Journey with me as I discover, uncover, and recover love. From interviews with singles, married, divorcees, and those in between, we promise every episode of this podcast will be L.I.T. (Living Intentionally and Transparently). New book STUDENT OF LOVE coming 1/13/2026.
I'm Laterras R. Whitfield and welcome to the Dear Future Wifey Podcast.
Dear Future Wifey
Be honest—has something I’ve shared ever found you at the right moment?
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Dear Future Wifey
In 7 days…
I’ll be standing at the altar, saying vows to my purpose partner. 💍✨
After five years of sharing my journey on Dear Future Wifey, we’re stepping into a moment that has truly been for all of us.
On November 22, 2025, the world will finally meet the Mystery Bride.
🎥 The entire wedding will be livestreamed for FREE at:
• 2pm PST
• 4pm CST
• 5pm EST
Let’s make history together. REGISTER at www.ThisIsForAllOfUs.com/ |
#thisisforallofus
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Dear Future Wifey
Can't believe this message has almost 50k views. This will speak to you and provide encouragement in your single season and solidify your marriage. Watch and let me know what you think.
youtube.com/live/u2w0-J_H7G8?si=yeyAwOEqbIBkjzhR
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Dear Future Wifey
What's up, LIT Fam? I just got finished preaching today, and I believe this message will bless you. Comment under the video and let me know your takeaway from the message.
youtube.com/live/u2w0-J_H7G8?si=XCjHmyhnP74i6DTh
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Dear Future Wifey
I'm officially a granddad! To God be the glory.
@laterria.razsane —I've carried the weight of your tears. When motherhood seemed like a distant hope for you, I bombarded the throne room of God to make your request known. And now, you’ve birthed a miracle. You were destined for this. You are and will continue to be an exceptional mother. Claire needs you to become all that she will be. Handle this calling with grace, confidence, Godly wisdom, and unconditional love. Watching you step into motherhood has been one of the greatest joys of my life.
To my son-in-love, @@taycosby5 —thank you for caring for @laterria.razsane so beautifully throughout this journey. Your patience and the way you carried her emotions were remarkable. As a father, I know how often men go unchecked—yet you bore the weight of the same heartbreak through miscarriages that my daughter endured. And though I was aware of that, I admit I rarely checked in on you. For that, I sincerely apologize. Thank you for being an exceptional husband, a true son-in-love, and now… a dad. You are your own man. Take wisdom from me, but always trust the instincts God placed in you to father Claire.
And Claire Elizabeth Cosby—what a blessing you are already. Born August 15, 2025, at 9:30 am CST, weighing 6 lbs. 6 oz., you are the evidence of God’s faithfulness. You are a rainbow child. You are the manifestation of God's promise. You carry legacy. I love you deeply. “Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from Him” (Psalm 127:3). I know you will grow into an awesome young woman, covered in love, wisdom, and the favor of God.
I love you all. I bless your new family. And I’m proud of you. Well done.
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Dear Future Wifey
Fun fact: I've never spent a day in college. Though I've always seen myself getting a degree, my daughter was born my senior year in high school, so I chose being an active and financially responsible father over going to college.
When @famu_1887 invited me to be their commencement speaker, imposter syndrome hit me like a ton of bricks. Do you deal with imposter syndrome? Watch this video if ever felt disqualified from what God already qualified you for.
Thank you, @famu_1887, for confirming that God is amplifying my voice in different arenas. Literally.
Class of 2025, God said, "Let there be YOU."
Thank you, future wifey, for speaking life into me. I love you. #themysterybride
https://youtu.be/AdEGlmHsKqw?si=CK7gH...
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Dear Future Wifey
Join us now LIVE. youtube.com/live/AmW6Nv2Jj_4?si=jw0AWqOALWMorSk1
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Dear Future Wifey
Dallas, Fort Worth, Texas - It's going down this Friday at @dc3online at 7:30pm. We're doing the @dearfuturewifeypodcast Live. If you've never been to one of our Live events, you're missing out. Purchase tickets: share.google/vyxWd1u6JIEJUPqXq.
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Dear Future Wifey
Last year, I boldly prophesied that I would be married by the end of 2025. Faith requires action—so I moved with intention.
You’ve often heard me say, “Friend to fiancée.” Well, a beautiful Black queen I met a year and a half ago—once just a platonic friend seeking relationship advice—has become the woman who will soon carry my last name.
Her identity will remain a mystery... until she walks down the aisle.
Because you’ve walked this journey with me, it only makes sense to invite you to the wedding—virtually. Get ready for the livestream of a love story fulfilled.
Oh, and the ring? Crafted with precision and purpose by the @philadelphiadiamondcompany . It deserves its own spotlight. Stay tuned. 💍✨ #themysterybride
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Dear Future Wifey
Do you wanna watch a really good interview? I did this interview with xoMan this past September, and it just dropped his morning. It's so powerful... If I so say so myself. I share things I've never shared publicly. Let's run the views up.
https://youtu.be/mw75z7IxAbA?si=lVYZb...
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