Tonyé The Selfcare Maven
As a Women’s Holistic Self-Care & Health Coach and Lifestyle Strategist for Black and poc women, I'm dedicated to decolonized self-care, wellness, and undomesticated living for Black women over 45 who are done with burnout and ready to reclaim their freedom. Here, we de-center patriarchy, challenge toxic narratives, and explore pathways to holistic well-being, moving abroad, and living life on your own terms. If you're ready to break free, prioritize yourself, and embrace a liberated, joyful lifestyle, you're in the right place. Share and subscribe to start your journey to self-care, liberty and radical wellness!
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Tonyé The Selfcare Maven
UPDATE: I’m rescheduling today’s discussion until tomorrow y’all! I will continue my discussion of why I don’t watch Tyler Perry movies and why you, as a Black woman, shouldn’t either! I’ll also be extending that to the ties that connect his film to white supremacy and patriarchy. Whew chile!!!
My generation of Black women have a lot of unpacking and deconstruction to do in order to level up and thrive in 2026! For years, growing up in SoCal in the 90s meant watching Black media, being surrounded by Black culture and the diversity of other culture and experiences. It’s only since I began the internal healing work of deconstruction and decentering of patriarchy and other systems of oppression as a Blackwoman, that I realized just how deeply harmful his movies were and continue to be, for Black women and girls.
Please remember that this ties into the context of decolonized selfcare as we move into 2026! Subscribe and double tap the notification button so you don’t miss the live session!Here are just a few resources to help you tap in, plus don’t forget to subscribe and comment to get notified about latest posts and videos!!
Resources:
1. bit.ly/SelfcareGuideBW
2. More on Selfcare for Black women (video)
bit.ly/SelfcareGuideBW
Book a consultation:
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Tonyé The Selfcare Maven
Later this week, I’ll be diving into why I don’t watch Tyler Perry movies and why you, as a Black woman, shouldn’t either! Growing up in SoCal in the 90s meant watching Black media, being surrounded by Black culture and the diversity of culture and experiences. It’s only since I began the internal healing work of deconstruction and decentering of patriarchy and other systems of oppression as a Blackwoman, that I realized just how deeply harmful his movies were and continue to be, for Black women and girls.
Later this week, I’ll be going live to take a deep dive into this in the context of decolonized selfcare moving into 2026! Subscribe and double tap the notification button so you don’t miss the live session!Here are just a few resources to help you tap in, plus don’t forget to subscribe and comment to get notified about latest posts and videos!!
Resources:
1. bit.ly/SelfcareGuideBW
2. More on Selfcare for Black women (video)
bit.ly/SelfcareGuideBW
Book a consultation:
bit.ly/SelfcareConsult
#tylerperry #blacktrauma #blackwomenhealing #selfcareforblackwomen #blackpatriarchy #systemsofippression #burnoutrecovery #womenover40 #genxblackwomen #decolonizedselfcare #blackcommunity
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Tonyé The Selfcare Maven
Join me tomorrow, 5/2/25 at 2:00 PM CST for a live session discussing 4 HACKS to make your job pay for you to get the selfcare you need! Living in a society that actively seeks ways to feminism your sense of self and wellbeing, is exhausting! That’s why it’s important, especially as a Black woman , to be strategic about getting access and the help you need to heal and protect your health.
Make sure you subscribe and follow my channel for more talks on selfcare, empowering Black women, travel and the undomesticated lifestyle!
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Tonyé The Selfcare Maven
Hey ladies! I’m postponing today’s live episode until tomorrow 4/10/25 due to some updates! Stay tuned be sure to subscribe and hit the notification 🔔 button to stay in the know. I’ll be talking at length about we engage in self harm when we don’t decolonize our selfcare and wellness practices. #BlackWomenHealing #Selfcare
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