I'm doing the best I can, I have to put myself in their shoes,how hypocritical am I to judge what someone's been through, or why they act the way they act and do the things that they do, it's all perspective we subject ourselves to different vices and my advice is be decisive with decisions you make, don't be overly obsessed, find some balance and truth, everything in due time is not as bad as you think. The frame you're seeing things through, just multiply it by two and you'll see a bigger picture than the one you currently view.