This is a channel on how to navigate toxic relationships in your life from a biblical, practical, and spiritual perspective.

WHO AM I?
Hi! I’m Shaneen Megji. It seems my whole life has prepared me to do the work I am so passionate about today. Let’s just say I had to swim in narcissistic waters for many years, in workplace scenarios, in my previous faith as a Muslim, in friendships, and even in the church. God truly doesn’t waste anything. Each and every experience and all the studies I have done help me in my passion to set people free from the bondage and oppression of narcissistic relationships, to help survivors of such pain regain their authentic selves and their hope in God’s good plans for them, and to re-educate the church around toxic leadership.


Shaneen Megji

Have you ever wondered how far you’ve come in healing from narcissistic abuse? 🤔💔

It’s easy to feel stuck, unsure if you’re truly making progress. But the truth is, healing happens in layers—some visible, some not.

I created a quick, insightful quiz to help you assess where you are in your recovery journey. It will give you clarity on the patterns you’ve broken, the freedom you’ve gained, and the areas where you might still need to grow.

👉 Take the quiz here: go2.bucketsurveys.com/sf/ddb7360a

Once you’ve completed it, let me know in the comments—did anything surprise you? What stage do you think you’re in?

You are not alone in this journey! 💙

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🚨 New Video Coming Today! 🚨

What if someone pretended to heal—just to manipulate you further?

Narcissists don’t just fake change. They weaponize their healing. They go to therapy, read self-help books, and speak the language of emotional growth… but instead of transforming, they just get better at controlling.

In today’s video, we’re exposing this deceptive tactic and breaking down:
✔️ How to recognize false healing
✔️ Why their "self-improvement" is a smokescreen
✔️ How to protect yourself from being gaslit by their so-called growth

⏳ Turn on notifications so you don’t miss it!

🔽 In the meantime, let’s talk:
Have you ever had someone use their “healing” against you? Drop a comment below—I’d love to hear your thoughts before the video goes live!

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When someone’s ‘vulnerability’ feels like a weapon, trust your instincts.
It might be pseudo-vulnerability—a covert tactic of control.


#EmotionalAbuse #Manipulation #Discernment

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What is your stage of recovery from narcissistic abuse? 🎯
Take this FREE 60-second quiz to find out what stage you are at in your recovery from narcissistic abuse. 🧑‍💻
Click the following link to take the quiz: go2.bucketsurveys.com/sf/ddb7360a ✍🏻

1 year ago | [YT] | 29

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Hi beautiful people,

I'm not dead :-), and you will hear from me soon. I care for you all and there is a video coming shortly. It is all about the 10 subtle signs of spiritual abuse. Stay tuned!

Bless you all!
Shaneen

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Recovering from a toxic relationship with a narcissist? Join me LIVE on November 8th at 1PM and 7PM EST to be equipped with 5 keys you can use right away to accelerate your healing.

If you've been feeling stuck in your healing, haunted by a traumatic past, and lost after an all-consuming relationship, this webinar is for you. There is hope. And there is healing. For YOU. Toxicity is not your destiny.

Register here! www.shaneenmegji.com/accelerate_your_healing_webin…

1 year ago | [YT] | 44

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Hello, amazing community!

Every week, you leave so many insightful comments and reach out with questions from the situations you face in your relationships. I wanted to take some time to specifically respond to your questions... so...

I'm thrilled to announce that I'll be going live next week to answer your most burning questions!
If you have a question on your mind, something you wish you could have asked after seeing a video, or a question about how to handle a certain kind of interaction, share it with me at the link below!

www.shaneenmegji.com/your-questions

Then come back on October 19th, at 12 PM EST to join me live!

I'm looking forward to your questions!

Remember, toxicity is not your destiny!

Shaneen

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