Realistic life management for women who are tired but still trying.


Stephanie Shar

🌙😴 Listening to this as I fall asleep tonight. May all your dreams come true this year 🙏🏻 Goodnight friends ✨

1 day ago | [YT] | 1

Stephanie Shar

New vlog is up besties 🤍 A cozy, realistic 5PM night reset when you’re tired. Peace > perfection tonight. Come exhale with me. ✨

1 day ago | [YT] | 0

Stephanie Shar

Okay mamas + cat-mom besties 🕯️💖 new vlog is up and it’s giving girly self-care sleepover vibes 👯‍♀️✨

We’re talking realistic evenings after a 9–5 + school pick-ups, slow skincare, cozy reading, snack-plate “girl dinner,” Poppi in a wine glass, journaling in bed, and cuddles with the fur babies.

If you need a calm moment to land the day softly… this one’s for you 🤍

Watch now + unwind with us: My 5-9 night routine after my 9-5 💖

Bring your cozy. Bring your real. Bring your snacks. 😌✨

👇 Comment your current fiction read — I’m in a book slump and I need your vibes!

2 days ago | [YT] | 1

Stephanie Shar

Having a pity party doesn’t fix anything. But being pissed off? That’s one hell of a motivator.



I challenge you to channel your past negative thoughts & experiences and use them as fuel for every workout.



Every vlog.

Every post.

Every healthy meal you make for yourself.

Every day you take yourself on a date.



Give yourself an hour for every minute that you spent on someone else who didn’t appreciate it.



You haven’t been bullied and manipulated and used and abused and underestimated and belittled and taken advantage of just to give up.



Your villain origin story is over. It’s time for revenge.



The old you is dead.
Look what they made you do.

More on my Substack (subscribe for free): stephanieshar.substack.com/p/your-villain-origin-s…

5 days ago | [YT] | 3

Stephanie Shar

Shout-out to these folks for being my besties this past week!! Happy Sunday y’all! 🙏🏻🌈 ‪@kimberlygoode9010‬ ‪@redemptaohola1173‬ ‪@stephaniedias‬ ‪@amycolucci6769‬ 👯‍♀️❤️

6 days ago | [YT] | 4

Stephanie Shar

🛑 I need your help fam!!! 👉🏻 I’m starting a NEW self-care 101 series where I’ll be teaching you everything I know about self-care, including time & money management, healthy relationships & dating, solo parenting & budgeting, and so much more.

Self-care is more than just bubble baths & face masks. It’s about how you live your daily life, in every area.

⭐️ So tell me: What specifically do YOU want to learn about? What are you struggling with? What do you want to BE BETTER in 2026?? 👇🏻

1 week ago | [YT] | 9

Stephanie Shar

☕❄️ 5AM Mommy Reset is LIVE! ❄️☕
A real, raw morning routine before my 9–5, juggling 4 jobs, and navigating my mental health + personality disorder patterns in real time 🤍✨
No perfection, no highlight reel — just small resets that still count, even when you’re tired ✍🏻🕯️

We’re almost at 1500 subs and the cozy giveaway era is loading soon 👀🎁✨ If you love honest mom life, cozy mornings, realistic wellness, and BTS resets — drop a ❄️ or 🤍 below! 🫶👇

1 week ago | [YT] | 2

Stephanie Shar

Guess whaaaaat!? If you haven’t heard the news 🗞️ I started a Substack for my writing.

Be sure to subscribe (there’s a free tier) to keep in touch, especially since I’m not on Instagram much anymore!

If you like honest thoughts about mindset, mental health, self-growth, the ups & downs of life… this is for you 🤍

substack.com/@stephanieshar?r=5dnx1a&utm_medium=io…

1 week ago | [YT] | 2

Stephanie Shar

Yes, looking at my son for a reminder is on here twice, because he is my purpose. And so are you 🤎

Thank you for encouraging me to keep pursuing my dreams. I hope I encourage all of YOU 👯‍♀️

I couldn’t be more grateful for our community’s little corner of the internet. It’s only going to get bigger, better, softer, sweeter in 2026 ✨

Happy New Year 🎇

1 week ago | [YT] | 5

Stephanie Shar

☕❄️ SUNDAY RESET is here 🤍✨
A realistic winter reset for tired millennial moms — small joys, soft wellness, creative spark, wrapped stats, and cozy routines that actually count ❄️🕯️☕

We’re getting close to 1500 subscribers and the giveaway era is almost here 👀🎁✨ If you love calm resets and real mom BTS, subscribe and join our corner 🫶🤍

https://youtu.be/S9WbbLHWcJg?si=LYdw7...

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