Alexander Paliens — Futurologist
Personal Transformation Method. 33 years of expertise.
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Changing reflex patterns — changing destiny.
Author of the Forbes Life bestseller "Life in Pleasure."
Over 27 years of practice, more than 60,000 consultations and more than 300 events in 12 countries.
“I do not claim to be the only truth, only sharing my experience. I study every day, and create the rules from the laws of my own life. There are no clear instructions. All that I give temporarily: you use it, and then refuse, moving on to more effective things, otherwise there will be no development. Difficult, incomprehensible, don't like it? Do not waste time and go where you get the response.”
Alexander Paliens (English)
Places of Nature
Connecting with nature gives us access to the vibrations we need.
By knowing how and what influences us, we can turn to nature as a tool to activate the energies we’re seeking.
For example, if you plan to start a business or resolve some business issues, go to the mountains.
If you want to understand universal laws and the principles of existence — take a walk in the forest.
Plains, fields, and deserts work well with questions related to sociology, society, collective formations, nations, and communication.
Oceans and seas provide energy for restoring health.
Lakes and rivers, as well as boats, yachts, and houses on the shore, help access information about everyday life, comfort, and the service sector.
Engaging with them is especially useful for architects, designers, photographers, landscape designers, and urban planners.
Waterfalls are the place to go if you want to reset and release the old, while wandering through canyons helps process psychosomatics, relieve stress, and gain a sort of grace period with destiny.
Volcanoes are all different: some carry only aggression (like Vesuvius), while others hold massive, untapped positive energy (like the Hawaiian volcanoes).
The energy of the Hawaiian Islands is so immense that it goes beyond the Earth itself — it is a hub that distributes energy to other civilizations.
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Flour-based products (e.g. pasta) make a person more easy-going, soft, and agreeable. But if eaten in large amounts, pasta destroys willpower.
Rice — false spirituality, false values. For example: “It’s fine to live in a cramped apartment, wonderful to drive an old beat-up car, great to wear ragged shoes, amazing to be an ascetic.” Pure rice erases the desire to be wealthy. Pilaf — economy mode, the urge to cut expenses, and it breeds stinginess.
Buckwheat — creativity, awareness, purity of thought.
Potatoes — the craving for stability.
Cow’s milk blocks development. Goat’s milk enhances potential. Mare’s milk awakens interest in life. Plant-based milk, in one way or another, neutralizes desires, reduces interest in the new and in growth, and lowers creativity.
Coffee — amplifies both strengths and weaknesses.
Green tea — activates aggression, releases energy, and clears out stagnant states of the psyche; great for breaking free from inertia.
Black tea — blocks the fulfillment of one’s purpose; it “saves” a person who isn’t ready to realize their potential.
Beer — leads to degradation. Beer lovers nullify their potential.
Red wine brings exclusivity and creativity (lasting anywhere from 1 day to 1 month, depending on how much information is being processed).
Rosé wine — creativity (lasting 3 to 7 hours).
White wine — efficiency in what you already know how to do, but it doesn’t let you step into the new (lasting on average a week, depending on how much information is being processed).
Whiskey — creative spontaneity.
Vodka — stability.
Rum — inertia, love of discipline, submission.
Gin — mainly stirs aggression.
Grappa — calming.
It’s very important to pay attention to what we think and talk about at the moment of drinking. When consuming any alcohol, it is forbidden to engage in negative or destructive conversations, to judge, or to voice complaints.
The ideal approach when drinking alcohol (except beer) is to make toasts or discuss work-related matters in a constructive way.
All strong drinks work long-term in relation to what you are thinking, saying, or discussing while drinking them. Sometimes the effect can last for several years.
There are many nuances, but the general recommendation is this: if you drink strong alcohol — express your big intentions and dreams; if you drink wine — discuss plans and intentions for the upcoming week.
If while reading this information someone feels the urge to ask lots of questions about other specific drinks or grains, that’s a sign the person is not ready to take responsibility. Instead, they’re trying to shift attention to the unknown — just to avoid taking action and making use of the knowledge already given.
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Thinking about a toxic person means you’re “eating” that toxic person
Receptors are essentially a knowledge base — a structured set of information with clear boundaries. This information exchanges its properties with those of other objects or states. During such interaction, both the receptors and the objects or states involved begin to break down.
This breakdown leads to a transformation of the receptor itself — enabling it to perceive new information — and also transforms the object or state we engaged with. It will never be the same. It’s a kind of energetic exchange: when we look at something, we give it energy and at the same time absorb some energy from the object we’re observing.
Through this process, we transform whatever we’re looking at — and our receptors are transformed in turn. And these altered objects and states then start influencing us in new ways, creating a continuous cycle of mutual transformation.
We create reality through our receptors using projections and models — these carry and transmit information. When I explain something, I create conditions for someone to understand something new through a model they already know. Using apples, pencils, or matchsticks to teach arithmetic is an example: we use familiar models to grasp something new — as long as it contains no more than 12% novelty.
If the novelty is greater, we won’t understand. If it’s less, the system backfires — manifesting as illness, aging, or degradation. This means we begin identifying with what we no longer are or should be. Remember the principle: “Do good and throw it into the sea — don’t let the left hand know what the right is doing”? It’s important to switch quickly and not associate ourselves with anything except the base identity — “I am a man” or “I am a woman.” Only this keeps us aligned with the software — the inner programming tied to our purpose here.
However, there’s also a foreign field — the “side effect,” or background radiation. A simple analogy: when we get a chest x-ray, we get the needed information, but both the patient and nearby people get some radiation too. That’s why the doctor steps out of the room to reduce exposure.
Similarly, when we “process” someone through astrology, numerology, tarot, or any other knowledge system, we inflict certain energetic changes. The more we analyze a person with such methods, the more we “irradiate” them. That’s why, after gaining insight, it’s essential to apply it in real life — to use the information purposefully.
The same applies to listening to my lectures: if you don’t act on what you’ve heard, the information starts working against you. Any information that enters your awareness influences you — because you process it through attention.
We are shaped by our environment: what we wear, eat, talk and think about; who we associate with; where we live and work. As one billionaire once said: “To be wealthy, you need to live in a good neighborhood — and avoid toxic people.” Our receptors absorb whatever they see, hear, and feel according to their interpretation of the world. And in doing so, they are “impregnated” — it’s the same as consuming it. Thinking about a toxic person means you’re “eating” that toxic person.
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A child completely rewrites us — we become entirely different people. Our worldview changes drastically, our values shift entirely. Our whole life — past and future — flashes before our eyes. It’s somewhat like death: you realize that the old you has died, and with the child, a new you is born.
But not everyone comes to this realization. For most people, it's just a checkmark in their mind. Those whose soul hasn't matured and who lack the necessary receptors can’t grasp the depth of this process — they are physically incapable of understanding it. You can play them music, but they have no ear for it — they won’t hear it. You can show them beauty, but they won’t see it. You can offer them a taste, but they won’t feel the flavor. They don’t hear, don’t see, don’t feel. They just want something — and that desire becomes a destructive force, one that destroys their hearing, taste, and vision. Even worse, they destroy the music others can hear and the beauty others can see.
All children really need is love. You need to play with them — without getting distracted by important calls, conversations, work, or anything else. Try enjoying the playtime with your kids — and you’ll effortlessly move to another level.
It’s incredibly important for the mother to be open and light. Otherwise, the dad could be putting on a whole show and nothing would change for the child. But if the mother is open, even a drop of attention from the father multiplies everything many times over. That’s why our task is to activate feminine energy — when women naturally emerge in sincerity, love, kindness, and creativity.
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It’s commonly believed that a man should pursue a woman. But in truth, planet Earth, through the woman, sends out the request for what is needed. She is the initiator who guides the man to channel energies from other civilizations. But everything is reversed for us — laws are born out of fear, and everything happens to please the soulless in the name of tolerance. This tolerance is now being grounded and nullified — a shift is coming, and women will step into their true position.
The first thing a woman must do is speak about what she likes — perfume, roses, flavors, films, music, a man’s appearance, compliments. If she doesn’t express her sensory experiences — taste, touch — or say words of tenderness and love, there will be no conversation about intimacy or fantasies. Social-level connection comes first.
Here’s a great practice: when you walk into a room, notice three good things and speak about them. You walk into the kitchen — the sun is shining, there’s a glass of wine, and someone nearby looks amazing.
All of this expands our inner capacity, and the key to that is openness — saying what we think and feel. 99% of this work should be done by women. Men join in later. Women simply need to maintain their state: keep their internal “cleansing” system running, enjoy what they’re doing, speak their intentions out loud, remember they are women — and switch quickly, even when the outside world is pressing in with other people’s emotions and drama. The worst thing a woman can do is adapt, endure, and agree to everything.
Everything in this world is built on feminine sexuality. Sexuality is the absence of the past — no PMS, no emotional backlog — when everything has been said. Then there’s no drama, no anger, no resentment or jealousy. Instead, there’s harmony, acceptance, creation: “That was amazing!”, “I really liked it here,” “Let’s do this,” “I love this,” “Let me kiss you,” “You look great.”
When a woman becomes playful, curious, and genuinely excited by what she’s doing — tenderness flows naturally. In this state, she radiates warmth through her hands, lips, eyes, and heart.
Women can gift men with kisses, hugs, and compliments — not necessarily intimacy, just affection — and silently think, “He’s amazing,” even when he’s asleep, turned toward the wall. But this only happens when, in everyday life, the woman expresses herself fully, speaks what she feels, acts the way she wants, and grows through authenticity.
Wise ones say it’s nearly impossible to tell a woman the truth — and that’s because there’s another side to the coin. When a woman opens up, she becomes extremely vulnerable. You cannot use her words against her when she was speaking from a place of openness. You cannot mock or dismiss what she says when she’s being honest. That’s why, for many women, it’s easier to lie under oath than to say how they truly feel.
When a woman opens up sincerely, she must feel peace inside and trust in the world. That’s her true power. A man cannot harm or hold her accountable for anything she says — even if it’s silly, awkward, or vulnerable — when spoken from a place of trust.
A woman needs to give herself permission to make the first move, to release the fear of being misunderstood or ignored, and to simply be herself.
When women open up — all men become ideal. No matter who the man is or what he’s achieved, first look at the woman who loves and supports him.
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Some people who don’t have children have come to truly identify with their purpose and mission in life — the very reason they came here. And that mission becomes their one and only “child” they are meant to give birth to. That’s the first case.
The second case — they’ve firmly decided to remain in the role of a child for their entire life. So they have no intention of stepping into the role of a mother or father.
The third level — immaturity. This is when someone doesn’t even reflect on the question: “If I have a child — fine. If I don’t — fine as well.” This leads to bringing superficial people into the world — and they tend to do nothing truly meaningful in this life.
The fourth case — when someone desperately wants to have a child. This usually means they haven’t realized themselves at all — they haven’t stepped into their life’s purpose. They live in illusions, deeply attached to society and the material world. They are overly dependent on the opinions of others. Which means — through their attitude toward life, they actually destroy the possibility of a child appearing. These people often have heightened tolerance — which is a false model of the world. It doesn’t align with the capacity needed — either to give birth or to give life to another human being.
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This world is ruled by a woman. Everything that happens here is a result of her influence.
She has two ways to affect reality: if she speaks or thinks from a place of love, it will come true. The only question is when — and that depends on her capacity.
But if her words come from blame, frustration, or irritation, then that’s exactly what will grow stronger — whatever she holds inner resentment toward will intensify.
As I’ve said before, everything on planet Earth is built on feminine sexual energy.
Sexual energy is the absence of the past and the kindness in her heart, radiating through her eyes and filling the space with love.
A woman always has a choice: to destroy this world through judgment, blame, and dissatisfaction — or to guide it through love.
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