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How Class Climbers Reveal Themselves (Without Realising)

Insecure people who can’t think for themselves often fall into class climbing — copying signals, overcompensating, or trying too hard to prove they “belong.” The irony? The harder they try, the more they expose themselves.

In this new Patreon video, I break down the dead giveaways — from accent anxiety to false exclusivity — and explain why class performance is often both conscious and unconscious in English culture.

👉 You can purchase this video as a one-off, or join as a member for only $5/month and get two exclusive videos every month where I dish the dirt even deeper than I do here on YouTube.

Watch it here: patreon.com/SecretsofEnglish

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🚨 New video just dropped on Patreon 🚨

This one dives into two areas you really need to watch out for in UK workplaces:
🔹 HR complaints — how they can be used against you, and why some colleagues make them.
🔹 Correcting people in meetings — and why you need to be very careful who you correct (even when you’re right).

These are subtle traps that can damage your reputation if you don’t see them coming. Get it here www.patreon.com/posts/hr-traps-at-work-137303751?u…

🎥 First chapter of my Ultimate UK Workplace Guide is still free to download on Patreon - no membership needed: patreon.com/SecretsofEnglish

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Just to confirm, my 'Ultimate UK Workplace Guide for Professionals' will be available on Patreon today after 6 pm UK time.

✅ First chapter is completely FREE for anyone to download — no membership required.
✅ Full guide (all remaining chapters) is a one-off purchase of $12.

This guide covers:

How to read subtle power dynamics and use them to your advantage

Building authentic trust so you gain genuine workplace allies

Knowing exactly when to speak up — and when to pause

Spotting unspoken signals and undercurrents that others miss

Unpacking workplace context and nuance, with psychology-based tips for strategic action

Each chapter pulls apart a key aspect of UK workplace culture, explains the psychology behind it, and gives you practical ways to respond — so you can navigate with more clarity, confidence, and less second-guessing.

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✨ A quick note about this channel’s focus:

While I often talk about British nuance, this isn’t just a “British culture” channel.

The real focus here is to help internationally-minded professionals grow and succeed in multicultural, English-speaking environments, especially where British communication style and intercultural nuance intersect.

This space is for you if:
– You work remotely with British colleagues or clients
– You have a British boss or teammate, even in your home country
– You serve British customers and want to build better rapport
– You want to strengthen your communication in cross-cultural spaces

The goal? To help you understand subtle British cues, flex your style, and communicate effectively with clarity, empathy, and impact.

🎯 Less about cultural clichés — more about strategic, emotionally intelligent communication that actually gets results.

Welcome — I’m glad you’re here.

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👀 Why do some people never realise they’re receiving feedback at work in the UK… until it’s too late?
And why do others accidentally come across as too direct or awkward when giving it?

I just dropped a new video on UK feedback culture at work — covering the subtle ways feedback is given (and missed), plus tips on how to respond like a team player and how to lead with credibility in British environments.

🎯 Whether you’re in your first UK job or stepping into a leadership role, this one’s essential viewing.

👉 Watch it now — and start reading the situation better: www.patreon.com/posts/understanding-in-134633621?u…

🗂️ And keep an eye out — my full UK Workplace Guide is coming soon! It’s going to be packed with unspoken scenarios, cultural cues, and my top psychology tips to help you navigate it all with confidence.

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🆕 New Patreon Video:
Talking About Health in the UK: What’s Assumed Normal 🇬🇧
In this video, I unpack how health is navigated in British workplaces and social life—what’s said, what’s assumed, and where misunderstandings can happen. Especially useful if you’re managing teams or building cross-cultural relationships.

🎥 Watch it here:www.patreon.com/posts/talking-about-in-132331142?u…

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Hey everyone! I’ve just posted a FREE video over on my Patreon — no subscription needed, just click and watch. (Paid Patreon members - your video is also up)

This one’s for anyone who’s navigating social cues, especially around hierarchy, status, and subtle deference — whether that’s at work, socially, or just day-to-day life.

You may have encountered this before without realising it — or you may not have noticed it yet!! — But it’s really important not to miss, because these dynamics can shape how people respond to you in ways that aren’t always obvious.

🔍 In the video, I talk about:

The way formality often shows up when people first meet

How workplace and pub dynamics follow very different rules

Why it can be risky to automatically defer to someone in the UK — and how that can shift the social balance

Tips for non-UK natives, including those who are neurodivergent, to help decode the unwritten rules without changing who you are

✨ Bonus thought:
While these social norms are real and influential, it’s worth knowing that some British people deliberately go against them, whether to push back, be sarcastic, or quietly rebel. It’s subtle, but it happens, and being aware of it can help you read between the lines.

👉 Watch it FREE now over on Patreon (no payment or subscription required):
🔗 www.patreon.com/posts/unspoken-british-130996431?u…

Let me know your thoughts, and feel free to share any weird or surprising social moments you’ve had in the UK!

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How do British people handle difficult emotions, like stress, embarrassment, or upset?

Often, they don’t talk about it directly. They might change the subject, make a dry joke, or just get quiet. But if you don’t recognise what’s happening — especially in romantic, social, or work settings — you can unintentionally push them away.

In my latest Patreon video, I walk you through how British people typically deal with emotional discomfort — and how you can respond in a way that respects their boundaries while still offering care and connection.

🎥 If you're serious about building strong relationships with British people — this is essential.
Watch now on Patreon: www.patreon.com/posts/emotional-in-130022802?utm_m…

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✨ Just uploaded a new Patreon video!
This one’s all about how English people quietly signal privacy—something even advanced learners often miss!

If you want to better read between the lines in British communication, this one will give you some clear (and very real) insight with exact phrases used and how to react to these appropriately, so you keep your connections on the right track!

You can get it here www.patreon.com/posts/how-british-mask-128521783?u…

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🌍💼 Thinking of working in the UK for your profession? Maybe you already do!? Here’s what you need to know!

When people move to the UK for work, they often bring professional expectations based on their own culture—which can lead to misunderstandings about how UK workplaces actually function. In my latest Patreon video, I share real stories from students and professionals about the surprising differences they’ve encountered and how to navigate them.

🚀 What’s inside:
✅ How workplace norms & communication styles can feel different
✅ The personal misconceptions people have based on their own backgrounds
✅ Where to turn if you’re struggling at work and HR isn’t helping

📢 This video is available exclusively on Patreon! Join me there to watch: www.patreon.com/SecretsofEnglish

#UKWorkCulture #JobSearchUK #WorkplaceTips #CareerAdvice #WorkInTheUK

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