Govern yourself accordingly.

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Pink Girl Teaches | Narc Abuse Recovery

You don’t need permission to heal.
You don’t need approval to grow.
And you don’t need to stay stuck because of where you started.

The beginning doesn’t define you.
Your obedience from this point forward does.

If you’re ready to stop surviving and start rebuilding, this is your moment.

👉🏽 Rebuild with us at
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2 weeks ago | [YT] | 53

Pink Girl Teaches | Narc Abuse Recovery

Reconciliation is NOT evidence of forgiveness. Let’s clear this up once and for all. The healing community gets this wrong far too often.

Forgiveness does not mean the abuse didn’t happen.
Forgiveness does not excuse a narcissist’s behavior.
Forgiveness does not require reconciliation, proximity, or access.

Biblical forgiveness was never an invitation for an unrepentant narcissist to keep harming you. Jesus forgave and confronted. God extends mercy and sets boundaries. Wisdom says distance is protection, not bitterness.

If there is no repentance, no change, and no accountability, no contact is not unforgiveness, it’s discernment and if people are uncomfortable with your boundaries, that’s their conviction, not your calling.

🗣️ You can forgive and close the door.
🛑 You can heal without reconciling.
🔥 You can obey God without sacrificing yourself on someone else’s altar.

If this message hit, it’s time to rebuild with clarity, truth, and holy boundaries.

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👉🏾 Rebuild your life. Reclaim your authority. Refuse the narcissist access.
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Pink Girl Teaches | Narc Abuse Recovery

Thy Kingdom come 🙏🏾🩷

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Pink Girl Teaches | Narc Abuse Recovery

At first, they looked flawless but time exposes patterns which reveals their spirit. A narcissist will maintain the façade as long as control is intact.
Charm in the beginning, confusion in the middle and cruelty in the valley. Who you meet during devaluation is who they’ve always been just no longer motivated to pretend and once God opens your eyes, you can’t unsee it.

👉🏾 That wasn’t “love changing.”
👉🏾 That wasn’t “you asking for too much.”
👉🏾 That wasn’t “a rough season.”

🗣️ That was exposure.

God, in His sovereignty, does not allow masks to stay intact forever. What looked like loss was actually deliverance. What felt like betrayal was God breaking your agreement with deception. You didn’t miss it, you were led out of it and if you’re wondering why it hurt so deeply, it’s because warfare always intensifies right before freedom.

This is not the end of your story, it is the clearing of the ground. Prepare to rebuild.

🖤 Strategy.
🖤 Discernment.
🖤 Spiritual authority.
🖤 Identity restoration.

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3 weeks ago | [YT] | 104

Pink Girl Teaches | Narc Abuse Recovery

Some of you are still waiting for approval to heal. Waiting for the narcissist to validate what they broke. Waiting for people who benefited from your silence to suddenly applaud your freedom.

🗣️ Hear me clearly: Jesus did not die so you could keep asking permission to live.“It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.” Galatians 5:1

👉🏾 Freedom was paid for, not postponed.
👉🏾 Healing was purchased, not negotiated.
👉🏾 Your voice was redeemed, not meant to stay muted.

When Christ said “It is finished,” He wasn’t talking about them, He was talking about your bondage. Your trauma does not get the final word, the Cross already spoke. Stop living like an extra in a story where you are the redeemed of the Lord. Stop shrinking to survive rooms God already authorized you to outgrow. You don’t need permission when He already paid the price.

“Let the redeemed of the Lord say so.” Psalm 107:2

So say it, walk it and live like you know what it cost. If you’re done asking for permission and ready to decide, come sit at the table.

👉🏾 Visit www.pinkgirlteaches.com Healing resources. Biblical truth. No fluff. No bondage.

Drop a 🔥 if this hit.
Share this with someone who’s still waiting for permission God never required.

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Where healing meets truth and freedom stays biblical.

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Pink Girl Teaches | Narc Abuse Recovery

They tried to summarize her by her past however Jesus introduced her by her purpose. The woman at the well wasn’t overlooked by God because of her history but rather, she was strategically positioned by Him.

👉🏾 Five marriages didn’t disqualify her.
👉🏾 Trauma didn’t silence her.
👉🏾 Shame didn’t cancel her assignment.

Jesus met her on purpose at the place people talked about her and this was not to expose her, but to restore her authority and to those reading this who survived narcissistic abuse, hear me clearly: What you went through did not confuse God. What tried to break you did not outrank His sovereignty. What manipulated you does not get the final word. Narcissistic abuse thrives on rewriting your identity but God restores it.

People may reduce you to what you endured, but God always speaks to who you’re becoming. You are not damaged goods, you are not disqualified, you are positioned. The same God who met her at the well is meeting you at the point of your clarity, your healing, your no-more-tolerance, your rebuilding and when God preserves your future, no human gets to veto it.

This is your reminder: your story is still under divine authorship. Ready to rebuild with truth, clarity, and authority? Visit PinkGirlTeaches.com This is where survivors stop surviving and start ruling.
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Pink Girl Teaches | Narc Abuse Recovery

Narcissists rely on passivity and silence, they will gaslight you into believing you are the problem because they know accountability threatens their illusion of control. Let’s be clear: Calling out harm is not bitterness and naming behavior is not cruelty. Truth does not become disrespectful just because someone refuses to repent.

Biblically, silence never won.

👉🏾 David confronted Saul.
👉🏾 Nathan confronted David.
👉🏾 Jesus confronted the Pharisees publicly,  not to shame, but to expose what darkness was hiding.

Accountability is not unloving, it’s necessary and healing does not require you to protect the ego of someone who refused to protect your heart. If you’re done confusing peace with silence, you’re ready to rebuild.
If this resonated, begin your healing with clarity not guilt.

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4 weeks ago | [YT] | 97

Pink Girl Teaches | Narc Abuse Recovery

Saying no doesn’t make you cold, it  makes you clear. Some of you were taught to over-explain, over-give, and over-extend in the name of love when in reality, it was fear dressed up as kindness. But healed people don’t panic at boundaries, they  honor them.

👉🏾 Jesus Himself said no.
👉🏾 He withdrew.
👉🏾 He disappointed people.
👉🏾 He chose obedience over access.

“Let your ‘Yes’ be yes, and your ‘No,’ no.” (Matthew 5:37)

If your yes costs you peace, it’s not love, if your no protects your obedience, it’s wisdom. Loving them should never require losing and loving God means I no longer negotiate my boundaries to keep the peace.
If you’re learning how to say no without guilt and care for your emotional health in a biblical way, start here:

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Lovingly, no. 💗
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4 weeks ago | [YT] | 44

Pink Girl Teaches | Narc Abuse Recovery

Narcissists thrive in chaos because chaos gives them access — to your emotions, your reactions, your energy. But the unhealed parts of us respond to chaos because it feels familiar, not because it’s God.

Scripture is clear:

“For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace.” (1 Corinthians 14:33)

When chaos feels like urgency, pressure, or obligation, pause. God doesn’t rush you, He doesn’t bait you and God doesn’t need confusion to move you.

Healing looks like discernment and rebuilding looks like choosing peace even when chaos is loud. Main character energy looks like no longer responding to what was designed to keep you stuck.


If you’re ready to stop reacting and start rebuilding, we’re here. Visit www.pinkgirlteaches.com and take your next step toward clarity, healing, and wholeness.

You survived. Now choose peace. 💗
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