A home for ace, aro and agender education.

Ace Dad Advice is a channel devoted to providing approachable education on asexual, aromantic and agender lives. This is also a home for practical advice and encouragement to help you live your best aspec life.


Ace Dad Advice

Hey Indiana! I'll be in West Lafayette at Main Street Books for Independent Bookstore Day! Come by! I'll be signing and hanging out and supporting indie bookstores!

1 week ago | [YT] | 104

Ace Dad Advice

There are questions you can ask to help you determine whether or not a new therapist is an affirming fit.

Read it: acedadadvice.substack.com/p/how-do-i-figure-out-if…

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 103

Ace Dad Advice

Being aspec expands our relationship possibilities.

Read it here: open.substack.com/pub/acedadadvice/p/i-asked-for-a…

2 months ago | [YT] | 136

Ace Dad Advice

I'm starting a weekly informal survey of issues related to aspec wellbeing. I'd love for you to participate! This week, I've got 5 questions relating to healthcare interactions and disclosing your aspec identity. It's all anonymous, and I'll share the results on the weekend!

Take the survey here: forms.gle/A8LERfQjrHSSXN829

2 months ago | [YT] | 76

Ace Dad Advice

Did you know I've got an Ace Dad Patreon? Things are tough out there right now for queer educators like me. Your support on Patreon would really help me continue doing the work I do educating folks about the ace and aro communities. Plus, you'll get access to some cool bonus content and cooler community.

There are annual memberships that give you a little discount. Your support would help me out a lot. Hope you consider joining us there.

Check it out: www.patreon.com/acedadadvice

2 months ago | [YT] | 85

Ace Dad Advice

Today is the official pub date for the audiobook for THE ACE AND ARO RELATIONSHIP GUIDE! You can get it wherever you get your audiobooks. And you can request your library to add it to their collection.

I'm so excited to have this in the world, because it makes the book accessible to more readers. And that's a good thing.

2 months ago | [YT] | 295

Ace Dad Advice

"If you don’t have anyone around you that’s supporting and loving your sex-repulsed aceness, YOU have to be the one to love it. You have to be your own cheerleader."

Read it: acedadadvice.substack.com/p/im-sex-repulsed-and-i-…

2 months ago | [YT] | 317

Ace Dad Advice

The January digital workshop is coming up in just over a week. Don't miss it!

Register: www.crowdcast.io/c/betterfamily

2 months ago | [YT] | 75

Ace Dad Advice

I'm thinking of making a group travel trip for aspec folks in 2025 and I need your help!

I want to design an aspec-affirming trip to somewhere great where we can build community and friendships with other aspec folks! So, I want to know where you'd want to go, what you'd want to do and that you'd be willing to come along!

Take a quick two-minute survey to help me figure out of this is a feasible idea and what you'd be most excited about. Let's plan an adventure together!

Take the 2-minute survey here: trovatrip.com/host/profiles/cody-4pgxe

4 months ago | [YT] | 140