Relationship Expert Ben

​‪@unraveled_deepdive‬ It's garbage like this that causes nothing but negative consequences for both men and women. You're asking Madonna to "stop feeling young" and to instead "feel like an old grandma". That's beyond insulting (Ageism). You're obviously jealous of her enormous energy and success as a 60 something year old living her life to the best of her ability. Cry harder because she's not going to stop any time soon for haters like 50 Cent. You're only as old as how you feel. Just because 50 no longer feels like he's "in da club" doesn't mean you get to act like a jealous crab in a basket trying to bring everyone with such energy down with you.

1 month ago | [YT] | 0

Relationship Expert Ben

Stay tuned for an all NEW SHOW. It's still getting brushed up, but the wait is worth it !

Relationship Expert Ben

4 months ago | [YT] | 2

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4 months ago | [YT] | 2

Relationship Expert Ben

Shout out to CJ Rodriguez (MHS) on this year and a half anniversary of our awesome interview / podcast. Catch this special edition as well as all the others under my podcast playlist (link below). Stay tuned for more content coming soon !

Tap here for the MHS podcast !
https://youtu.be/qijT8TwkgQg

Relationship Expert Ben

5 months ago | [YT] | 2

Relationship Expert Ben

Got something to say? Man up or Woman up and join me on my new show "Let's Talk about Love". All you need is your smartphone, tablet or computer, a free Zoom or Discord account and the balls or ovaries to schedule a time to talk about the relationship topic of your choice. Sign up for your free membership at Payhip.com/YourQuestForLove to qualify. Got the guts? Prove it!

Relationship Expert Ben

6 months ago | [YT] | 2

Relationship Expert Ben

If you supposedly stand for FREEDOM, then you won't mind what women do with their lives, such as participating in Only Fans / Porn. It's either FULL FREEDOM or you're a hypocrite cherry picking and acting like you support freedom.

More to come !

7 months ago | [YT] | 2

Relationship Expert Ben

Shout out to ‪@Nappr‬ for calling out the garbage males who don't deserve to be called real men. That's exactly what I do over here in many different ways through many different shows. My latest show "Ending the Stupid Gender War" makes the weak run away from watching because they fear the truth about themselves. They can't bare to listen to someone call them out for being blatant pathetic losers.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QmdSb...

7 months ago | [YT] | 5

Relationship Expert Ben

‪@MarshallBrockway‬

Here's some friendly advice, if you're serious about your potential solution:

1. Redirect the Focus from "The World" to "The Wound."
Your problem isn't YouTube, modern women, or society. Those are outlets for your pain. The problem is the unhealed injury inside. The intense, bodily feeling of "cement" and rage is a classic symptom of stored traumatic stress. You have successfully controlled your external world, but you are at war with your internal one.

2. Seek Professional Trauma Therapy.
This is the most critical step. You need a guide who can help you do what you cannot do alone:

Process the Past: A therapist (specifically one trained in CPTSD, trauma, or somatic experiencing) can help you safely unpack what was "done to you" and how it shapes your perception today.

Understand the Anger: They can help you see your rage not as a personality flaw, but as a protective part of you that deserves understanding. The goal isn't to "get rid of it" immediately, but to listen to what it's trying to protect you from (vulnerability, hurt).

Regulate the Nervous System: The "cement" feeling is a dysregulated nervous system stuck in fight/freeze. Therapy can provide tools to help you feel safe in your own body again.

3. Reframe Your "Discipline" as a Strength.
The incredible discipline you've shown—quitting porn, substances, isolation—proves you have immense willpower. Right now, that willpower is used to build a fortress. You can use that same discipline for healing. It is the exact trait needed to commit to the hard, consistent work of therapy.

4. Challenge the All-or-Nothing Thinking.
You see only two options: be a "scared boy" who is fooled and powerless, or be an angry, hateful fortress. This is a false dichotomy. Healing is about developing a third option: a resilient, integrated self. Someone who can feel anger without being consumed by it, who can be cautious without being hateful, who can recognize past harm without letting it dictate all future possibilities.

5. Consider that Posting This Video Was a Subconscious Cry for Connection.
You ask, "Am I looking for attention? Yeah, I guess." Reframe that. You are looking for witness. You are screaming into the void, "Does anyone see this pain? Can anyone understand this prison?" A good therapist will provide that witnessing—not with platitudes, but with professional, non-judgmental understanding.

Final Thought: You say there's "no way back." That feeling is a symptom of the trauma, not a truth. The path back isn't about becoming loving or trusting overnight. It's simply about turning toward the cement in your chest with curiosity instead of fury. It's about asking, "What is this heavy feeling? When did it first arrive? What is it trying to do for me?"

You have already taken the first, hardest step: you've voiced the agony. The next step is to direct that voice toward someone trained to help you decipher it. Your anger has protected you for a long time. Now, it's time to thank it for its service and ask it to step aside so you can finally heal the wound it was guarding.

Good luck and remember that people can only help you so much, but I do highly suggest you seek professional therapy to feel much better and happier.

For everyone else reading this, here's his video:
https://youtu.be/N438dOdvDyk?si=DJ_MA...

Relationship Expert Ben

7 months ago (edited) | [YT] | 4

Relationship Expert Ben

Special shoutout to C4, flexing his passionate dedication in the chat. I saw you amigo. Thanks for your continued support and best wishes on Your Quest For Love !

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7 months ago | [YT] | 2

Relationship Expert Ben

Looks like everyone is enjoying this rare new show. Glad to see it, but get ready for the real new show which was always meant to come right after this one. No clues or hints. Just one BIG surprise that will surely bring lots of new viewers to our community soon. Stay tuned !

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7 months ago | [YT] | 1