Taking up space means existing without permission. You don’t need permission to be there.

You have debt and better lighting, trying to keep up with the Joneses

You can go in a room ask everyone’s opinion and still come out with the wrong answers.

Stop listening to everyone’s opinion

Pay attention to what people are taking from your table 

Stop changing who you are to make other people comfortable.

The Audit: #1 Friendships

People show you who they are and you keep denying it.

Do you have just a circle or do you have real friendships?

You are tap dancing for a place that wouldn’t even care if you quit.

“ you do not need permission to take up space you’ve already paid for”

I realize I was giving to everyone else but myself. My math was simply off.

You can have an opinion, but you don’t have the right to give me your opinion.

Being vague in my mind is someone who is unprepared. Being clear is a luxury to encounter.

I don’t give a hoot about your theories. I have nothing to prove nor will I go to trial.

Stop trying to be and do everything. Pass that task

You could spend all day trying to figure out the Y or you could move on 

Just because I could carry something does not mean it should be on my back.

Watch how much your value goes up when you stop being an option.

The life you have is a direct reflection of your standards.

It’s always them and never you.

Nothing changes If nothing changes.

The likes are feeding you but not healing you.

There are levels to friendships.

Respect my boundaries. Create boundaries. Have boundaries.

Being hyper independent definitely led to me being burnt out

I understand venting but I honestly got my own problems so I don’t want to hear it.

Messy people always have a reason but never an apology.

Once you master, the art of not being offended, your life will be easier

Someone might say I don’t want a bad enough. Making a sacrifice to get my goals has been hard!

Ask away, that doesn’t mean I am obligated to say yes.

You should be able to have a disagreement and it be just that.

Trust the process. Give it time. You can’t rush greatness.

Lock in twin! lol. Part-time work produces part-time results.

You chose to not read the terms and conditions now you’re upset because I’m creating the boundary.

Every time when you should’ve said no gets you closer and closer to burn out.

Someone will easily say they have your back, but it can be conditional and with stipulations.

A clean conscious doesn’t react

You won’t be able to outrun your pile of dirt that you built.

The repercussion of being an emotional operation manager

You can’t put a deadline on your healing.

This is your sign to stop playing it small. Bet on yourself and start playing big.

Strategic silence. It’s about not saying anything to gain power.

Sometimes I have no response because you don’t deserve anything else from me.

Some doors are not worth knocking on twice.

Being self-aware does not make it hurt any less

Have you ever been tired in a way that Sleep cannot fix? It’s emotional exhaustion.

Some days surviving is the work that is good enough.