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LOVE AND TRUST IN FAMILIES (SAVING FAMILY)

The Feast of The Holy Family honors Jesus, Mary, and Joseph as a model of faith and love. The readings show the importance of respect, patience, and trust within the family.
In the first reading, honouring parents brings blessings and strengthens family bonds. It reminds us to care for each other, especially for aging parents.

In the second reading, St Paul urges us to practice kindness, humility, and forgiveness. These virtues build harmony in our homes. He calls us to let Christ's peace guide our actions, creating a loving and supportive family life. Gratitude and unity are key themes, reminding us to live with love and patience.

The Gospel tells of Joseph's courage and trust in God's plan. He protects his family by listening to God's guidance, even when it leads them to an unknown land. His faith and obedience show the strength of a father's love and responsibility.
Today's Feast Celebration encourages us to reflect on our own families. We learn from Jesus, Mary, and Joseph how to live with love, respect, and trust in God. Their example inspires us to strengthen our family bonds and grow in faith together.

Prayer 🙏
LORD, help us to follow the example of the Holy Family. Teach us to honor each other with love and respect. Grant us compassion and patience in our daily lives. Guide our families with your wisdom and peace. May we always trust in your plan. Amen

Good morning and happy Feast of the Holy Family Year A.
God Bless Our Family

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ofu ofuongo

LOVE AND TRUST IN FAMILIES (SAVING FAMILY)

The Feast of The Holy Family honors Jesus, Mary, and Joseph as a model of faith and love. The readings show the importance of respect, patience, and trust within the family.
In the first reading, honouring parents brings blessings and strengthens family bonds. It reminds us to care for each other, especially for aging parents.

In the second reading, St Paul urges us to practice kindness, humility, and forgiveness. These virtues build harmony in our homes. He calls us to let Christ's peace guide our actions, creating a loving and supportive family life. Gratitude and unity are key themes, reminding us to live with love and patience.

The Gospel tells of Joseph's courage and trust in God's plan. He protects his family by listening to God's guidance, even when it leads them to an unknown land. His faith and obedience show the strength of a father's love and responsibility.
Today's Feast Celebration encourages us to reflect on our own families. We learn from Jesus, Mary, and Joseph how to live with love, respect, and trust in God. Their example inspires us to strengthen our family bonds and grow in faith together.

Prayer 🙏
LORD, help us to follow the example of the Holy Family. Teach us to honor each other with love and respect. Grant us compassion and patience in our daily lives. Guide our families with your wisdom and peace. May we always trust in your plan. Amen

Good morning and happy Feast of the Holy Family Year A.
God Bless Our Family

Beautiful Soul That Understands #everyone #church

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Free will was not initially installed for humans. It was for angels only.

Angels' free will is advanced whilst for humans is basic( for lack of better words)

Therefore, Angels nature is perfection. Humans and error are inseparable.

And for this reason, an angel making a mistake can never ask for God's forgiveness – for it's not merely a mistake.
On the other hand, human beings can be pardoned by God endless times if they make a mistake.

Everyone is a sinner, however, those who will enter heaven are those who put themselves in a position of spotting mistakes, admit them and in turn correct them.

A fallen angel is basically one that decided to sacrifice itself to meddle with God's purpose.

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WHAT MEN NEED TO KNOW

1. Intimacy in your marriage will suffer if you keep coming home late

2. Your wife doesn't find you $exy because you buy her expensive gifts, she finds you $exy because of how you attend to her emotions

3. Your wife will struggle to give you her body if she suspects you are entertaining another woman/women. Faithfulness makes you sexy

4. Don't avoid your wife the whole day then expect her to be turned on for you at night

5. Women make love with their emotions, for them, the feeling of being loved is important. If you hurt her, she won't desire to make love

6. If she doesn't feel ready to make love tonight, find out if there is an issue and address it. But if she is genuinely tired or not in the mood, it is not the end of the end of the world. How you treat her today, will determine how love making will be tomorrow

7. If you realize you are demanding conjugal rights, know that you are no longer having intimacy but $€xual perversion and coercion. Intimacy is not demanded, intimacy is invited and mutually celebrated

8. Sometimes all she needs from you is not your p€nis, but your arms to hold and cuddle her

WHAT WOMEN NEED TO KNOW

1. Men find it easier to make love when there is peace. If you are not a peaceful woman, he won't enjoy your body

2. It hurts a man when he is accused of cheating yet he is faithful. Such a man will struggle with intimacy with you because he feels hurt. Don't accuse him falsely

3. A stressed man will struggle with his €rection and $exuality because the p€nis is controlled by the mind. Attend to the matters disturbing him so that he doesn't feel alone and he will find you $exy

4. Men struggle to kiss the lips of a wife that insults him, belittles him and orders him around

5. No matter how $exy your body is or how hot the lingerie you wear, a man is turned on most by your attitude

6. Men also love it when the wife makes $exual advances. Don't be passive, letting him do all the work in bed. Take your husband out on dates, seduce him, flirt with him, show him that you find him $exy

7. Ego is important to a man when it comes to intimacy. Tell him how you enjoy making love with him and he will do it more. If you mock his p€nis or make him feel you did not enjoy or mock how quick he climaxed, he will feel bruised and withdraw

8. If issues are what are keeping you from desiring love making with your husband, voice them out, talk things out without delay. Don't just be indifferent, cold and give him silent treatment. Being cold will push him away and he might form a negative opinion of you and the delicate fabric of your intimacy be ruined for a very long time

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FREE SEX THAT KILLS GREAT MINISTRY

There is something in ministry that is more dangerous than poverty, more poisonous than betrayal, and more destructive than persecution.

It is free sex; that seductive lie that your anointing is too strong to fall, and your grace too deep to sink.

But, let me tell you clearly: FREE SEX IS NOT FREE. It will cost you your fire, your favor, and eventually your future if you don’t kill it early.

You are not stronger than Samson. He carried gates, slew armies, but could not conquer the thighs of Delilah.

One night in her lap was enough to finish years of divine investment. His hair grew back, but his eyes never did.

Sexual sin blinds, binds, and grinds. Many men of power became prisoners of lust because they refused to flee when they should have run.

I have watched young ministers lose oil on strange beds.

I have seen revivals die not in the open, but under the sheets. Dear sons and daughters, when Satan wants to cripple a destiny he doesn’t always come with horns sometimes, he comes in heels and soft words.

He sends a woman not to help, but to harvest what God has planted in you.

Don't be deceived. Ministry is not maintained by preaching well but by living well.

One sexual mistake can scatter what took years of fasting, prayer, and labor to build.

Ask David. One evening glance at Bathsheba brought blood into his house for generations. Yes, he repented. But he lost his child, his peace, and his testimony. Grace forgives, but scars remain.

Sons and daughters, the people you sleep with today may be the reason your altar dries tomorrow.

Free sex is a spiritual transaction every time you engage in it, you’re exchanging your oil for dust. Satan doesn’t need to kill you; he just needs to leak your consecration.

Don’t ever think the body doesn’t matter. Your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost not a guest house for temporary pleasure.

(1 Corinthians 6:18-20). FLEE FORNICATION. That’s not a suggestion, it’s a command. Don’t counsel it, run from it.

Don’t play strong, stay away from situations that stir lust. Shut doors, block numbers, stay off strange chats, and most importantly, build a strong secret place.

Ministry is not sustained by gifts, but by purity. Purity gives authority in the spirit realm. If the devil knows you are loose, he laughs at your tongues. When you lose your purity, you lose your covering. You may still preach, but heaven no longer backs you.

Sons, and daughters,I’m not warning you because I think you’re weak, I’m warning you because you’re called. The higher the calling, the deeper the warfare. Satan will not fight your car or clothes, he fights your consecration, because he knows that once your altar is polluted, your ministry becomes noise.

Guard your loins with fear and trembling. Protect your stream. Don’t fall for the lies of free sex; it is the bait of Satan, wrapped in pleasure but ends in pain.

Fire and fornication does not dwell together. If you want to last, keep your pants up and your spirit fed.

Sons and daughters, choose purity, choose fire, choose the path of consecration. That is how great men are made and that is how they remain.

PURITY IS POWER💪
PURITY IS WISDOM

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THE MOST DANGEROUS WOMAN A MAN CAN EVER MEET: THE MARRIED WOMAN WHO KEEPS CHASING YOU

Listen up, brothers — this one will cost you everything if you play with fire.
A married woman who chases you is not romantic. She’s a walking disaster. She’s emotional landmine, reputation assassin, and career saboteur rolled into one. Avoid her at all costs.

1️⃣ She breaks vows like they’re toys.
If she can betray her husband for you, she’ll betray you for someone else. Loyalty is a habit — not a mood. A woman who cheats once cheats again. Don’t be the next chapter in her pattern.

2️⃣ She brings drama into your life — not peace.
Secret texts, sneaky meetings, emotional rollercoasters — that’s her currency. You trade your calm for excitement and collect chaos as rent. Men who value peace walk the other way.

3️⃣ Her “love” comes stamped with legal and social risk.
Affair exposure can wreck your job, your family, and your name. One leaked message, one jealous husband, one vindictive ex — and your life becomes evidence in someone else’s collapse. Is her thrill worth your future? No.

4️⃣ She trains you to be a coward.
You start lying, hiding calls, making excuses, living in corners. A real man lives openly — not in whispers. When you accept secret behavior, you shrink your spine. That’s how reputations and masculinity die.

5️⃣ She’s emotionally toxic, not emotionally available.
She’ll demand attention, sympathy, and secrecy — but she can’t give you the stability you need. You become her escape, not her partner. And when things get heavy, she runs back to the stability she’s legally tied to. You’re disposable.

6️⃣ Her presence invites retaliation.
Jealous husbands don’t always take it quietly. Threats, fights, public scenes — you’re gambling with real violence and real consequences. No amount of “chemistry” is worth a broken skull or a ruined life.

7️⃣ You lose respect in the eyes of other men.
Brotherhood respects honor. Men who sleep with married women are whispered about, not respected. Your legacy isn’t built on conquests — it’s built on reputation. Don’t trade legacy for lust.

8️⃣ Her promises are transactional, not sacred.
She offers secret affection in exchange for things she already has access to: validation, ego boosts, excitement. She’s not choosing you — she’s choosing comfort wrapped in sin. That’s not love. That’s barter.

9️⃣ You’re risking your future relationship prospects.
How do you explain the rumor when you want a stable partner later? How do you build trust when your history smells of secrecy? Marriage-minded women want men of character, not men with scandal.

🔟 The quickest way to lose yourself is to be someone’s hidden sin.
You think you’re a thrill; you become an apology. You think you’re chosen; you become collateral. Real men protect their name, not their temptations.

FINAL WARNING:
If a married woman chases you, shut it down politely but firmly. Don’t flirt with fire. Burn the bridge before the blaze reaches you. Walk away with your name intact, your future untarnished, and your pride unbought.

Protect your peace. Protect your legacy. Protect your honor. Anything else is weakness disguised as romance.

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BEFORE YOU MARRY A MAN 20 YEARS OLDER...

You have to take note of the high disparity and see if you can cope.

Will he see you as a friend or a daughter who must always listen to his command and nothing more? Or he will put his age aside and be your best friend, gist mate and romantic partner? You need a young blood to enjoy your life with and age doesn't really determine the freshness of the blood. Attitude is, if you understand what I mean.

I have met guys who were just few years older than me and treated me like a kid with no thought of her own and I have met men far older who treat me like a buddy, some even say "Yes ma". You get it? Attitude basically matters not just the accumulation of numbers.

At forty, your sÂŁxual desire peaks and you want more sÂŁx like no man's business. At forty, his own sÂŁxual desire begins to decline talk less of when he is sixty years old! But with good diet, enough sleep, right attitude to work and a very young heart, the man can boost his libido, desire you like crazy, have sÂŁx 2 to 3 times a week and stay on top of his sÂŁxual games with you!

One lady separated from her elderly husband because she was starving sÂŁxually! There are young men less than thirty or a little over thirty who also starve their wife sÂŁx!

Attitude matters.

God's will matters most!

If God says at 25, you will marry a man who is 45, who are we to say NO?

When Jesus says YES, nobody can say NO my dear!

Do not box God!

Still, don't do what your power can't carry!

Not every lady can marry a man far older than she is.

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

You will not mis-choose in Jesus' name!

3 months ago | [YT] | 0

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WHY SOME REVEREND SISTERS ACT AGGRESSIVE.

Last week , someone dm me and asked me.

Sr Gina, why are Reverend Sisters always aggressive? I have one in my compound she’s too harsh, always sad, and never happy. She has a good job, drives a car, but still causes trouble. Even my aunt who’s a Sister is the same. She doesn’t like peace; she’s always troublesome. Why is it like that?

That question touched me deeply😞
Many people see a Sister’s attitude, but few take time to understand her heart. They see the veil, the uniform, the smile during Mass but not the tears behind closed doors.

Some Sisters carry silent wounds that no one ever cared to ask about.
Some were deeply hurt by the people they trusted, by leadership, by the weight of obedience, or by the loneliness that comes with their calling. Some have given so much of themselves that they no longer know how to express love freely.

Others face constant criticism, from those who expect them to be perfect, never tired, never sad, never emotional. And when the pain grows heavy inside, it sometimes shows through anger, harshness, or withdrawal. Not because they are bad people but because they are tired humans who still have feelings.

Remember;
Behind every angry Sister is a story.
Behind every harsh tone is a hidden pain.
Behind every silent face is a prayer whispered through tears.

So before you judge, pause and pray for her.
Maybe what she needs is not condemnation, but compassion.
Maybe what she’s missing is not holiness, but healing.

Let’s learn to understand, not accuse.
To love, not label.
Because every Sister like every human being, is still on a journey of growth and grace.

Instead of criticizing, pray for her.
Instead of gossiping, show her kindness.
Instead of assuming, try understanding.

Good beautiful people. Wishing you all a blessed and fruitful day

3 months ago | [YT] | 0

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Welcome to our 21st century, where our:
- Phones are wireless,
- Cars are keyless,
- Cooking is fireless,
- Foods are butterless,
- Dresses are sleeveless,
- People are genderless,
- Youths are jobless,
- Leaders are shameless,
- Wives are fearless,
- Children are mannerless,
- Babies are fatherless,
- Relationships are meaningless,
- Nights are sleepless,
- Feelings are heartless,
- Attitude is careless, in fact I am speechless,
everything is becoming less, but still our hopes are endless.
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