Chinweuba Somto Rita

Don’t chase anyone.
Chase peace.
Chase growth.
Chase the woman you’re becoming.

When you start working on yourself, your mindset, your energy, you stop begging for love, attention, or validation.

You become the kind of woman people can’t ignore.

Your peace becomes attractive.
Your confidence becomes attractive.
And your silence becomes powerful.

You’ll start attracting what aligns with your energy without doing too much.

©️Rita Somtochukwu Omalicha

1 week ago | [YT] | 48

Chinweuba Somto Rita

EVERY WOMAN’S INTENTION FOR THE MAN SHE TRULY LOVES

When a woman truly loves a man, she doesn’t want to change him, she wants to understand him.

She’s not after his money, his fame, or his body.
She just wants to feel safe enough to love him loudly without being punished for it.

She’ll stand by him when he’s broke.
Defend him when no one else will.
Pray for him when he can’t even pray for himself.

Her intention is simple, to build, not to drain.

Because when a woman loves you right, her love becomes your safe place.

Don’t play with that kind of woman.
She’s rare.
And once you lose her, you’ll spend years searching for her in everyone else.

©️Rita Somtochukwu Omalicha

1 week ago | [YT] | 69

Chinweuba Somto Rita

5 SIGNS YOU’RE THE BAD PARTNER, AND YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW IT

1. You always want to be understood but never try to understand them.
You explain, defend, and justify yourself, but never really listen.
Love can’t survive when only one person’s feelings matter.

2. You call it “being honest,” but you’re actually being harsh.
Truth without empathy wounds deeper than lies.
It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.

3. You compete instead of connect.
Every disagreement turns into a battle, who’s right, who wins.
But love isn’t a debate, it’s a partnership.

4. You pull away instead of communicating.
Tell them how you feel, don't hide under mood swings or subtle punishment.
That’s emotional man!pulation, not maturity.

5. You always think they’re the problem.
If every relationship ends the same way, maybe it’s time to look in the mirror.
Growth starts when you stop blaming and start becoming.

Because sometimes, it’s not that love failed, it’s that ego replaced effort.

©️ Rita Somtochukwu Omalicha

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 45

Chinweuba Somto Rita

MEN DO THESE WHEN THEY’RE THINKING ABOUT YOU S3XUALLY

Men hardly ever say it, but when their mind starts running wild about you, their behaviour changes instantly.

And here is how:

1. He becomes extra nice out of nowhere.
Suddenly he’s checking on you and asking about the colour of your underwear, complimenting your body, acting like a saint. Don’t be fooled, he’s not interested in your person he’s interested in your body.

2. He stares a little too long at your shape.
He’s quiet, focused, and lost in thoughts but he won’t dare to say what's is in his imagination.

3. He texts you more at night.
That’s when emotions are low but desires are high. He sends stickers and say things that will increase your urge.

4. He compliments your body more than your person.
When his words stop feeding your soul and start feeding your ego, watch it.

5. He avoids deep talks.
Because he’s not trying to connect minds, he is not trying to build a future with you, he’s trying to connect bodies.

Darling, every man will be attracted to you, but only a real man will control himself.

Don’t fall for sweet words at the wrong time.

If he truly loves you, he’ll protect your body by respecting your boundaries.

Because the strongest chemistry isn’t in s3x, it's in respect, deep communication, and the peace you feel around them.

That’s what keeps love alive, even during tough moments.

©️ Rita Somtochukwu Omalicha

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 29

Chinweuba Somto Rita

5 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD BE WORRIED IF YOUR PARTNER HAS NO BOUNDARIES

1. Everyone has access to them.
If your partner doesn’t know where to draw the line, anyone can walk in and take that space that belongs to you.
Love without limits turns into unwanted pain.

2. They say yes to everyone and leave you feeling like an option.
When someone can’t say “no” to others, they’ll eventually say “no” to you.
Boundaries protect priorities.

3. They overshare what should stay private.
Not everything about your relationship belongs to friends or social media.
When someone can’t guard what’s sacred, they expose what should be protected.

4. They can’t handle discipline or accountability.
Boundaries require maturity.
Someone who resists limits usually resists growth too.

5. They lose themselves trying to please everyone.
And when a person forgets who they are, they’ll start hurting you without even realizing it.

Love isn’t about being open to everyone, it’s about being intentional with someone.

©️ Rita Somtochukwu Omalicha

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 34

Chinweuba Somto Rita

IF HE’S INTERESTED, HE WILL DO THESE 3 THINGS

When a man truly wants you, you won’t have to wonder.

Because interest has a language, and his actions will always speak louder than his excuses.

And here’s how you’ll know:

1. He makes effort, not excuses.
If he says he’ll call, he does.
If he says he’ll come, he shows up.
When a man truly wants you, he prioritizes you. Effort becomes his love language.

2. He communicates, consistently.
Not once in a while. Not only when he’s bored.
A man who’s into you doesn’t let days go by without checking on you.
He’ll text, call, or show up, because hearing from you makes his day better.

3. He includes you in his world.
He wants you to fit into his life, not just his weekends.
When a man is serious, he stops hiding you, he starts proudly claiming you.

The fact is that, if a man is truly interested, you’ll know.
If he’s not, you’ll be confused.

Stop forcing clarity out of mixed signals.

The right man won’t make you question your worth, he’ll prove he sees it.

©️ Rita Somtochukwu Omalicha ✍️

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 34

Chinweuba Somto Rita

THE MINDSET THAT MAKES YOU IMPOSSIBLE TO PLAY WITH

The moment you stop attaching your value to how someone treats you, everything changes.

When they realize your peace doesn’t depend on their presence,
your confidence doesn’t need their validation, and your happiness doesn’t revolve around their attention, that’s when the game ends.

People can only play with you when they think you’ll stay no matter what.

Once they see you can walk away calmly, they start behaving differently.

So from today, stop begging for energy that should come naturally.

Match consistency with consistency.

And when it’s not there, choose to walk away, not to struggle.

Because the loudest message you can ever send is:

“I’m good with or without you.”

©️ Rita Somtochukwu Omalicha

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 23

Chinweuba Somto Rita

Dear woman, you can't afford to be totally dependent at this time.

This is not the season to fold your arms and hope that someone else will always come through for you.

Times have changed, and so must you. The cost of living is rising, responsibilities are increasing, and life is no longer as predictable as it once was.

Dependency might feel safe for a while, but it quietly robs you of power, confidence, and choices.

A woman who earns her own money is a woman who can make decisions without fear.

She can support her loved ones, contribute meaningfully to her home, walk away from unhealthy situations, and build the life she truly deserves.

It's not just about having money, it's about having a voice.

It's about knowing that if everything and everyone walked away tomorrow, you could still stand on your own feet.

Whether it's a small business, a digital skill, a side hustle, or a passion you monetize, start something. You don't have to begin big, but you must begin.

A woman with her own source of income is not just earning, she's building dignity, security and freedom.

You deserve to work for and have your own money!

© Rita Somtochukwu Omalicha

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 30

Chinweuba Somto Rita

THEY LEFT YOU FOR SOMEONE ELSE, DO THESE.

I know it hurts deeply.
You gave your heart, your loyalty, your everything.

And they still chose someone else.
Darling, this is not your ending, it’s your awakening.

Here’s what to do when they walk away:

1. Don’t chase.
The moment they leave, your silence becomes your power.
Don’t beg for closure, don’t compete for attention.
Let absence do the talking. It's always speaks louder than words.

2. Focus on becoming unforgettable.
Hit the gym, change your routine, glow differently.
Not because you’re trying to prove anything but because healing looks good on you.

3. Stop stalking their page.
What they post isn’t your reality anymore.
Every scroll reopens a wound that’s trying to heal.
Unfollow peaceably, even if your heart still checks in secretly.

4. Pray, don’t plot.
Let God handle what you can’t explain.
What’s meant for you can never be stolen, it can only be delayed.
Their loss might just be heaven’s protection.

5. Forgive silently and move differently.
Don’t wish them pain.
Just level up so gracefully that they question every decision that made them lose you.

The fact is that, they didn’t replace you, they just downgraded without realizing it yet.

©️ Rita Somtochukwu Omalicha

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