Welcome to The Solo Woman Collective™ where healing gets real and peace gets personal.
I’m Laquana McIntyre, your Emotional Empowerment & Identity Coach.
I help women detox from the past, detach from dysfunction, and rebuild a life that finally feels like theirs.
💎 For the woman who’s:
• Letting go of love that drained her
• Redefining her worth outside relationships
• Learning to stand tall, single, and whole
🎥 New videos every week:
→ Breakup recovery & detachment rituals
→ Identity healing & solo woman empowerment
→ Spiritual clarity & real-life storytelling
💌 Ready to start your next chapter?
Join the waitlist below for my upcoming program, The No Contact Lounge™, and begin your soft detachment journey today.
www.thesolowomancollective.com
✨ Follow @thesolowomanco for daily reminders of who you’re becoming.
The Solo Woman Collective™
He came back.
And you think that means you won.
It doesn’t.
Men don’t come back because they transformed.
They come back because you were familiar.
There’s a difference between being missed
and being chosen.
New video is live.🎉
Watch it before you respond to anything.
4 hours ago | [YT] | 1
View 0 replies
The Solo Woman Collective™
If today feels heavier, that doesn’t mean you made the wrong decision.
It means:
• The algorithm is loud
• Couples are posting
• Your nervous system is stimulated
This day is designed to amplify attachment.
Do not let a holiday decide your standards.
No contact isn’t about proving strength.
It’s about protecting peace.
If you’re tempted to reach out today pause.
Structure beats emotion.
— Laquana
The 7-Day Survival Reset is in the description.
4 days ago | [YT] | 4
View 2 replies
The Solo Woman Collective™
He didn’t come back because you’re the love of his life.
He came back because the new supply didn’t soothe him.
Let’s stop romanticizing nervous system panic.
Men don’t circle back when they awaken.
They circle back when they’re uncomfortable.
And if him returning makes you feel powerful…
that tells you your identity is still tied to being chosen.
That’s not shade.
That’s structure.
Because here’s the uncomfortable truth:
If he left you anxious the first time,
him missing you doesn’t suddenly make him mature.
Missing you doesn’t equate to respecting you.
Coming back doesn’t equal commitment.
Relief doesn’t equal love.
The real is
that he texted.
And you didn’t fold.
You don’t need another sign from him.
You need a preset response for when he resurfaces.
That’s what the 7-Day Survival Reset is for.
Identity over emotion. Every time.
6 days ago | [YT] | 3
View 0 replies
The Solo Woman Collective™
Just because he came back
doesn’t mean he came back different.
Familiarity feels like validation
when identity isn’t grounded yet.
The win isn’t his return.
The win is you not folding this time.
New video is live.
Watch from a steady place.
💎 Identity over emotion.
1 week ago | [YT] | 2
View 0 replies
The Solo Woman Collective™
If you’re in that quiet, restless space where nothing feels right anymore.
you’re not broken.
That emptiness isn’t a sign to go back.
It’s the space where identity is reorganizing.
Relief will try to rush you.
Familiarity will try to call you back.
But this phase doesn’t need answers.
It needs structure.
No emotional decisions today.
Just something steady to follow when the urge hits.
You’re not behind.
You’re between versions. 💎
1 week ago | [YT] | 1
View 0 replies
The Solo Woman Collective™
2 weeks ago | [YT] | 3
View 0 replies
The Solo Woman Collective™
2 weeks ago | [YT] | 2
View 0 replies
The Solo Woman Collective™
Sometimes the hardest part of healing
is realizing how much you let slide.
Not because you were weak.
But because you were attached.
Seeing the truth doesn’t mean you failed.
It means you’re finally being honest with yourself.
If this feels familiar, you’re not alone. 🤍
(Short video up today.)
2 weeks ago | [YT] | 5
View 0 replies
The Solo Woman Collective™
Just because he came back
doesn’t mean he changed.
Sometimes men return because the silence ended…
not because the work was done.
Real change shows up as:
• consistency
• accountability
• different behavior over time
Not nostalgia.
Not “I miss you.”
Not access.
Curious 👀 what made you finally see the difference? 👇🏽
3 weeks ago | [YT] | 3
View 0 replies
The Solo Woman Collective™
Honest question.
Why is a woman’s love questioned
when she leaves after cheating…
but a man’s love isn’t questioned
when he cheats?
I’m talking about this today because the comments I’ve been seeing are loud.
And they reveal a belief a lot of women have been carrying quietly.
Video is live on the channel.
What do you think?
4 weeks ago | [YT] | 2
View 0 replies
Load more