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Is there a new version of self-care for couples?
In a @glamour Magazine feature, Thais Gibson was asked why there is a growing trend of couples getting beauty treatments together.
Read it here: www.glamour.com/story/couples-cosmetic-work
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Wondering if you’re stuck in a situationship? 👀 This Yahoo Life article features Thais Gibson on the signs to look out for: mixed signals, no clear label, and emotional inconsistency.
Learn all about what a situationship is, why they happen, and how to navigate them with clarity and confidence. ❤️
🔗 Read it here: www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/articles/know-im-situation…
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They pull away when things feel real...
Not because they don’t care, but because they do.
For Dismissive Avoidants, the closer the connection, the bigger the risk. Rejection, vulnerability, even joy, can feel threatening when you've spent a lifetime depending only on yourself.
In this post, we’re unpacking why Dismissive Avoidants pull away when they’re actually interested and what you can do to support the relationship without losing yourself.
Click the link below to unlock our How to Heal Any Relationship course FREE for 7 days (plus bonus lifetime access gifts!) and start transforming love from survival mode to connection mode.
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Includes tools for:
Setting boundaries without disconnecting
Healing the fear of emotional intimacy
Navigating vulnerability & rejection sensitivity
You deserve secure love, even if it starts with healing from the inside out.
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Tired of dating anxiety, mixed signals, or second-guessing every move?
Here’s how securely attached people show up in early dating 👇
✅ They don’t personalize every text delay
✅ They feel safe expressing boundaries & needs
✅ They share vulnerability without fear
✅ They stay present instead of defending old wounds
Secure people love from a place of clarity, not chaos.
Ready to become one?
Try our “Secure Attachment in the 6 Relationship Stages” course FREE for 7 days (plus bonus gifts!) and finally experience peaceful, connected dating, without the mind games.
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Ever feel confused when someone you love suddenly shuts down?
A securely attached person doesn’t chase or panic. They understand what’s really happening and respond in a way that builds deeper connection instead of conflict.
If you've ever felt abandoned, blamed yourself, or spiraled in anxiety when a partner pulled away, this is your roadmap to doing it differently. Save this for when you need the reminder.
Learn the 5 steps secure people use to stay grounded and connected, even when someone else isn’t.
Click the Link Below to get our Key Pillars to Create a Secure Relationship course FREE for 7 days, plus bonus gifts. It’s time to build the kind of love that lasts.
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Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free + Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good!
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“I’m not distant because I don’t care. I just feel safer alone.”
If you’ve ever loved someone who seemed cold, guarded, or hard to read, this post is for you.
Dismissive Avoidants aren’t emotionless—they’re protecting themselves from overwhelm and vulnerability.
This carousel gives voice to the hidden truths behind avoidant behavior, what they wish they could say, and what actually helps them feel safe enough to connect.
Swipe to understand how to meet avoidant partners with compassion without abandoning your own needs.
Which of these surprised you—or helped you see avoidance in a more human way?
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Get 7 Days Free + lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Intimacy course by Thais Gibson.
✅ Understand avoidant behaviors without taking them personally
✅ Learn to build trust and closeness with healthy boundaries
✅ Reprogram subconscious patterns that block intimacy
Limited-Time Offer. Enough Time to Complete the Full Course!
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“I want closeness… but it scares me.”
If you’ve ever loved a Fearful Avoidant, or are one, you know how confusing the inner push-pull can feel.
This carousel shares 6 things a Fearful Avoidant wishes you knew about their heart, their fears, and what helps them feel safe in love.
Because when we understand the need beneath the reaction, we stop taking distance personally and start building real intimacy.
Swipe through to learn what builds safety, trust, and emotional connection for the Fearful Avoidant attachment style.
Which of these 6 spoke to you most, either as the Fearful Avoidant or the partner?
Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today
Get 7 Days Free + lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Intimacy course by Thais Gibson.
✅ Heal intimacy fears like shame, inconsistency, and mistrust
✅ Learn tools to reprogram push-pull dynamics
✅ Build closeness that feels safe, mutual, and lasting
Limited-Time Offer. Enough Time to Complete the Full Course!
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🌟 Community Check-In! 🌟
We all have a unique set of personality needs: the things that make us feel most alive, fulfilled, and connected. Understanding them is one of the best ways to create balance in our relationships, careers, and personal lives.
What do you think your top 5 personality needs are?
Here are some examples to spark ideas:
Approval • Spirituality • Health • Romantic Relationships • Adventure • Service • Community • Exploration • Social Justice • Education • Comfort • Competition • Security • Self-Expression • Sharing • Emotional Connection • Learning • Family • Status • Entertainment • Social Connection • Freedom • Religion • Healing • Novelty • Impact • Nature • Creativity • Fun • Intimacy • Fitness • Achievement • Materialism • Discovery • Power • Leadership • Beauty • Recognition • Financial Growth • Attention • Personal Growth • Career Growth • Control
Not sure where to start? Our Discover, Embrace, and Fulfill Your Personal Needs Course walks you step by step to uncover your unique needs profile and how to meet those needs in healthy, empowering ways.
Drop your top 5 in the comments below! It’s always so inspiring to see the different needs that resonate most in our community!
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What’s one thing you wish you had more clarity on in your love life or emotional journey?
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Do you know what you really want and how to get it in life and love? The Needs Course helps you uncover and meet your core needs daily. You could win lifetime access + a free trial. Click the link below to try your luck and start feeling fulfilled.
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