Dear Future Wifey 

Journey with Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield, co-hosts of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, as they discover, uncover, and recover love—together.

Created as a platform for Laterras’ public healing after divorce, the podcast has evolved into a powerful space where real love stories are told with honesty, wisdom, and depth. Now joined by his wife Ashley, the conversations expand to include both personal reflection and shared perspective on love, marriage, and growth.

Through candid dialogue with relationship experts, celebrities, and everyday people, Laterras and Ashley dive deep into the realities of relationships—exploring love, loss, healing, and what it truly takes to build something lasting.

Whether you’re searching for love, strengthening your marriage, or healing from heartbreak, Dear Future Wifey offers heartfelt insight and transparent conversations to guide the journey.

Join Laterras and Ashley as they continue to live intentionally and transparently.


Dear Future Wifey

Y’all know #thebahamas is my favorite place on EARTH!

🇧🇸 So you already know I’m excited about this one!

@ashleyrwhitfield and I are officially setting sail on the @onevoyagecruise October 26th through November 1st, leaving out of Miami aboard Virgin Voyages’ Resilient Lady!

Six days at sea, stops in the Bahamas and Bimini, and the lineup is STACKED! T.I., my people @ericacampbell & @warryncampbell, @pastormikejr, @jonmcreynolds, @letoyaluckett, @officialdaveholister, @nowthatsmajor. and so many more!

But what I really love is that this isn’t just a vacation—it’s a PARTY WITH A PURPOSE. 🙌🏾 A portion of every cabin booked will go toward scholarships for HBCU students. So while we’re making memories, we’re also making an impact.

AND while we’re out there, Ashley and I will be bringing @dearfuturewifeypodcast to the SEA with a LIVE episode! 🎙️🚢

So who’s coming with us?!

Use code WIFEY at checkout and book through the link in @onevoyagecruise’s bio or head to OneVoyageCruise.com.

242 TO THE WORLD! 🇧🇸

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Dear Future Wifey

Did you know Saturday, Sept. 26, 2026 is National Singles Day? We're inviting you to Christian Cultural Center, 12020 Flatlands Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11207 for an exciting and engaging event. It's FREE. Register at cccinfo.ccbchurch.com/goto/forms/702/responses/new

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Dear Future Wifey

NYC Singles - We're hosting a live recording of the @dearfuturewifeypodcast this Saturday, July 25, 2026 | 5pm-7pm at Christian Cultural Center. We have special guests Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko from "The Bachelorette" discussing their love journey and Sarkie Ampim. We'll have three segments: a live recording with these Charity and Dotun, an exclusive with Sarkie Ampim, and a panel discussion with a Q&A. Let's discuss how these dating streets feel like a reality show. This is a free event. Trust me... you don't want to miss this.

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Dear Future Wifey

Have you ever gone on retreats with us? Those retreats were curated through ‪@Icantwaittotravel‬ . I did an interview on their podcast and shared things I've never shared before while on those retreats. The loneliness I felt. The moments of yearning for my future wifey. You name it. Watch this episode and let me know if you can relate. While you're there, Subscribe to my friends' channel.

https://youtu.be/inM00jY7MvY?si=qibkT...

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Dear Future Wifey

Nawlins!!!! We're in your city! Come join us at @newhomeministries tomorrow morning for @dearfuturewifeypodcast Live. We have a dynamic panel @rcblakes @ladylisablakes @srblakes @java__likethecoffee and Mother Lois Blakes. This will be a powerful service.

I'll be signing my new book "Student of Love" after service. Make sure you purchase one tomorrow.

New Home Ministries
1616 Robert C. Blakes Sr. Dr
New Orleans, LA 70130

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Dear Future Wifey

Have you seen the movie "Thou Shall Not Commit Adultery?" LIT Fam, take a moment and watch this conversation with my friend Dr. Holly Carter, Executive Producer of the movie and author of "The Silent Leaks." Head over there and subscribe and leave a comment. Thank you in advance.

https://youtu.be/thc84S23w4k?si=uahjA...

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Dear Future Wifey

LIT Fam! Last week, we had the honor of participating in Mount Zion's "Forever Unfiltered Conference." It took place in Nashville, TN and it was transformational. The testimonies we received after leaving the stage was such a God moment. Watch this and leave a comment on their channel. Be sure to subscribe to our friends' Bishop Joseph & Steph Walker's youtube channel while you're there.

https://youtu.be/BUO-_VXcOB0?si=EanNr...

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Dear Future Wifey

Dallas/Ft. Worth - I'm inviting the DF-Dubb to this spectacular Juneteenth Event this Friday. We'll be doing Dear Future Wifey Live. This is a FREE event. Pull up. RSVP at www.FreedomVibes.com

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Dear Future Wifey

DMV - Are you coming this weekend? THIS SUNDAY from 2pm-4pm! It's a FREE EVENT at the MLK Library. Join me for a Fireside Chat of "Student of Love" with WUSA9's Allison Seymour. Register at dclibrary.libnet.info/event/16181873.

https://youtu.be/MB-TXtcWR_E?si=D1FsL...

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Dear Future Wifey

DMV - I wanna see you THIS SUNDAY from 2pm-4pm! It's a FREE EVENT at the MLK Library. Join me for a Fireside Chat of "Student of Love" with WUSA9's Allison Seymour. Register at dclibrary.libnet.info/event/16181873.

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