After the argument only his actions are boiling through me. All the lies, all the heart breaking and all the suffering he made me went through and all the shit he caused himself for being a irresponsible senseless manchild. I need to focus on other things to get out of this anger now
Gosh...was i this blind to see that he isn't a red flag but straight up red carpet? I was today years old to realize that he's a karen. He wouldn't ever fix himself for real
Late but here- i made it. Different than before tho lol. Zepeto's new editor option and new lighting is used next I'll make Jump by blackpink but, let them fix the app first it keeps crashing
Yk? Something powerful shifts when a women stops chasing love. It's not that she's given up, it's that she's finally woken up. She realizes, that love isn't something youhave to chase, It's something that should meet you half way. And the moment she stops running after it, she starts walking in a alignment with herself. That's where the real transformation begins. At first, she might feel a strange emptiness. The silence after all that emotional noise. No more over analyzing messages, no more waiting for efforts that never comes, no more bending herself into shapes that fits someone else's comfort. It feels different, even uncomfortable because, for the first time, she's not distracted by persuit. She's face to face with her own heart. Psychologically this is the moment of recalibration. The human brain is wired for connection. But when that connection keeps coming at a cost, the nervous system stays in a survival mode. Constantly waiting, hoping, fearing. When she stops chasing, she rewires her sense of safety. She begins to associate peace with solitude, rather than validation. That's when her energy starts feeling different, calmer, lighter, stronger. She starts seeing love not as something to earn, but as something to receive. And that shift, changes everything. Her standards rise, not in arrogance. But in awareness. She's no longer impressed by potential, she values consistency. She doesn't crave attention anymore, she craves intention. That's emotional maturity, the kind that can only come from being done by one sided effort. The world might call it being cold, but it's not coldness, it's clarity. She can still love deeply, but now she can love consciously. She gives from overflow, not emptiness. Her relationships become healthier, because she's no longer choosing from loneliness, but from strength. And here is the beautiful irony. When SHE stops chasing love, love starts finding her. The kind that doesn't feel confusion or compromise, the kind that doesn't make her question her worth. Because energy attracts energy. And when peace becomes her priority, she stars drawing in people who respect it. In truth, when a women stops chasing love, she doesn't lose anything. She GAINS everything. She gains confidence, her balance, her freedom and most importantly, herself.
I finally figured what happened. Tho it still makes me question some things only he can answer but. This is the answer and finally, i can set myself free from hating him and questioning myself.
"A man becomes meaner when he doesn't want you anymore but, a women becomes calmer when she doesn't want you anymore. That time, Men don't walk away, they'll just hurt you enough so you'll leave. Then play the victim like they did nothing at all. He'll trigger you on purpose, so when you finally walk, then he can flip it and make it look like you are the problem. But a women gets calmer when she doesn't want you anymore. Because, she gave everything to make it work. But when she decides to leave, it's because, she knows, you won't change. She already made noise when she wanted to stay, but you didn't listen. She won't leave you for another man. She'll leave you for her sanity, her self respect, her peace. When a women chooses her peace over you, understand you lost her long before she walked out of the door."
My patience paid me off. The truth is, he loved me just as much as i did. He saw just as special as i did. He did just as much as i did but in different ways. It was always love. But i changed for the better for both me and him. But he didn't. Not even for himself. His words, promises, commitments, everything came from his heart. It just didn't last cuz he's feelings are a lot but aren't strong at all. Mine was. Yes, you were right. A women is much more mature than a man. Specially when a man is like you Anshu. So shortly, we were never the problem, everything was right. He just fell out of love and along with him, the world also made sure that i do aswell. Now the rock from my chest is gone.
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After the argument only his actions are boiling through me. All the lies, all the heart breaking and all the suffering he made me went through and all the shit he caused himself for being a irresponsible senseless manchild. I need to focus on other things to get out of this anger now
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Ig the best way to destroy someone is with your success and silent smile. Cuz the ones that gets destroyed Deserves to be
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Gosh...was i this blind to see that he isn't a red flag but straight up red carpet? I was today years old to realize that he's a karen. He wouldn't ever fix himself for real
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Guess i am overcoming my fear of blood and heights too- if you have a peaceful mind then things around you start feeling peaceful aswell
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When you yourself are your biggest fan so u watch your own edit countless amount of times lol
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Late but here- i made it. Different than before tho lol. Zepeto's new editor option and new lighting is used next I'll make Jump by blackpink but, let them fix the app first it keeps crashing
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Happy Anniversary! 10.24 โค๏ธ #kirito #asuna #kiritoxasuna #sao #swordartonline #couple #marriage #anniversary #isekai #game #anime #nerfgear #love
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Yk? Something powerful shifts when a women stops chasing love. It's not that she's given up, it's that she's finally woken up. She realizes, that love isn't something youhave to chase, It's something that should meet you half way. And the moment she stops running after it, she starts walking in a alignment with herself. That's where the real transformation begins. At first, she might feel a strange emptiness. The silence after all that emotional noise. No more over analyzing messages, no more waiting for efforts that never comes, no more bending herself into shapes that fits someone else's comfort. It feels different, even uncomfortable because, for the first time, she's not distracted by persuit. She's face to face with her own heart. Psychologically this is the moment of recalibration. The human brain is wired for connection. But when that connection keeps coming at a cost, the nervous system stays in a survival mode. Constantly waiting, hoping, fearing. When she stops chasing, she rewires her sense of safety. She begins to associate peace with solitude, rather than validation. That's when her energy starts feeling different, calmer, lighter, stronger. She starts seeing love not as something to earn, but as something to receive. And that shift, changes everything. Her standards rise, not in arrogance. But in awareness. She's no longer impressed by potential, she values consistency. She doesn't crave attention anymore, she craves intention. That's emotional maturity, the kind that can only come from being done by one sided effort. The world might call it being cold, but it's not coldness, it's clarity. She can still love deeply, but now she can love consciously. She gives from overflow, not emptiness. Her relationships become healthier, because she's no longer choosing from loneliness, but from strength. And here is the beautiful irony. When SHE stops chasing love, love starts finding her. The kind that doesn't feel confusion or compromise, the kind that doesn't make her question her worth. Because energy attracts energy. And when peace becomes her priority, she stars drawing in people who respect it. In truth, when a women stops chasing love, she doesn't lose anything. She GAINS everything. She gains confidence, her balance, her freedom and most importantly, herself.
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He finally stopped checking my stuff. Now i can go back live a healthy life.
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I finally figured what happened. Tho it still makes me question some things only he can answer but. This is the answer and finally, i can set myself free from hating him and questioning myself.
"A man becomes meaner when he doesn't want you anymore but, a women becomes calmer when she doesn't want you anymore. That time, Men don't walk away, they'll just hurt you enough so you'll leave. Then play the victim like they did nothing at all. He'll trigger you on purpose, so when you finally walk, then he can flip it and make it look like you are the problem. But a women gets calmer when she doesn't want you anymore. Because, she gave everything to make it work. But when she decides to leave, it's because, she knows, you won't change. She already made noise when she wanted to stay, but you didn't listen. She won't leave you for another man. She'll leave you for her sanity, her self respect, her peace. When a women chooses her peace over you, understand you lost her long before she walked out of the door."
My patience paid me off.
The truth is, he loved me just as much as i did. He saw just as special as i did. He did just as much as i did but in different ways. It was always love. But i changed for the better for both me and him. But he didn't. Not even for himself. His words, promises, commitments, everything came from his heart. It just didn't last cuz he's feelings are a lot but aren't strong at all. Mine was. Yes, you were right. A women is much more mature than a man. Specially when a man is like you Anshu. So shortly, we were never the problem, everything was right. He just fell out of love and along with him, the world also made sure that i do aswell. Now the rock from my chest is gone.
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