Destiny Ladron

Here is the link to my spotfund that I mentioned in my latest vlog. I don’t expect anyone to help, but people do ask. I do a lot for others behind the scenes that I don’t speak on. We have so much going on right now and the sales tax is so insanely expensive and hard to come up with. We wanted to move in June and I don’t know if that’s even possible. I’ve been hoping and praying for so long my social media makes me good money, and while it has been making me some money like enough to help with groceries and stuff, it’s not enough to not still struggle for that next paycheck. Tax return is not going to be enough to get us moved out. This place is going to try to charge us so much when we move out and I’m already preparing to get a lawyer for that because their reviews are bad. They can keep my deposit but no more than that. I need a place with a fenced backyard. I do think I struggle with wanting too much like maybe I’m not meant for the life I want. Is it so much to want enough to eat and watch my kids flourish in sports and stuff without worrying. I know I could go work somewhere. I don’t want to give up my life. My husband has been offered a job which is a base pay raise and commission raise, and work from home. That’s a huge blessing to our family for this year because he works 45 minutes away currently, and I’m hopeful I continue to make money over on Facebook. Anyways. Here’s my spotfund sorry that was so long and for what?

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Spending my day actually organizing my social media life and such.. had a lot to change ❤️ also, my family has a big giant huge change coming that has me feeling even more eager and excited to see what’s in store for 2026. Can’t speak on it yet. ❤️

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Ahhhh guys we’re at 10k subscribers finally!!!! Thank you all so much! I started posting here January 2025 consistently and I’m so happy to have built this community the last year! ❤️

5 days ago | [YT] | 149

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A round of applause for Crustopher 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 170

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I got all this stuff when I sold baked good last holiday season. I’m using up my inventory to start fresh for 2026. The peanut butter balls will go into the gingerbread boxes in the morning, and then they’ll be ready to head to Dutch Bros Coffee in the morning to say Merry Christmas and thank you for making me coffees this year. ❤️🍪🍫🥜

I’m also taking baked goods to 2 other local businesses close to my heart.

I’m also making 3 cheddar jalapeño sourdough loaves, 3 plain sourdough loaves, and an Asiago cheese loaf!

I did 51 peanut butter balls tonight and I’ll do another 30-50 tomorrow. I don’t think I actually need that many but we will see. I’m also making another 6-8 dozen chocolate chip cookies tomorrow, and Mexican wedding cookies! ❤️ my in laws are hosting Christmas so I’m taking a cookie tray. I host at my house for breakfast with my siblings and then we’re going to my in laws and then we’ll be home that night for the next 4 episodes of stranger things lol

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2 weeks ago | [YT] | 120

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WE GOT A NEW CAR!!! ❤️

I just want to say, I know it seems like my family has a lot, but I think it’s important to note that both me and my husband have worked since we were young teens. Full time at that.

When we first got together, we were 18. We moved in at 2 months, both had no car. We walked to the bus stop for work for months. In the rain, snow and the dark.

When we finally did get a car, we paid cash, and it was a beater. Our first nice car was our 2017 ford escape, that we got a few days before Covid lockdowns. We had crap credit, but we needed a car that ran. We loved it while we had it, and paid our excessively expensive car payment on time for years.

Our car breaking down was not in the plan, and neither was buying new. But when you’re about to drop a certain amount on a car payment anyways, sometimes it feels right to get new. And for us, we feel like it’s right. Our plan is always to work harder to make it work. Whether that means I work nights to make up for the increase in our payment, or I babysit, etc. Jesus already works a second job to get us by. My social media has also helped get us by. BUT we had no money saved, no safekeeping fund, no nothing. We had the power of compromise and the power of always figuring it out.

I’m blessed for the things I have, but we are very much paycheck to paycheck, using credit to buy groceries every single month. When I talk about my life, it’s because it’s real. We have struggled forever, and getting a new car today feels like a dream.

I’m terrified of the higher payment. I’m terrified of the $3,000 I need to register it. But I am soo going to make this work. My family deserves it. I know we do.

So yeah, you’ll see me post A LOT because I have been working at this for a long time and sharing my life and being vulnerable is who I am. I’m not doing or saying anything to you guys for your sympathy vote.

I’m not doing this for validation, because I validate myself often. I’m doing this because I have a voice, I LOVE to use it, and I feel I am inspiring to others who feel today should be the end all be all, but keep pushing. Because I shouldn’t be here, and had I been successful at that so many years ago, I’d have no kids to show, I’d have no voice to use, and I’d be no inspiration to anyone.

All of that to say, please know that while I look fortunate, I have worked hard. My village is small. And I guarantee you I’ve been through things you couldn’t imagine.

Thank you for being here for me and for allowing me to share my life ❤️

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3 weeks ago | [YT] | 502

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I felt so alone during my 2nd pregnancy, motherhood in general has felt lonely for me. I’m the only one with kids in my main circle, and I’m young. I’ve had to navigate motherhood on my own and learn as I go, and I don’t think I’ll ever forget that. There werent grandparents there helping a lot, there was me and my husband. We don’t have the village others have. And that’s why I’m so strong. Because I HAVE to be. For my kids and for me. No one is coming to save me, not then when I was in the thick of pregnancy and postpartum depression/rage/anxiety for TWO years, and not now. No one checked on me the way I check on others. But you can’t expect others to give you what you give them. And that is a test to your heart and who you are when you continue to give what you simply do not receive.

Throwback maternity photos with my 2nd. I didn’t take pics with my first, I was hospitalized 8 different times for pneumonia and low fluid before ultimately having my first at 35 weeks via emergency c section.

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4 weeks ago | [YT] | 385

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I had no idea you guys could write on my wall or whatever and I didn’t see some of your posts. But now I know you can do that, and I’ll be sure to look for it. You’re all so nice to me and I just can’t believe how lucky I am to have a community like you 💜💗

1 month ago | [YT] | 182

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3/3 this week! 💪🏼 I’d do more, but I’m tired 😂💗

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1 month ago | [YT] | 195

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First snow of the season ❤️

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