👋🏽 Welcome to Living Irving — I’m Tonya Irving, your Confidence & Beauty Mentor for women 40+.
Here, we keep it real, relatable, and transformational.
I help women rebuild confidence, embrace their hidden beauty, and glow again — even after hair loss, major change, or starting over.
💫 From traction alopecia recovery and scalp care to beauty tutorials, confidence talks, and glow-up routines — this is your space to heal, shine, and show up boldly.
✨ Here’s what you’ll find:
• Hair-loss education & confidence tips 👑
• Beauty, skincare & transformation routines 💄
• Real talk on self-image, purpose & healing 🌸
• Mindset, motivation & soft-life balance 🌿
• Creator confidence tips for women 40+ 🎥
🎯 My mission: To help women rise in confidence, redefine beauty, and transform — one crown at a time.
📖 Grab my book The Hidden Beauty: Transforming Through Traction Alopecia → [Amazon link]
💻 Visit www.LivingIrving.com
for coaching, products, and digital tools.
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VLOGMAS DAY 1 is officially LIVE 🎄❤️
This one is personal, y’all.
I almost didn’t upload it…
Fear tried to sit on my chest, comparison crept in, and I caught myself shrinking again.
But God kept whispering, “Post it. Move anyway.”
So today, I showed up — scared, honest, and determined to grow with you in 2026.
If you’ve ever felt held back by fear, imposter syndrome, or just wondering if your voice even matters… this one is for you.
Come watch, comment, and let’s walk this journey together.
Your dream still deserves a chance. ✨
👉 Watch Vlogmas Day 1 here: https://youtu.be/iv80EbvsiQM?si=g2Esy...
#Vlogmas2025 #LivingIrving #FaithJourney #NewBeginnings
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When I finally stopped chasing validation, God finally showed me who I really was.
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Healing isn’t always pretty… but it’s always worth it.
Today I showed up for the version of me I used to hide.
#ConfidenceCurator #HealingJourney #LivingIrving
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Sis… this Shake-N-Go wig from @HerGivenHair is RUDE. 😭🔥
I literally shook it once, popped it on, and these 3C–4A curls said: “We’re here. We’re natural. We’re booked and busy.”
If you want a wig that gives REAL texture, REAL convenience, and REAL RESULTS… this one is it.
👇🏽 SHOP THE EXACT WIG HERE:
www.tiktok.com/t/ZPHTYtDEhyrFB-y1Mhl/
More pics below — because this unit deserved a photoshoot. ✨
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Sis… this fake edges hack is about to change somebody’s confidence today.
I’m dropping the full tutorial at 3 PM — and the transformation speaks for itself.
Stay tuned. 💛
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🔥 “Your Ultimate Brow Hack” is on YouTube!
Don’t do your brows again until you watch this. 👀💯https://youtu.be/QOA7V1yJrSw?si=Leo-U...
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Be honest… does this glow look natural or ‘expensive’? 👀✨
Because the way this shimmer oil is showing OUT on my skin…”
Should I drop the link or keep it my little secret? 😏
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We don’t hate ourselves because we wear wigs.
Some of us just miss the fullness we once had.
After years of hair loss from aging, stress, genetics, and everything in between I’ve learned this:
Beauty doesn’t leave you when your hair thins. Confidence does.
And that’s what I’m taking back.
Whether you rock a wig, your natural coils, braids, or a sleek pixie… just remember:
You’re not less woman because your strands changed you’re more woman because you didn’t.
Keep showing up. Keep shining. Keep loving yourself all versions of you. 💫
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✨ New video alert! ✨
Ladies… sometimes we just need something quick, cute, and no stress — and this Vivica Fox 2-in-1 Ponytail with Bangs is it! 💁🏾♀️
Perfect for days when you want to look polished without the drama. It’s light, stylish, and gives you that put-together confidence in minutes.
🎥 I just uploaded the full short — go watch it now to see how I installed it and styled it both ways!
#LivingIrving #VivicaFoxHair #PonytailStyle #ProtectiveStyle #QuickHairstyles #ConfidenceQueen #BlackGirlStyle #BeautyMadeE
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Clown? No, baby — Crown. 👑
Black women’s hair isn’t a joke, it’s a journey.
It’s style, survival, and self-love braided together.
Agree or disagree? Let’s talk about it below. 💬
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