Pastor Patience Cornelius Haruna

A BROKEN CHILD IS A RESULT OF BROKEN PARENTS


He/She didn’t wake up mean.
He/She didn’t wake up anxious.
He/She didn’t wake up saying, "Nobody loves me."

Someone taught her that.



The truth is no one wants to say out loud:

A broken child is not born broken.
A broken child is made in broken homes.

Not because you’re a bad parent.
But because hurt people hurt people.

HERE’S HOW IT HAPPENS:

1. THE SILENT TREATMENT
You shut down when you’re angry.
Now your child thinks: "Love disappears when I make mistakes."
So He/she becomes a people-pleaser at 9 years old.

2. THE YELLING/ EVERYDAY ANGER/ TENSION AT HOME.
You scream to be heard because no one listened to you growing up.
Now your child thinks: "I have to be loud to matter."
Or worse... "I should be quiet so I don’t get hurt."

3. THE UNHEALED WOUNDS
You were told, "Children are to be seen, not heard."
So you do the same.
Now your child thinks: "My voice doesn’t matter."
And at 25, he/she’s in therapy trying to find it again.

4. THE MARRIAGE WARZONE
You and your spouse fight, and the kids watch.
Now your child thinks: "Love is fighting. Love is walking on eggshells."
And that’s the template she takes into her own marriage.




It means parents have to look in the mirror.

But hear me:
AWARENESS IS THE FIRST STEP TO HEALING.

Your child is not the problem.
He/She is the product.
HE/She is the mirror.
HE/She is showing you what still needs healing in YOU.

BUT THERE IS GOOD NEWS:

BROKEN CYCLES CAN END WITH YOU.

You can be the parent who says:
"The cycle stops here."
"I will heal, so my child doesn’t have to."
"I will go to God, to therapy, to prayer, so my baby doesn’t inherit my pain."

`Ezekiel 18:2` - "The parents eat sour grapes, and the children’s teeth are set on edge."
God saw this cycle thousands of years ago.

But `Galatians 6:7` - "A man reaps what he sows."
Which means: You can also sow healing.



So today, before you correct her...
Ask: "God, what in me is making me react like this?" I'm I correcting in love?

Before you yell or shout in anger...
Breathe and ask: "Is this about her, or is this about me?" How will this contribute to the Godly training am supposed to give my child?

Before you shut down...
Say: "I’m hurt, but I still love you. Let’s talk in 10 minutes."

Because a healed parent raises a whole child.
A whole child builds a whole home.
And a whole home changes a whole generation.


This hurt? Good.
That means God is trying to get your attention.

Tag a parent who needs to hear this.
Save this. Come back to it.
And let’s break the cycle together.



#Parenting #HealingGenerations #ChristianParenting #BreakTheCycle

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Pastor Patience Cornelius Haruna

HOW TO BE RICH

Biblical Principles for Building Lasting Wealth

God is not against His children prospering. Throughout the Bible, He blesses diligence, wisdom, integrity, and faithful stewardship. Wealth is not built by luck alone but through consistent application of Godly principles. Here are eight timeless keys to becoming truly rich from Genesis chapter one.

1. Have a Product, Service, or Handwork

Every wealthy person solves a problem. Money flows toward value. If you have a skill, product, or service that improves people's lives, you have created an opportunity for wealth.

Whether it is tailoring, baking, farming, teaching, consulting, graphic design, writing, hairdressing, carpentry, software development, or any other trade, become excellent at it. Don't wait for opportunities—create them.

Ask yourself:

What problem can I solve?

What value can I provide?

What skill can I develop that people are willing to pay for?

Your gift may be the key to your financial breakthrough.

2. Be Fruitful

God's first command to mankind was, "Be fruitful." Fruitfulness means producing results. Don't remain idle. Whatever you have in your hands should produce something useful.

Being fruitful means:

Developing your skills.

Increasing your knowledge.

Improving your products.

Growing your influence.

Becoming more valuable every year.

A fruitful person is always learning, improving, and producing.

3. Reproduction: Multiply Through Consistent Production

Success is not about producing once; it is about producing consistently.

A business grows when customers know they can rely on you. Keep producing quality goods or services repeatedly. Consistency builds trust, and trust creates loyal customers.

Multiply by:

Expanding your product line.

Training others.

Opening new markets.

Reinvesting profits.

Using technology to increase productivity.

Small consistent efforts eventually become great wealth.

4. Master Your Craft Through Repetition

Practice creates excellence.

The more you perform your work, the more skilled you become. Repetition improves speed, confidence, creativity, and quality.

Don't quit because you are not perfect. Every expert was once a beginner.

Read books, attend seminars, learn from mentors, receive feedback, and continue practicing until your work becomes exceptional.

Excellence attracts opportunities and opens doors that average performance never will.

5. Keep Them Coming

Never stop attracting customers.

Satisfied customers should become repeat customers, and repeat customers should become ambassadors who recommend your business to others.

You can keep customers coming by:

Advertising consistently.

Maintaining quality.

Innovating regularly.

Staying visible online and offline.

Following up after every sale.

Your goal should not be one-time buyers but lifelong customers.

6. Provide Excellent Customer Service

People may come because of your product, but they stay because of how you treat them.

Be respectful.
Respond promptly.
Be honest.
Handle complaints professionally.
Deliver what you promise.

Customers remember how you made them feel more than what you sold.

A smiling face, kind words, reliability, and integrity can keep customers returning even when competitors charge less.

7. Don't Be Greedy

Greed destroys businesses.

Avoid cheating customers, using dishonest measurements, inflating prices unfairly, or sacrificing quality for quick profit.

Build a reputation for honesty. Fair pricing and quality products create trust, and trust creates lasting wealth.

Remember that riches gained dishonestly rarely last, but wealth built on integrity stands the test of time.

Think long-term rather than chasing quick money.

8. Dominate the Market

Don't aim to be ordinary—aim to become the best.

Study your competitors and continually improve until your product or service stands out.

Dominate your market by:

Providing superior quality.

Delivering consistently.

Building a recognizable brand.

Solving problems better than others.

Continuing to innovate.

When people think of your industry, they should think of your name.

Great businesses are built by people who refuse to settle for mediocrity.

Conclusion

Biblical prosperity is not built on shortcuts but on diligence, wisdom, integrity, consistency, and faithful stewardship. As you create value, serve people excellently, remain honest, and continually improve, God can bless the work of your hands and cause you to prosper.

Never forget that wealth is a tool for fulfilling God's purpose, blessing others, supporting His kingdom, and leaving a godly legacy for future generations.

Scripture

"The hand of the diligent will rule, but the lazy man will be put to forced labor... In all labor there is profit."
— Proverbs 12:24; Proverbs 14:23.

"And you shall remember the Lord your God, for it is He who gives you power to get wealth, that He may establish His covenant."
— Deuteronomy 8:18.

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2 days ago | [YT] | 4

Pastor Patience Cornelius Haruna

THE WOMAN WHO PRAYED FOR A HUSBAND BUT WAS NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE

Every night, Esther prayed the same prayer.
"Lord, give me my husband."

Every January, she attended relationship seminars.

Every February, she posted:
"My husband is locating me this year."

Every wedding she attended became another prayer point.

One day, her aunt jokingly asked:
"Esther, if your husband appears tomorrow, can you cook for him?"
She laughed. "There's food delivery."

"Can you manage money together?"
"I'll learn."

"Can you forgive?"
She became quiet.

"Can you submit to correction?"
Silence.

"Can you handle disagreements without blocking him?"
Now everyone laughed.
Including Esther.

But deep down, she knew something was wrong.
She wanted a wedding.
But she wasn't preparing for a marriage.
She wanted companionship.
But she had not learned communication. She wanted a king.
But she had not become a queen.
A few months later, she met Daniel.
Kind, God-fearing, responsible.

Everything she prayed for. Yet she almost lost him.

Why?

Because every little misunderstanding became a fight. Every correction felt like an attack. Every disagreement ended with:

"Maybe we're not meant for each other."

One evening, after another argument, Daniel said something she would never forget: "Esther, thank you for accepting my proposal, i appreciate your willingness to do life with me , but i think we should go our separate ways and grow before considering marriage. Therefore, let's bring an end to this. IT'S NOT WOKING, GOOD BYE ESTHER"

Those words broke her. And led to her healing. She spent the next year learning. Healing, growing, reading, praying,changing.

Then one day, she looked into the mirror and smiled. She no longer wanted marriage because she was lonely. She wanted marriage because she was prepared to build one.

A year later, she married Daniel. And on her wedding day she whispered:

"Thank You, Lord, for not answering my prayer too early."

Three Lessons From This Story:

1. Preparation is just as important as prayer.
2. Marriage is not an escape from loneliness; it is a partnership that requires maturity.
3. Becoming the right person is as important as finding the right person.

Let's talk.

Which is harder: Finding the right spouse or becoming the right spouse?

Comment below with FINDING or BECOMING, and tell us why. Your answer may encourage someone today.
#storytelling #lovestory #post

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Pastor Patience Cornelius Haruna

BOOM!!!
SHORT DRAMA
TITLED: BREAK THE GUILT

BREAK THE GUILT 🔥

Guilt will NOT silence your prayers again.

Premiere today by 2PM
Saturday, June 20, 2026
On Pastor Patience Cornelius Haruna YouTube Channel

set your reminder

You are NEW. Your past is DEAD. 2 Cor 5:17

Share this. Tag 3 persons who need freedom 🙏

Click this to watch https://youtu.be/eP4KhXw-6Zc?si=DwWq2...

#BreakTheGuilt #PrayWithoutGuilt
#drama #movies #prayer
#post
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2 months ago (edited) | [YT] | 1

Pastor Patience Cornelius Haruna

THE PARABLE OF OBEDIENCE.

Brother Samuel had suffered from chronic stomach ulcer for 8 years. Pills, injections, hospital bills drained everything. He couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep, anger was his daily food. One night he heard a sermon: “Forgive, and you will be healed” based on Mark 11:25. He almost switched off the television. “Pastor doesn’t know Mr Garba who betrayed me,” he muttered. Mr Garba had stolen his money after entrusting him with his shop and scattered his family finances 8 years ago, he had not recovered fully since then. But God kept pressing: “Obey the principle. Forgive.” Samuel wept all night.

Mr Garba came a year earlier asking for forgiveness due to the guilt and the suffering as a result of his sinful actions, he was ready to pay back what he stole, But Samuel didn't want to see him then.

The next morning he obeyed. He called Mr Garba, swallowed his pride, and said “I forgive you. I release you.”

Something happened inside Samuel that same hour. The pain in his stomach eased. For the first time in years he slept through the night. Within 3 weeks he was eating normal food again. Doctors were shocked at his next test - “Your ulcer is gone.” Samuel testified with tears: “I chased healing for 8 years. The day I obeyed God’s principle of forgiveness, healing chased me. Even my world obeyed - My life is in an ocean of peace.

My Word to you today;
OBEDIENCE UNLOCKS BLESSINGS

💥Obedience positions us for God’s voice:
When we obey, He speaks direction + peace we can’t get elsewhere.

💥Obedience activates God’s protection:
God covers and shields us from danger through obedience.

💥Obedience invites God’s authority:
The world bows when heaven backs us. Disobedience breaks authority.

💥“If you are willing and obedient, you shall eat the good of the land.” – Isaiah 1:19
#obedience #devouthearts #post #SpiritualGiants #viral

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2 months ago | [YT] | 4

Pastor Patience Cornelius Haruna

Hi beloved ladies of the Most High God!

Tonight is special. We’re gathering for a time of encounter, encouragement, and fire under the topic: *“Fanning My Gifts to Flames.”*

The Bible reminds us in *2 Timothy 1:6*, _“Fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you.”_
Tonight, we’re not settling for dim, hidden, or forgotten gifts. We’re coming to stir them up, so what God placed in you burns bright for His glory. Come ready to be touched, challenged, and ignited.

Our speaker for tonight, *11th May 2026*, is *Mrs. Eunice David Yusuf*.
She’s a passionate woman of God, an accountant by training, a fashion designer and CEO of L’Eunique Empire, and a missionary with a burning heart for souls. Her love for women, teenagers, and children’s ministry makes her the perfect voice to speak to us tonight. Get ready to receive wisdom, inspiration, and a fresh fire.

And anchoring this is Miss Light Emmanuel*—a devoted child of God, teachable, sold out to His work, and a faithful servant in ministry. She’ll be guiding us through the evening with grace and excellence.

DEVOUT HEARTS
●Raising spiritual giants ladies.
●Raising God fearing women
●Setting hearts on fire

3 months ago | [YT] | 2

Pastor Patience Cornelius Haruna

SHORT DRAMA "THE PRESERVED GENERATION"

Cast:
Narrator, Esther, Friend 1, Friend 2, Youth Pastor, Group of Teens
Props:
Journal, phone, 3 pieces of paper labeled "App 1, App 2, App 3", mic/stand



[SCENE 1: ESTHER'S ROOM – NIGHT. Dim light. ESTHER sits on bed, scrolling phone, looking tired. FRIEND 1 and FRIEND 2 are on video call.]

NARRATOR:
Meet Esther. 16 years old. On the outside, everything looks fine.
But inside, she’s fighting 4 battles at once.

FRIEND 1:(on phone, laughing)_ Esther, why you still not posting anything wild? You’re so boring abeg!

FRIEND 2: Yeah! Everyone is cheating in the exam. One puff won’t kill you. Just try it!
ESTHER: (quietly)_ Guys, I can’t. That’s not me.
FRIEND 1: Whatever. You’re missing out.

[Phone hangs up. ESTHER sighs, holds head.]

NARRATOR:
Identity struggle. Peer pressure.
At home, her parents fight every night.
And in her mind… noise. Anxiety. Shame.

ESTHER:(writing in journal, voice breaking)_
“Maybe I’m just too broken to be preserved.”

[Lights dim. Beat. Sound effect: door opening.]



[SCENE 2: YOUTH SERVICE – NEXT DAY. Bright light. YOUTH PASTOR on stage with mic.]

YOUTH PASTOR:
Tonight, God has a word for a generation under attack.
Listen to 1 Thessalonians 5:23:
_“May the God of peace Himself sanctify you through and through… and may your spirit and soul and body be preserved sound and complete, blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.”_

YOUTH PASTOR: (stepping down, looking at crowd)_
Preserved doesn’t mean you’ve never been broken.
It means God refuses to let what’s broken define you.
He’s keeping you whole for His purpose.

[Spotlight on ESTHER in audience. Her eyes widen.]



[SCENE 3: ESTHER’S ROOM – 1 WEEK LATER. Time lapse. ESTHER acts out changes.]

NARRATOR:
Esther started applying what she heard.

[ESTHER mimes deleting apps on phone, crumples 3 papers labeled "App 1, App 2, App 3" and throws them away.]
ESTHER: (speaking to herself)_ Does this make me more like Jesus or less? If not… out.

[ESTHER kneels by bed, prays simply.]
ESTHER: God, I’m tired. Help me. Thank You for today.

[ESTHER stands, looks in mirror, speaks firmly.]
ESTHER: God of peace, make me holy. Preserve my mind, my heart, my body. I’m Yours.



[SCENE 4: TEENS CONFERENCE – 6 MONTHS LATER. Stage with mic. 200 TEENS seated. ESTHER walks up boldly.]

ESTHER:
I’m not perfect. But I’m preserved.
The enemy tried to break me with shame, pressure, and noise.
But God kept my spirit, my soul, and my body.
I’m not the girl who gave up. I’m the girl God is keeping whole for His coming.

[Pause. Room quiet. 47 TEENS stand up.]

TEENS TOGETHER:
I want to be preserved too!

NARRATOR:
That’s the story of The Preserved Generation.
It’s not the generation that never fell.
It’s the generation that refused to stay down…
Because the God of peace is personally keeping them.

ALL TEENS ON STAGE:
We are not too messy.
We are not too late.
We are not too broken.
ALL: _We are the preserved generation!_

ESTHER: (leading prayer)_
God of peace, sanctify me through and through. Preserve my spirit, soul, and body blameless until Jesus comes. I belong to You. Amen.

[Lights fade. Soft worship plays.]

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3 months ago | [YT] | 2

Pastor Patience Cornelius Haruna

IT’S TIME TO GO OUT AND REACH THE YOUNG ONES

Too many young lives are getting pulled into the depth and the clutches of the enemy before they even understand who they are. But God is calling us to go on this mission, to enable them make decisions now that they will never regret later.

Why now?
Because when teenagers encounter God early, their whole course changes.
- Healing and deliverance break chains before they become strongholds.
- Salvation and critical decision moments set their foundation right.
- Purity pledges and commitments guard their hearts and bodies for God’s purpose.
- Career, passion, purpose and self-awareness become clear when their eyes are opened to God’s plan for their lives.

Learning to live not living to learn.

It’s better to learn, then live than to live, make mistakes, and spend years trying to recover. We don’t want to waste destinies. We want to see teenagers who know themselves, know God, and walk in alignment with His plan from the start.

What will happen on this outreach?
Hearts will be stirred. Teenagers will hear that they are not forgotten, that God has a plan for them, and that it’s not too late to choose right. There will be moments of salvation, healing, deliverance, and bold commitments to live pure and purposeful lives.

Parents, teachers, believers – this is our moment to stand in the gap(pray,preach or partner)
Teenagers – this is your moment to hear God clearly and say yes to Him before the world shouts louder.

Let’s go out, because every young life rescued is a destiny saved, a family healed, and a generation redirected back to God.

“The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few. Therefore pray earnestly to the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into His harvest.”Matthew 9:37-38.

Let's go.. #devouthearts #outreach #SpiritualGiants シ #viral #viralpost @highlight

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3 months ago | [YT] | 5

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WHAT COMMUNICATION IS NOT IN MARRIAGE

💕 Communication in marriage is not criticism disguised as honesty. It is not correction without love, where every word cuts instead of heals. Say the truth but let it be in love.

💕 Communication is not hurtful words thrown in anger, demeaning words that shrink your spouse, or gaslighting words that make them question their sanity.

💕Communication is not silence filled with tension, where no one has space to breathe and the home feels like a battlefield.

💕It is not one person talking and the other shutting down, or both people speaking but no one listening.

💕When the only communication in your home is tension, sarcasm, fault-finding, and fear, then the marriage is sick.

💕A home where words are weapons will raise wounded people.

💕The same applies to parenting your children — they learn what marriage looks like by how we speak to each other. If all they hear is yelling, blame, and cold silence, we are teaching them a broken pattern. We must also learn how to communicate and correct our Children in a Godly way without breaking them.

🧡The solution is not to pretend or to keep enduring in pain. The solution is to go and talk with a marriage counsellor with your spouse.

🧡A sick home requires humility from both husband and wife, wisdom from a marriage counsellor, and ultimately healing from God.

🧡Communication in marriage should give life, not drain it

💥Proverbs 18:21says, _“Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.”

❤️ Let’s choose words that bring life to our homes.

❤️What is not communication will destroy a marriage. What is Godly communication will build it. Selah!

https://youtu.be/GbCDDiOfy8I?si=2f4SX...
Click to watch my testimony.

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3 months ago (edited) | [YT] | 6

Pastor Patience Cornelius Haruna

SEPERATING THE PASTOR FROM THE HUSBAND.

As a pastor's wife, it can be challenging to navigate the fine line between your husband's role at home and his role as a pastor in church. However, it's crucial for your spiritual growth, marriage, and ministry. Here's a powerful message on how to strike that balance.

"Hello, this is a message to all pastors' wives and pastors. I recently watched a video where a pastor's wife was seated in church while her husband preached about love, marriage, and forgiveness. She sat there looking at him with a bad attitude, condemning him in her mind and refusing to listen to the message. She felt the man, who was keeping malice with her at home, shouldn't be preaching about love and forgiveness in church.

I have a word for all pastors' wives: as a pastor's wife, remember he is your husband at home but your pastor in church. Don't let marital problems stop him from preaching the message God gives him. This doesn't mean a preacher should live a lifestyle contrary to God's word; Jesus taught and preached after doing (Acts 1:1). Sometimes, you might be given a message that blesses or addresses issues in your life and your hearers. This is why we must all be humble under God despite our titles.

Try to see him as a husband at home and settle marital issues privately. If communication isn't working, pray, seek godly counsel, and involve respected authorities to resolve the issue.
Pastor's should also trust God for wisdom on how to balance these two lives God has carved for them.

When you're in church, see him as your pastor. You're not attending another church; this is where God blesses you. Look at him with these eyes: "This is my man of God; God is speaking to me through him." Leave issues at home and clear your mind to be blessed.

Why you should separate this:

1. You don't want to miss God's blessings. People are getting healed and blessed, but you'll miss out if you refuse to see him as your pastor.
2. You need mental sanity to serve God wholeheartedly.
3. You will be able to treat every service and instruction given to you as from God.
4. It will help you respect his calling and the work God has given both of you.
5. You'll maintain a healthy relationship with God and your husband.
6. You'll be an example to others of how to handle conflicts and God's word.

At home, see him as your husband and friend, and relate accordingly. This is for your own good and God's blessing. Thank you, and God bless you."

Click this to watch my testimony.

https://youtu.be/GbCDDiOfy8I?si=3VDL4...

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