Veteran relationship and dating coach Deborrah Cooper live streams dating, life, and relationships advice shows weekly. Deb has provided street smart insight, advice and education for women on dating, relationships, and the games men play. Since 1992 she has also coached women on developing self-esteem and setting boundaries, navigating work politics, surviving family conflicts, getting up on game, friendship drama, and living your best life. Learn more about the host and this show by visiting Debsterism.Com.
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Relationship Coach Deborrah Cooper
Ohhhh too real. Just from this show we can tell most people like the comforting lies and ain't trying to hear Deb's unpleasant truths.
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Looking for guests for Debruary 2026. Using this service called radioguestlist. Hope they can find me some good ones!
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Relationship Coach Deborrah Cooper
Debruary Day 2026 is coming! Now is the time to submit your question, suggestion, or topic ideas. Links to articles/posts are also welcome. DO NOT PUT YOUR IDEAS HERE! I am posting this post all over the web and will not be going back to see who put things below it - click the link and put your ideas on the form or i won't see it. Trust. I'm too busy and barely keeping my head above water. Here is the link to the google form forms.gle/Sw63vrcDehUjcN1FA
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Relationship Coach Deborrah Cooper
Latest upload - directed to getting college-bound high school girls on track for a safe and sane college experience.
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Ratchet!! lol
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Relationship Coach Deborrah Cooper
Am I ugly? Dumb? Doing something wrong? One of the channel visitors sent me a link to a guy who was probably a high schooler when I made my video NEVER HELP A MAN DO ANYTHING. But his video from 1 month ago has like 320K views and mine from six years ago has only 20K. I swear I am doing something allllllll wrong but not sure what. People be biting my stuff all over YT and profiting from it right and left. I guess I can't say anything though. Gotta admire their hustle.
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Relationship Coach Deborrah Cooper
We gonna have a show Sunday and Monday (holiday) instead. I am on my way to San Jose to watch a cousin's brats while she goes to men her husband who got in a motorbike accident. SMH. I'm the closest family to them. Just spending the night, be back in the morning after her Mom flies in.
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Relationship Coach Deborrah Cooper
Nothing makes me happier than getting on men's nerves and seeing them whine about it. I heart is full of joy.
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Relationship Coach Deborrah Cooper
Well! This week I have to put the column together myself it seems. :( Candace was working on it bit by bit after a fall on ice, so I had to move the date twice already. Now she feels like she is in too much pain and sitting hurts so its on me. I am busy with a client until 5 or 6 on Thursday so I'll throw something together to do a show on Friday. I am not sure how she picks the letters but I'll do my best!! Don't laugh at me!
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Relationship Coach Deborrah Cooper
Okay last advice show there was a question by a woman whose boyfriend had a "work wife" who was hella extra. I have questions, if you have insight please share.
I am looking for an explanation of what a work wife is.
Why do women at home accept this emotional split especially when they ain't even the home wife!?
How does this happen?
Is this a threat to the key relationship or just fun and stupid?
Is it different when a woman has a "work husband" meaning are women better able to make and maintain boundaries?
Inquiring minds wanna know.
USA Today ran an article saying that having a work spouse isn't a bad thing unless boundaries are crossed? Well the home spouses have vastly different boundaries than their partners do with their work spouses.
www.usatoday.com/story/money/2019/06/09/work-spous…
That discussion starts about 1:16:50 in the video below.
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