Realistic life management for women who are tired but still trying.


Stephanie Shar

⭐️ TITLE REVEAL ⭐️

And if I was going to explain the plot to a friend (like you), here’s what I’d say…

It’s a small-town romantic comedy about two emotionally guarded adults who end up on opposite sides of a lottery ticket dispute — and both of them desperately need the money for reasons they’re not ready to admit.

She’s a grumpy, overqualified millennial barely holding her life together; he’s a sunshine bartender with a tragic past and a soft heart.

As the town turns their fight into entertainment, they’re forced into each other’s orbit — and what starts as petty one-upmanship turns into banter, vulnerability, and a very inconvenient love. 🎟️

The perfect black cat/golden retriever, enemies-to-lovers, forced proximity, age-gap, cozy (& maybe even a little spicy) romance 🌶️💛

This spring, bet on love. (Not final cover.)

💭 Now, who wants to see a writing vlog!?

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Stephanie Shar

If you’re new here, this is the video that changed everything for my channel 🌅

Working multiple jobs as a single mom — quietly, consistently.

No hacks. No hustle culture hype. Just structure, discipline, and soft systems that let me rest too.

Subscribe if you’re figuring it out one calm, intentional day at a time. If you’re building a life that works for you, you’re in the right place 🤍

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1 day ago | [YT] | 1

Stephanie Shar

Wowwww thanks friends! 🫶🏼 And welcome!

For those of you who are new here…

This channel is a cozy corner of real life — single mom vlogs, soft resets, honest talks about burnout, money, motherhood, and finding small joy again. No perfection. No hustle pressure. Just trying our best together 🤍

(& yes my phone is always dying!)

1 day ago | [YT] | 6

Stephanie Shar

🌙😴 Listening to this as I fall asleep tonight. May all your dreams come true this year 🙏🏻 Goodnight friends ✨

3 days ago | [YT] | 2

Stephanie Shar

New vlog is up besties 🤍 A cozy, realistic 5PM night reset when you’re tired. Peace > perfection tonight. Come exhale with me. ✨

3 days ago | [YT] | 0

Stephanie Shar

Okay mamas + cat-mom besties 🕯️💖 new vlog is up and it’s giving girly self-care sleepover vibes 👯‍♀️✨

We’re talking realistic evenings after a 9–5 + school pick-ups, slow skincare, cozy reading, snack-plate “girl dinner,” Poppi in a wine glass, journaling in bed, and cuddles with the fur babies.

If you need a calm moment to land the day softly… this one’s for you 🤍

Watch now + unwind with us: My 5-9 night routine after my 9-5 💖

Bring your cozy. Bring your real. Bring your snacks. 😌✨

👇 Comment your current fiction read — I’m in a book slump and I need your vibes!

4 days ago | [YT] | 1

Stephanie Shar

Having a pity party doesn’t fix anything. But being pissed off? That’s one hell of a motivator.



I challenge you to channel your past negative thoughts & experiences and use them as fuel for every workout.



Every vlog.

Every post.

Every healthy meal you make for yourself.

Every day you take yourself on a date.



Give yourself an hour for every minute that you spent on someone else who didn’t appreciate it.



You haven’t been bullied and manipulated and used and abused and underestimated and belittled and taken advantage of just to give up.



Your villain origin story is over. It’s time for revenge.



The old you is dead.
Look what they made you do.

More on my Substack (subscribe for free): stephanieshar.substack.com/p/your-villain-origin-s…

1 week ago | [YT] | 3

Stephanie Shar

Shout-out to these folks for being my besties this past week!! Happy Sunday y’all! 🙏🏻🌈 ‪@kimberlygoode9010‬ ‪@redemptaohola1173‬ ‪@stephaniedias‬ ‪@amycolucci6769‬ 👯‍♀️❤️

1 week ago | [YT] | 4

Stephanie Shar

🛑 I need your help fam!!! 👉🏻 I’m starting a NEW self-care 101 series where I’ll be teaching you everything I know about self-care, including time & money management, healthy relationships & dating, solo parenting & budgeting, and so much more.

Self-care is more than just bubble baths & face masks. It’s about how you live your daily life, in every area.

⭐️ So tell me: What specifically do YOU want to learn about? What are you struggling with? What do you want to BE BETTER in 2026?? 👇🏻

1 week ago | [YT] | 9

Stephanie Shar

☕❄️ 5AM Mommy Reset is LIVE! ❄️☕
A real, raw morning routine before my 9–5, juggling 4 jobs, and navigating my mental health + personality disorder patterns in real time 🤍✨
No perfection, no highlight reel — just small resets that still count, even when you’re tired ✍🏻🕯️

We’re almost at 1500 subs and the cozy giveaway era is loading soon 👀🎁✨ If you love honest mom life, cozy mornings, realistic wellness, and BTS resets — drop a ❄️ or 🤍 below! 🫶👇

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