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My name is Abisade, and I’m a Nigerian creator living in Lagos. I started this channel to share my journey as a 20-something navigating life on a budget, saving money, and building dreams.
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Abisade Adedayo
Hello Softies
We finally have a name I can call you all .
It's being such a long time coming.
Can I say Happy new year now (don't roll your eyes at me please🤣)
This is me officially welcoming you to a new year and I pray for a soft life for us this year hence why we have the name Softies.
I am finally back and I promise to be more consistent.
Please watch the videos on the channel and welcome me back .
See you later Softies ❤️
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Abisade Adedayo
Hello Online family members❤
I know the goal this year was to be consistent(I am sure I am already sounding like a broken record at this point).
My final exams starts in few days, coupled with project and field works- I have been out of elements for a while
I have a video on this week why I have also been away(my apartment got flooded)
Please do well to watch my videos and wish me well in my exams.
2 years ago | [YT] | 18
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Abisade Adedayo
I did a thing on @theestheradisa and it was a lit one 🥰🥰
I think African culture is highly biased against women in some ways what do you think ?
Kindly watch the video and let me know what you think.
Do you agree with me?
Please remember to like , comment and share
2 years ago | [YT] | 3
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Abisade Adedayo
Happy new week
Wishing you a prosperous week ahead 😘
Sorry I didn't post a video this weekend.
It was due to reasons beyond my control,
Hope to make up to y'all.
Have a great week
❤
2 years ago | [YT] | 15
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Abisade Adedayo
Happy new month Guys!
I pray that this new month will bring great and beautiful things your way.
Have a wonderful month ahead.
2 years ago | [YT] | 12
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I made a video with @thatibadangirl and this is one video that has been long overdue.
we made a video about the struggles of being first daughter/children in a poor Nigeria home. I absolutely love this video and I hope you guys enjoyed it so much as much as we enjoyed collaborating on this.
Watch here
https://youtu.be/Ze88fEIBDJ0
2 years ago (edited) | [YT] | 13
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Abisade Adedayo
We have a new video up guesses!!!
Please kindly watch, like and leave me a comment.
Thanks
3 years ago | [YT] | 4
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Abisade Adedayo
LONG POST ALERT.
Putting this here because it makes me feel better in a different type of way ..
Maybe you wonder how people get so low into depression,
Well, maybe I was going down that route myself, Final year got me so drained, stressed out and so unhappy , Also with the fact that my mind and soul was already tired of school.
The feeling of self-doubt,being unable to focus and even feeling like you can't recall anything really caught up with me, Incase you didn't know,the most dreadful thing about not passing the exams is retaking the whole year also keep in mind the work load is a lot couple with your project.
I barely realised how i have been trying to not get overwhelmed until I broke down few days into my exams, I was alone in my room, nobody seems to get my rants or the reason why I was complaining
I spoke to my mom who made me feel better in her own way with her prayers which was the prayer of strength- I really needed that Strength.
And then boom Gbemileke sent me this really cute note that got me smiling and tearing up at the same time.
Anyways I am grateful that this phase is coming to an end, Also talk to someone when you're feeling down, don't accumulate stress and let it catch up with you plus look out for your friends to see if they're okay as well.
Special thanks to the people who noticed I was missing on here as I had to deactivate my instagram as the notifications and alerts were driving me nut. I didn't want to see that kinikan is living the life of her head while I was drowning in self pity. I kukuma went off.
Thank you for reaching out. I love you
One more semester to go and I would be done with this shiihole🥰
I wonder why a lot of people don't talk enough about the difficulties of being a final year student in a federal university 🙃
IGNORE ALL TYPOS I AM JUST AN AGRIC STUDENT 🤣
ANYWAYS HOW HAVE YOU BEEN???
3 years ago | [YT] | 13
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Abisade Adedayo
Hello Online Family Members!
I know I promised consistency but your babygirl is preparing for exams and it has been tough couple with project and all of the final year shenanigans, put me in your prayers
But anyways we have a new video up on the channel and I would love for you to watch it and leave me comments in the comment section.
Will be back soon like I never left 😍
I love you
3 years ago | [YT] | 21
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Abisade Adedayo
Happy new year guys!
Thank you for riding with me ❤
I love and appreciate everyone of you.
I pray that this new year will bring answers to all of your heart desires, wishing you a very wonderful year ahead.
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