Evie Lupine

Last chance to reserve your spot for the FREE online conference starting tomorrow, March 31st! Don't say I didn't warn ya. ;)

You can sign up for this conference from anywhere in the world. And if you can't make it to all 20 classes, consider getting a VIP bundle so you get access to all the class recordings.

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1 month ago | [YT] | 77

Evie Lupine

Don't forget about the FREE virtual summit that starts in just 2 days. Anyone can join from anywhere in the world! Don't miss out on this opportunity to learn about topics like:

- Sustainable CNC Relationships & Scenes
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1 month ago | [YT] | 91

Evie Lupine

I am SO excited to participate in the Dom Sub Living Summit again this year! This virtual conference is FREE to watch, and you can see some great classes from people like myself, Justine Cross, Sunny Megatron and more.

I'll be presenting a NEW class on sustainable CNC (Consent Non-Consent) dynamics AKA a "totally not friendly for YouTube" subject.

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1 month ago (edited) | [YT] | 124

Evie Lupine

okay y'all I am officially recovered from my eyelid infection, have a new microphone that works (!) and done with all of my other various schedule interrupting things 😮‍💨

that means I am taking VIDEO REQUESTS! ✨ I have a few heavy, long videos in the works and a movie review that's going to take 5ever to edit and get published, but I really need a break from that content. I have lots of ideas, but what do you want to see?

any pop culture stuff I should know about? maybe a Q&A? any weird takes from FetLife I should give my opinion on? lay it on me ⬇️

1 month ago | [YT] | 245

Evie Lupine

psst, did you know I'm teaching TWO online classes next week with Reign of Pain? Yep! This includes a NEW class all about primal play and my most popular class on masochism! Feb 22nd and 23rd. There are two full days of classes all focused on the wide, wide world of sadomasochism. 🖤

And if the scheduled times don't work for you, you can also get a recording-only ticket too. ✅

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2 months ago | [YT] | 230

Evie Lupine

Join me with Planet Midori TODAY at 2:00 PM PT for Consent Dojo. bit.ly/ConsentDojo-39 It's totally free, btw! :)

4 months ago | [YT] | 149

Evie Lupine

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5 months ago | [YT] | 109

Evie Lupine

Okay, everyone. We are going to talk about this once, and only once. I will say my peace, and then we will not be talking about this further.

I want to address what happened with the video from the other day in detail because I am seeing many people spread what seems like lies, and I want to clarify what I actually said; since the video is gone, I can't point to that. I also want to apologize where one is due.

Context:

If you did not see it, my video from the other day was about a viral TikTok series about a mom who wore a 24/7 BDSM collar, the first of which showed text on the screen stating, "Watching all of the hate videos on eternity collars knowing my mother has been wearing one for years and everything everyone is saying is true". In follow-up TikToks, further abuse perpetuated by this mother and her partner was outlined. The creator of this series of videos called on the BDSM community to speak about this issue and to bring awareness to it. I was asked repeatedly for my take on what happened by members of my community, so I made a video about it. I was disgusted by the abuse and the previous responses that had been made and wanted to speak on it. I also tried to investigate the context around the original viral video and what the "hate videos" it referenced were saying because the term "hate video" seemed troubling to me.

FIRSTLY: I want to apologize for not reaching out to this creator beforehand to let them know I was making a video. I messed up and created a lot of pain and discomfort by not doing that. I follow a general rule of thumb: if I speak on an issue involving a non-creator who goes one-off viral, I will let them know I am making a video and ask if I can cover the story. I did this with my recent "viral bruise story" video. If I am speaking about an issue involving someone who is a content creator and/or asking for people to talk about a story, I do not typically reach out. Especially when the story has gotten way, way more attention than I would get from my platform. I believe this is in line with industry standards on YouTube. The original viral video had 13,000,000 views and several follow-ups had view counts in the millions and hundreds of thousands as well. You may or may not agree that this is a good heuristic to follow, and I plan to reconsider it in the future.

More importantly, this is an apology that ONLY the original creator can reject or accept. I have already apologized in private, and that is what really matters. However, I want it to be transparent to my audience and others who see this that I believe I made a mistake in not reaching out ahead of time. It is not up to anyone else to determine whether or not I am 'forgiven' (though I do not ask for forgiveness), or whether or not what I did was wrong or hurtful.

The day the video was released I was shocked by the amount of attention it got. I woke up at 6 am to hundreds of comments, most of which were either supportive or critical (but in a productive way). Unfortunately, with the nature of social media, it also attracted a lot of what I will call kink-critical types, especially after I posted the link to the video on Twitter. I worked very hard the whole day from 6 am to 5 pm to try and keep the comment section in check. I had an endless stream of comments like, "These freaks should be sterilized," "Kinky freaks shouldn't be allowed around children," "What did you expect, all 'Doms' are just abusers," or "Kink is just an excuse, for men to beat women sexually." More of the same comments I talked about happening on TikTok, and even worse that got captured by the YouTube filter. Plus, many personal attacks about my voice and appearance that only existed to attempt to hurt my feelings. This mostly came from no-name accounts with names like "user_09242fsfl1f203". I am a tough girl, and those things don't bother me, but I don't want to have a comment section that devolves into attacking fellow commentators and trying to bait others to upset them. Eventually, I couldn't keep up with them. So that was already going on. I used this as the original reason I removed the video because the other creator wanted privacy, and I did not want anything that could even seemingly point back to them and encourage bad actors to dig around. Even if they had not asked me to remove the content, I was already considering doing so based on this harassment.

(continued in comments)

7 months ago (edited) | [YT] | 357

Evie Lupine

FYI: the video from earlier today has been taken down. It was growing way outside the audience I expected and attracting too much negative attention from the wrong side of the internet. I'll likely be reworking the video concept to be more general but hopefully still educational and raising awareness about an important issue in our community! Dare I say it'll be an even better 2.0? :)

Thanks for understanding ya'll. as you can imagine this means there will be an unintended blip in uploads while I work this out.

I have closed comments on this post due to further harassment. I don't like doing this, but I don't have the energy to moderate comments non-stop all day.

7 months ago (edited) | [YT] | 349

Evie Lupine

Today is the FINAL DAY to get your hands on the Kink Bundle! Offer expires at 11:59 PM PT tonight ✨

This is your last chance to get your hands on some amazing classes, courses, tutorials, and even some free premium apps ⏰‼️

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7 months ago | [YT] | 70