Valencia Unscripted

Welcome to Valencia Unscripted—where writing, wellness, and womanhood collide.

I’m a Gen X author sharing real-life lessons in real-time.
From book drafts to boundaries, creative healing to unfiltered truth—we talk about it here.

📚 Writing updates & author life
🧠 Mindset & midlife resets
🎙️ Live reflections & unscripted wisdom
💬 Real talk for grown women evolving

Currently working on my next book: The Auntie Diaries.
Stick around if you're ready to write your truth and live it too.

Books: Motherless Child (By Valencia Griffin Wallace) on Amazon
www.valenciagwallace.com

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⚠️ Medical Disclaimer: This content is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. If you need medical advice, please consult a medical provider.



Valencia Unscripted

What’s the most ridiculous thing someone’s said to you about menopause? “It’s just your hormones,” or “You’re too young for that”?

Drop the one-liner that made you roll your eyes the hardest—we’re talking about what not to say to a woman in menopause.

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Your imbalanced thyroid can throw off your entire menopause timeline, and it’s rarely part of the conversation.

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Am I feeling the weight of change in my body, my energy, my emotions? Yes.

Am I also embracing slower mornings, naps without shame, and peace over perfection? Also yes.

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I'm curious, what was the "weirdest" thing you googled because of menopause? 😅

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What would you say is the "weirdest" or most distressing perimenopause symptom you've ever experienced?

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Calling my fellow women over 40! What contents/topics would you love to see more of in the Akanni Collective channel? Drop them in the comments!

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Childhood wounds don’t simply disappear. They hide, wait, and resurface. In some cases, in hot flashes. In mood swings. In sleepless nights.

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You’ve shown up for everyone else. Now it’s your turn. This season is about finally putting yourself first, without the guilt.

Leave a ♥️ to manifest

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As you’ve grown older, what have you become more aware of?

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You’ve lived. You’ve endured. You’ve grown. And now, the healing gets deeper. Midlife isn’t a crisis. It’s a call to come home to yourself.

What are you learning (or unlearning) about yourself right now? Write them in the comments. Let’s hold space for each other.

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