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This realization comes with emotional maturity.
As children or younger versions of ourselves, we believe closeness means complete transparency ...that being loved requires being fully understood.
But adulthood slowly teaches us otherwise.

There are thoughts shaped by personal history, wounds formed in silence, fears without clear reasons, and emotions that don’t need fixing ...only space.

Not because others wouldn’t care, but because some inner experiences lose their meaning when spoken.
They are intimate in a way language can’t carry.

Adulting is learning discernment:
understanding that privacy is not secrecy, silence is not dishonesty, and distance is not lack of love.

Some parts of you exist purely for self-understanding ...places where you sit with yourself, process alone, and grow quietly.

This doesn’t make relationships shallow.
It makes them healthier.
Because true maturity isn’t about being fully exposed
it’s about knowing what to share, with whom, and what to hold gently within yourself.

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Depersonalization is a dissociative state where a person feels disconnected from themselves...as if they're observing their own life from the outside rather than living it.

Thoughts, emotions, voice, or even the body can feel unreal, distant, or unfamiliar, like you're a stranger occupying your own form.

It doesn't mean you're losing touch with reality or "going crazy." In fact, people experiencing depersonalization are usually very aware that something feels off.

This awareness is part of the distress. The mind creates this distance as a protective response, often triggered by intense stress, anxiety, trauma, or emotional overload.

It's the brain's way of saying, this is too much right now.

Life during depersonalization can feel muted emotions feel flat, joy feels unreachable, and even pain feels strangely far away.

You may function normally on the outside while feeling hollow or unreal on the inside. The most painful part is the loneliness of it: trying to explain something that doesn't have clear language.

Importantly, depersonalization is reversible. It's not a permanent identity or a broken self, it's a temporary coping mechanism.

With grounding, safety, time, and support, the sense of self slowly returns, often stronger and more aware than before.

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This line reflects a simple truth:
we make plans because we want control, security, and direction.

But life often unfolds in unexpected ways, through chance meetings, losses, delays, blessings, and turns we never predicted.

It suggests that there's a larger flow or destiny at work, something beyond our control, gently guiding events.

So while effort, dreams, and choices matter, the final shape of our lives isn't always ours to design.

Sometimes what feels like detours or disruptions are actually the path itself reminding us to stay humble, open, and trusting, even when life doesn't go according to plan.

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Sometimes love isn’t about grand gestures or shiny things.

It’s about finding the one place where your mind rests,

your heartbeat slows, and the world finally feels quiet.
Not possession. Not desire.

Just peace, wrapped in the comfort of someone who feels like home.

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1 week ago | [YT] | 399

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This line speaks to the essence of authentic, unconditional love ...the kind that feels almost sacred or divine.

Most relationships, even well-meaning ones, carry expectations.
People often ask you to adjust, to conform, to fit into their vision of “ideal.”

That kind of love creates pressure, compromise, and sometimes the slow erosion of your true self.

Divine love is different. It doesn’t try to mold you or erase your individuality. Instead, it sees your essence
the person you were meant to be before fear, ego, or life’s wounds made you forget.

It encourages growth not by forcing change, but by gently guiding you back to your authentic self.

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 335

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A toxic relationship hurts loudly.

It creates chaos, fear, and intensity  and in that noise, you’re rarely asked to grow. 

You only react, survive, or escape. 
Pain becomes familiar, and familiarity feels like depth.

A healthy relationship, on the other hand, is quiet but demanding.
It doesn’t pull you into drama; it pulls you into responsibility. 

It asks you to communicate instead of disappear, to face discomfort instead of running, to heal parts of yourself you once hid behind conflict. 

That’s why it feels harder.
When two souls grow in the same direction, challenges stop being threats.

They become mirrors. Every test isn’t meant to break love, but to refine it  turning ego into understanding, fear into trust, and attachment into commitment. 
Growth replaces survival.
A healthy relationship doesn’t promise ease.
It promises evolution.

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#HealthyLove #ConsciousLove #EmotionalMaturity #GrowthTogether
#omsantiom #SoulConnection #InnerHealing #EvolvedLove #ChooseToStay

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A missed train.
A random meeting.
Two broken souls at the right moment.

Nothing is planned ...yet everything feels meant to happen.

Destiny doesn’t bring them together when they’re happy,
it brings them together when they need healing the most.

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#JabWeMet #DestinyLove #GeetAndAditya #BollywoodRomance #FateAndTiming #LoveThatHeals

4 weeks ago | [YT] | 64

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That last moment After spending whole day. #longdistance #love #relationship #rockstar #imtiazali

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