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Relationship Coach Deborrah Cooper
Okay. this idiot James Westervelt of Ocala Florida thought it would "be funny" to use a leaf blower on his baby son. The baby died.
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Oh this is interesting! Look at how these beat down women glow the hell up after they get divorced from dusty knuckleheads that were beating them down emotionally and mentally. I mean! You can see light in their eyes!
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Relationship Coach Deborrah Cooper
"It should also be noted that Black femicide rates are alarming in the United States and should be taken seriously. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), Black women who die due to intimate partner violence make up about 41.5 percent of all female homicides. A 2023 report from The Violence Policy Center found that 733 Black women were killed by men in single-victim incidents – a rate more than double that of White women. Although Black women make up 14% of the female population, they represent over 31% of women killed by men.”
Read the full article and let's talk about what possessed this girl to go on a hike in the woods with some fool?
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Video on WHAT WOMEN BRING TO THE TABLE? is now online. It premieres at 8pm tonight.
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Relationship Coach Deborrah Cooper
This is why my parents never let me go to a sleepover. Folks could come to our house and my Dad would make sure to spend the night at my uncle's house. He was never in the house overnight when I had friends spend the night. This is why.
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Question: What advice would you give to your 18 year old self about life that might change who and what you are today?
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A man goes to his barber …
… and whilst getting his haircut, they have a conversation.
The barber says, “got any vacation plans?”
The customer goes, “yeah, me and my wife are going to Italy.”
“That's bullshit,” the barber barks. “Italy's totally overrated. Why do you want to go anyway? I went and it's terrible. The food's awful. The Romanesque architecture is old and dirty. The people are rude and aloof. The weather's too hot or it's too rainy. And when I tried to see the Pope, I could barely make out the top of his head through the millions of people in St. Peter's Square.”
The customer is surprised by the barber's visceral reaction and sheepishly states that he already bought the ticket, so he still has to go. A couple of months later, the customer is back in the barber's chair.
“Hey, aren't you the guy that went to that crappy country called Italy?”
Yeah, and we actually had a great time, said the customer. “The food was better than I imagined. The architecture was breathtaking and awe-inspiring, and the people were really polite and friendly. The weather was beautiful, perfectly sunny and warm, and no rain. And when we went to see the Pope, I could barely make out the top of his head through the millions of people in St. Peter's Square. But gradually, the sea of people parted as if by magic, and I could see the Pope walking toward me with his gold scepter. And when he got close enough to me to be heard, I dropped to one knee. took off my hat and he said, “who gave you that awful haircut?”
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Dark Humor
A man takes his wife to the doctor and after en exam and some tests, the doctor comes out to talk with the husband. The husband is anxious and says “ Doctor did you find out what is wrong with my wife?” The doctor says, “ Well, we have narrowed it down “. The husband says, “ What does that mean?” The doctor says “ Well have narrowed it down to two possibilities. Your wife has either AIDS or Alzheimer’s “. The husband is shocked and says, “ AIDS or Alzheimer’s? What should l do?” The doctor says, “ Here’s what I suggest. Put her in the car and drive her somewhere 20 miles or do from where you live and make her get out of the car and then you go back home. If she finds her way home, don’t fuck her.
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Relationship Coach Deborrah Cooper
This video is about 17 black female celebs who didn't know their husbands were secretly gay. I looked at it, and every single one of these guys looked gay to me. Maybe that is a benefit of growing up in San Francisco - I cut my teeth watching gay men of all ethnicities and all ages interact with both men and women.
Seriously, these days most men are dabbling it seems. Even if they aren't claiming it, they sneak and do it here and there, have a boyfriend and a wife/girlfriend, or just haven't admitted yet while maintaining relationships with other men. I see what goes on online where they flirt and seek out trans women (men with male equipment). Women really REALLY need to wise up and dump these dudes anytime suspicion of male alliance crops up.
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Another woman dead at the hands of an athlete
Darron Lee, Former NFL Linebacker, Indicted With Charges Linked To Partner’s Death
A grand jury under the Hamilton Court on June 10 returned a first-degree murder indictment on Darron Lee. The 31-year-old former NFL linebacker is facing these charges in connection with the death of his partner, Gabriella Perpetuo, in February 2026. She was found dead inside a home in Ooltewah, Tennessee. The victim’s death was declared a clear case of homicide after an autopsy report.
Medical examiners reportedly identified a total of 12 distinct injuries all over her body, including severe brain trauma, broken neck, and subdural hematoma, among others. There were also suspicious bite marks found on her body. Lee is currently booked in the Hamilton County Jail without a bond.
Darron Lee’s Involvement In Partner’s Murder
The state is reportedly proceeding with first-degree murder charges against Lee, alleging that he was responsible for Perpetuo’s death. Investigators also uncovered digital evidence that prosecutors say raises additional questions about the case, including searches and inquiries made using artificial intelligence tools.
For instance, investigators said Lee used ChatGPT to seek information about obtaining medical assistance without police involvement. According to prosecutors, he also asked whether a fall from a certain height could cause two black eyes and two “stabby looking wounds.”
Prosecutors presented additional digital evidence that allegedly showed Lee searching for information about injuries consistent with a person falling in a shower. Prosecutors argue that the searches support their theory of the case and suggest an attempt to conceal the circumstances surrounding Perpetuo’s death. In the meantime, authorities continue to investigate a possible motive in the case.
Horrific Crime Scene Findings
On the day authorities entered the victim’s residence, they encountered what investigators described as a disturbing crime scene. Detective Brian Lockhart testified that traces of blood were found in nearly every room of the house, including on handrails, walls, floors, and the staircase.
Other items found inside the residence included a shattered microwave, glass shards throughout the home, and numerous alcohol bottles. Investigators also found an empty spray bottle and bleach wipes. Prosecutors argued that these items suggested an attempt to clean the scene and remove evidence.
Lockhart further testified that Lee was the person who called 911 and reported finding the victim unresponsive. According to investigators, Lee told authorities that his 29-year-old girlfriend may have suffered a fatal fall in the shower.
Darron Lee’s Dark Past With Similar Episodes
This has not been the first indictment that Lee is facing. His past has been one that was dotted with multiple previous convictions as well as an active probation period. At the time of his arrest in the murder case of his girlfriend, Lee was under a probation watch in Ohio for a 2023 case of domestic violence against him.
Additionally, he was also on another simultaneous probation under Alachua County, Florida. He had been charged with aggravated assault with a deadly weapon. The other convictions in the past of the former NFL player include three different assault cases against a man and his family members.
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