Dear Future Wifey

Journey with Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield, co-hosts of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, as they discover, uncover, and recover love—together.

Created as a platform for Laterras’ public healing after divorce, the podcast has evolved into a powerful space where real love stories are told with honesty, wisdom, and depth. Now joined by his wife Ashley, the conversations expand to include both personal reflection and shared perspective on love, marriage, and growth.

Through candid dialogue with relationship experts, celebrities, and everyday people, Laterras and Ashley dive deep into the realities of relationships—exploring love, loss, healing, and what it truly takes to build something lasting.

Whether you’re searching for love, strengthening your marriage, or healing from heartbreak, Dear Future Wifey offers heartfelt insight and transparent conversations to guide the journey.

Join Laterras and Ashley as they continue to live intentionally and transparently.


Dear Future Wifey

DMV - Are you coming this weekend? THIS SUNDAY from 2pm-4pm! It's a FREE EVENT at the MLK Library. Join me for a Fireside Chat of "Student of Love" with WUSA9's Allison Seymour. Register at dclibrary.libnet.info/event/16181873.

https://youtu.be/MB-TXtcWR_E?si=D1FsL...

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Dear Future Wifey

DMV - I wanna see you THIS SUNDAY from 2pm-4pm! It's a FREE EVENT at the MLK Library. Join me for a Fireside Chat of "Student of Love" with WUSA9's Allison Seymour. Register at dclibrary.libnet.info/event/16181873.

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 83

Dear Future Wifey

Six years ago today, I started @dearfuturewifeypodcast as a bachelor on a mission to discover, uncover, and recover love. I never imagined that five years later, I would find that love, marry that love, and be standing here celebrating six years of this podcast that changed my life.

For five and a half years, I walked this journey alone, sharing my story and the stories of our guests with the world. I built this community. I held the space for your vulnerability. And then, four months ago, @ashleyrwhitfield stepped into this with me, and it became a full circle moment I didn't see coming. Having her as my cohost now makes this celebration even sweeter.

To every person who supported me, shared your stories, cried with me, traveled with me on our retreats, and seen the world through Dear Future Wifey—thank you. To every church and organization who opened their doors and invited me to do live events—your platform made my message possible. To every guest who trusted me with your vulnerability, your transparency, and stories you'd never shared with the world—you are the heartbeat of this podcast.

And to the ones who reached out and told me the podcast saved your marriage... Wow! To the couples who were at the brink of divorce and allowed God and therapy to heal what was broken, then came back to share your redemption with our audience—you remind me why I do this.

To every listener, every viewer, every audience member—you believed in this vision when it was just a dream.

Ashley, I thank you for being my purpose partner. You're doing such a fabulous job as my cohost, and I couldn't have chosen a better person to do this work in ministry with. You're fabulous.

In celebration, can you subscribe to the @dearfuturewifeypodcast YouTube Channel. Head over there, hit that subscribe button, and let's grow this community together. The best is yet to come.

1 month ago | [YT] | 1,588

Dear Future Wifey

Hey LIT Fam! Guess what today is? My lovely wife's birthday! Today, we celebrate the amazing Ashley R. Whitfield on her 38th birthday! Let’s flood her day with love! If you haven’t yet, follow her on Instagram @ashleyrwhitfield and send her a DM or comment on her recent post with your birthday wishes!

For those who’ve been asking about gifts, you can show love via CashApp $AshleyRaynell or Venmo: Ashley-Woods-13. Let’s make her smile today!

Love y'all.

1 month ago | [YT] | 4,070

Dear Future Wifey

Love Scholars, today’s my birthday—March 29th! I know my purpose: to increase marriage rates, decrease divorce statistics, and provide tools for healthy marriages. On this birthday, I recenter on that mission. So, the gift I want for my birthday is for you to gift yourself wholeness—becoming the one for the one. “Student of Love” will help you do just that. You can grab it on Amazon, audiobook, or wherever you buy your books. I also want to thank all of you who have supported me through the years, allowing the @dearfuturewifeypodcast to become the healthiest platform for relationships. And to those who have already bought the book—I feel the love, I feel the support, and I thank you. Class is now in session—let’s get it!

www.StudentofLove.com/

1 month ago | [YT] | 4,213

Dear Future Wifey

Take a look at this interview. This was so good.

https://youtu.be/ScTsTU4b84s?si=FkvwA...

2 months ago | [YT] | 27

Dear Future Wifey

Hey LIT Fam! Take a look at this beautiful interview Ashley and I did yesterday on WFAA Channel 8. This was fun!

https://youtu.be/wdGlAeYbenw?si=9cKBx...

2 months ago | [YT] | 56

Dear Future Wifey

What are you doing this Friday, February 13? Nothing? Good. Get your tickets to see your favorite, @kittiejrose, for an intimate conversation right before Valentine's. This will be life-changing.

Join Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield for an unforgettable two-act experience that blends nostalgia, laughter, and real talk about love.

Act I: Student of Love
Laterras becomes the Student Body President of Love University in this high-energy, interactive session where you're part of the lesson. Expect to be called on, brought on stage, and challenged with thought-provoking questions—all while a live marching band sets the vibe and a digital chalkboard tracks our collective wisdom. This isn't a lecture. It's a movement.

Dress Code: Channel your high school era—letterman jackets, varsity vibes, throwback fits, or whatever made you feel fly back in the day.

Act II: Dear Future Wifey Podcast (Live) with @kittiejrose
The night shifts into an intimate live recording of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast.

This Valentine's isn't about roses and chocolates. It's about laughter, reflection, connection, and the kind of love lessons that stick.

Consider this your official attendance notice.
Love University is now in session—and participation is mandatory. Get Tickets at www.gpblackexperience.com/

2 months ago (edited) | [YT] | 739

Dear Future Wifey

Just watched this interview back and it was really good. They asked some great questions. LIT Fam, can I level with you? Dear Future Wifey is the classroom discussion and "Student of Love" is the textbook. You need this book to deep dive into love and learn how to show up better in every relationship. The reviews I've been receiving have been life-changing to the reader. Let me help you, help you.

Purchase "Student of Love"
www.StudentofLove.com/

Ryan Cameron Uncensored
https://youtu.be/OmCDVYN7abU?si=NPAbl...

2 months ago | [YT] | 21

Dear Future Wifey

What's up, LIT Fam? Here's an inside look at one of the happiest days of my life.

https://youtu.be/otO-imxUtsw?si=iZNDB...

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